i am sorry if this offends you, really!
illus. "wikimedia commons":http://commons.wikimedia.org/w/index.php?title=Special%3ASearch&search=landmines&go=Go
inspired by this email that was sent to me:
Barbara Walters, of Television's 20/20, did a story on
gender roles in Kabul, Afghanistan, several years before the Afghan conflict. She noted that women customarily walked five paces behind their husbands.
She recently returned to Kabul and observed that women still walk behind their husbands. From Ms Walters' vantage point, despite the overthrow of the oppressive Taliban regime, the women now seem to walk even further back behind their husbands and are happy to maintain the old custom.
Ms Walters approached one of the Afghani women and asked, 'Why do you now seem happy with an old custom that you once tried so desperately to change?'
The woman looked Ms Walters straight in the eye and without hesitation said..."Landmines".