Recently I was challenged by a crisis, which focused on the importance of utilizing LOVE as a powerful healing and problem-solving tool. The crisis was heart wrenching because it involved two people I dearly love and myself. When faced with raw feelings that have not surfaced, our emotions and thinking processes get blocked which sabotages any viable resolution. This occurred with us.

After this massive eruption, we found amongst the emotional debris, a huge wedge dividing us, made more difficult because we live together. In my book, The 24/7 Soul, I discuss our deep feelings of LOVE to help soothe and transform us. When I focus on LOVE during difficult times, it provides the answers I need by turning any situation into a new form of understanding, learning and personal growth.

Utilizing LOVE is the most spectacular tool for problem solving and restoring harmony. It is a pure gift available when we choose to use it. When I use LOVE for resolution, I visualize the situation surrounded by the Creator’s love and see beautiful soothing pink energy flowing over all. I state; “Divine Right Action is taking place in this situation right now!” I repeat this affirmation and see all involved coming together in harmony as it goes to God for resolution. If I think of the scenario in a negative sense, I release the thoughts by reinforcing the positive affirmation.

When I utilize love to heal I need to stay out of the details of the resolution. However, when I am involved in the emotion of a crisis, I have a tendency to place expectations on the outcome. During this crisis, I noticed some disturbing behavior. I was not only pushing my ideas onto the resolution, but I remained in the thought process details. I unknowingly caused myself great stress and anxiety. It hit me; “You don’t tell God how to do his job!” I had to step back allowing God to manifest the resolution without my interference. My only responsibility was to keep focused on the love for us and allow God to apply the healing balm. This love application dissolved hurt feelings & brought understanding to each of our perspectives, which initiated reconciliation.

When I realized the importance of stepping back and getting out of the way and allowing God, I felt at peace and knew that the resolution was manifesting. After the healing, the three of us were aware that our relationship had been educated and grew to new levels. We now have a new understanding of each other within our sometimes rocky, evolving but very loving relationship.

To turn any situation over to God; we need to let go by stepping out of the situation entirely. We need to be aware and refrain from sneaking back in by thinking through the details that we believe should take place. When we do not, we keep our perception of the result close to us, which blocks the resolution. This is how I am ACCUMULATING WISDOM.


Pat Massad

Joined December 2007

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