Empower yourself with the likes of Dana Scully, and Gillian Anderson. Scully was bad ass and Gillian Anderson is even BADDER ASS-ER--her charity work, taking a stand for women's rights, being vocal about equal pay, etc... I know you want to be her. You can't. But, you can be YOU and still be awesome, by purchasing Scully Swag of course.
You might still be awesome without it, the Scully Swag. Nah. Buy some. :)