Stop Stalking Me!

So…I have a question for everyone out there. I’m an RA and there is a resident on my floor who is stalking me! Because our dorm is shaped like an L, he can see into my room from his. CREEPY. And then, because I’m an RA, I have to keep my door open. So he just pops his head in and stares at me. Shudder. And now he is knocking on my door, walking in, and proceeding to stand there, asking crazy questions. One of my friends was in my room when he shined a laser into my room. She thought it was creepy. I now kept my blinds closed. Not only does he stop in my room every single day, try to AIM me (I blocked him, but when he comes in, he sees I’m on AIM so I told him I was on invisible…I hate lying), but he has now started e-mailing me. I’m not sure what to do. I’m sort of his RA (he’s really my co’s) and I just don’t know what to do. He’s invading my space, annoying me to no belief and I just don’t know what to do. He makes hints so I know that he likes me. His best friend on the floor happens to be someone who is another on/off stalker. This guy tried to lock me in my room with him. Creepy. I’m so confused. I’m too nice to swear at him like another RA suggested, and I can’t yell at him. And I don’t want people to think I’m mean or something, but he’s kind of crossing a line…I mean, staring into my room to see when I’m there so he can come knock on my door? HELP!

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