Many Women in America and around the world lie to themselves when they are victims of Domestic Abuse by their spouses or partners. This Lie is not voluntarily but rather a symptom of a deep emotional and psychological damage of on their self esteem and the concepts of themselves.
I ask you all those girls and women dealing with Domestic Abuse and Domestic Violence if they really consider this mistreatment Love.
By excusing their partners they are just perpetuating this dangerous cycle of destruction and impunity. If this cycle is not stop, it will be transfer to the next generation that will take this behavior as normal, repeating the pattern by being the aggressor or the victim. This Violent Behaviors are learned and it’s imperative to stop them. Women should lear of their own value and realize that no one should impose their over them, much less in a violent and abuse manner.
I say to all MEN that we have the utter responsibility to see our couples as equals and respect their individuality and integrity. Love is not base on physical strength and domination, but rather cooperation and understanding.
And no matter our economical status, everyday struggles, no matter how difficult time have become. women are not our punching bags of the frustrations we might have. If we really love out women, we should treat them with respect and dignity. Love them for who they are and what they do.
That are not space for Violence and Abuse in LOVE, hitting your partner is not Love, just brutality.