My ABC of Seduction

I want:
Anticipation and provocation
Build me up, but make me wait
Coveting pleasure principles: happiness of self rather than giving at your own expense
Deliberate and detailed attention precisely where I ask
Eye contact and mental connection
Fondness for imperfect flesh
Generosity and compassion for any sexual shame or shortcomings
Hands that touch me slowly, tease me
Imagination and opportunity for roleplay without judgment
Juxtaposition when I tire of something
Knowledgeable kisses on my throat, clavicle, pulse points and mouth
Laughter, sexy dirty words
Moments of breathlessness, exquisite tension preceding release
No means no: communication signals that require no further explanation
Oral sex for everyone
Poetry on postcards, or filthy texts and emails which make me blush and grin
Quick, hard sex in a deliciously discoverable location
Respect for my boundaries and what we each desire
Scented candles: lavender, vanilla
Teeth that nip and nuzzle my body until it’s tingling and beautifully bruised
Uncomplicated couplings, unencumbered from emotional blackmail
Valleys of our limbs to be discovered and delighted upon
Words which excite me, thrill me, never wound me
XXX porn (sometimes), not always, it can be tacky and ridiculous
Youthful enthusiasm at any age
Zoo-inspired fun: the cheekiness of rambunctious monkeys

I don’t like:
Arguments of no purpose or design
Being pushed and cornered into something, rather than asked openly
Conformity to 1950s visions of how a “real lady” should behave
Degradation and demeaning actions to spoil the fun we can share
Everything to be about you
Feeling foolish and forsaken, or scared of your response to my honesty
Girlish giggling to be mistaken for feminine wiles
Head-holding so you can control my movement
Intuition at the expense of open communication
Jeans which fall below underwear (on either boys or girls)
Kisses that feel forced, unkind
Listlessness and apathy in a bedmate
Meaning to be ascribed where there is nought but the sensory thrill itself
Nice at the expense of naughty
Overt displays of possessiveness and an ownership-mentality
Promiscuity to be equated to a lack of morality
Queer to be used pejoratively
Random behaviour when consideration is sought
Swallowing every time
Threats or intimidation – ever
Underhanded whispering to my friends or family
Vaseline: if you want something, let it happen in its own time
Words as weapons
X “marks the spot” pleasure seeking – too by the book for me
Your exhausting neediness to overwhelm my own sense of pride and self-love
ZzZzZzZs immediately following a sex session

My ABC of Seduction


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A while ago I was really impressed by the JonoCarrick poem The Art of Seduction, and have been experimenting with a lot of writing driven by alphabetical pondering. So this is an inspired by piece – with many thanks JC! And it also reflects a recent FB quiz I’ve completed on the ABCs of me!

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