Family should be trust. If the tribe has trust they are successful. They can thrive. Trust is the license for love, and love is the voice of God or nature saying, “Well done, pilgrims. You’ve strummed the cosmic chords and found harmony.”
Ah, family is the model by which society attempts to mold the harmonies into an orchestrated concerto of dramatic crescendos and elegant adagios, to fashion the successful crowning work.
While society rarely achieves even the glimpse of perfection, families often do. I may criticize my siblings, my children, my family…but you may not.
This is love.