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Mothers and Fathers
 by tori yule
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Disclaimer: This is not an indictment on anyone’s parenting skills. It is just an observation, and something that has worked for me as a parent.

Come mothers and fathers

Throughout the land

And don’t criticize

What you can’t understand
~
Bob Dylan

This beautiful boy is checking out the toe that he just hurt. I believe that to empathize with a child’s pain, or any other feelings that they have, validates their reality and thus enables them to know that what they are feeling is true. If they are told that it isn’t a big deal and that it shouldn’t hurt, this may cause them to doubt their own feelings. This I know from my own experiences.

Bay Shore, New York
United States

Edited in PS CS5
model my own
Background by
joessistah
textures by
Shadowhouse Creations

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Comments

  • Lissywitch
    Lissywitchover 3 years ago

    beautiful beautiful work Tori xx

  • Thank you so much, Lissy! I appreciate your comment very much.

    – tori yule

  • HamperRefuser
    HamperRefuserover 3 years ago

    Awesome! Long time no see!

  • Hi Nathan, Thanks for your great comment.

    – tori yule

  • Istvan froghunter
    Istvan froghunterover 3 years ago

    Gorgeous work Tori!

  • Thank you Istvan

    – tori yule

  • Debbie Robbins
    Debbie Robbinsover 3 years ago

    FANTASTIC!!!!! Wowza Tori… I love this.. :))))

  • What a great comment, Debbie and one I appreciate very much!

    – tori yule

  • Antanas
    Antanasover 3 years ago

    awesome work

  • Thank you Antanas

    – tori yule

  • Joseph T. Meirose IV
    Joseph T. Meir...over 3 years ago

    Lovely work and totally agree with your thoughts. While we don’t baby our 2 young children, we never tell them to “get over it” or “it’s no big deal” when they get hurt. We never discount and instead validate their feelings. It may just be a quick “Aw, I’m sorry” or a more thorough examination.

  • Glad we’re on the same page here, Joe. Thank you for your comment. Just wish you could make it down to Trillium in June.

    – tori yule

  • Berns
    Bernsover 3 years ago

    VERY BEAUTIFUL

  • Thank you Berns, I appreciate your support, and it makes me happy that you like this.

    – tori yule

  • F.A. Moore
    F.A. Mooreover 3 years ago

    He is beautiful and this is very sweet. Good point about feelings.

  • thank you, Your comment is very much appreciated.

    – tori yule

  • aspectsoftmk
    aspectsoftmkover 3 years ago

    hi tori….he is a beautiful boy..i love how you show the vastness of life..and the feeling of being able to reach out and touch his shoulder, understand the pain and give him unconditional love, and support of all that he is..you captured perfectly that inquisitive look on his face..what wonderful hair he has….:) great work my friend.. and tori, for you i wish nothing but happiness love and smiles for the day of moms and every other day.

  • Thank you, Terri, He is a beautiful and a great kid. He also has the most beautiful hair I’ve ever seen, except on my brother who is his father. I always appreciate your thoughts on my work..

    – tori yule

  • MaryLouF
    MaryLouFover 3 years ago

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