Balancing Self Acceptance
In March of this year, my husband Lynn and I had the great pleasure of meeting, sharing and being blessed by Lindsay Wagner (deeksha blessing), by participating in an experiential workshop, she calls “Quiet the Mind, Open the Heart”. In addition, I was further blessed by being invited to her home for a private session for several hours, where she re-awakened my knowledge of EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique) and also known by several other names. She also reminded me how our past experiences, with our inner file cabinets, color our perceptions of the world and our reactions to it. Like a particular incident that causes pain that we refuse to allow to heal, and even though we are very intelligent, our familial and/or societal upbringing, beliefs and responses can program us to react in ways that rob our joy in daily life. She helped me to explore my prior programming and shift my perspective beyond it, “to experience life as it is in the moment.”
One of the most profound gifts she gave me were the words upon this image, a new daily practice of mine ~ while touching just above the heart in a circular motion, I say each of these phrases three times, especially when experiencing any stress, but most often a daily mantra. It has had such a healing effect on regaining some power within my life, I thought I would share it here.
Image is a sketch of scales balanced, photographed and edited in photoshop7 with fractilius filter and text.
My hope and intention is that those that will benefit from this simple tool, will utilize and share it to heal themselves and others.
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Agnes McGuinness
This is a lovely image, Tk. Thank you for sharing your story, and for sharing this healing technique. I love the idea of the balance. I will certainly use this gift of yours, whether I’m stressed out or not. Sometimes we just need to get back to our individual selves. Agnes xx
tkrosevear replied
thank you Agnes, until we accept ourselves, don’t think there’s much chance of healing anyone else…;) xoxox ♥
cherylc1
Wonderful image and story Sis!!! Thanks you for sharing!!!! XOXO
tkrosevear replied
thanks sis, was an amazing odyssey to meet and be healed with the help of a hero ;) xoxox ♥
Keith Reesor
Wonderful words to live by Tammy!!
Marvelous heART!! :)
tkrosevear replied
thanks very much Keith, love ya my friend ;) xoxox ♥
JKKimball
Absolutely fantastic writing, lesson and art!
tkrosevear replied
thanks so much John, so appreciate your support ;) xoxox ♥
Susan Kimball
I’m familiar with EFT and some other energy healing techniques spiritually guided so your image really spoke to me and the beauty of your words. Thank you for this reminder of self healing-body mind and spirit.
tkrosevear replied
I studied EFT years ago and put it aside when clients thought it to be too simple to work, I was quite thankful for the reminder and appreciate your love and support Susan ;) xoxox ♥
Scott d'Almeida
stunning
tkrosevear replied
thank you very much Scott ;) xoxox ♥
midzing
fantastic work,,,, well done
tkrosevear replied
thank you very much Wendy, so nice to meet you ;) xoxox TK &hearts
Carol Berliner
Brilliant work I looooove it! pure magic! instant fav!
tkrosevear replied
thanks so very much Carol, your love & support is appreciated ;) xoxox ♥
WayoftheWarrior
excellent
tkrosevear replied
thanks so much Tony, hope you are enjoying a peaceful weekend ;) xoxox ♥
Rosalie Scanlon
Wonderful story and image, nice work.
tkrosevear replied
thanks very much Rosalie, loved her as an actress (bionic woman) and was awesome meeting her ;) xoxox ♥
Antanas
great job
tkrosevear replied
thanks very much Antanas ;) xoxox ♥
Lea Williams
Wow!!! What an amazing experience. The words are truly beautiful and “real”. Thank you for sharing your experience with everyone. I am sure that many will take something away from this and all for the better and their highest good. Thank you. :-)
tkrosevear replied
thank you so much Lea, I most certainly am hopeful for this ;) xoxox ♥
aspectsoftmk
sometimes simple is just the right answer…::)) as balance….and being more of stillness….as to listen to why…brings a smile..to my heart and peace to my soul…love this sis…xoxoxox
tkrosevear replied
thank you for the echoes sis ;) xoxox ♥
Tove
Thank you so much for sharing this! You are very lucky to have that experience :-)
tkrosevear replied
lucky, blessed and grateful Tove, thank you ;) xoxox ♥
blamo
Balance is the word …............Top stuff tk
tkrosevear replied
Cheers my friend and thanks ;) xoxox ♥
MyheART
beautiful sis…
tkrosevear replied
thanks so much my balanced sis ;) xoxox ♥
ToastedGhost
Extra cool idea!
Personally I would “Balancing Self Acceptance” vertically down the frame of the scales and in a typeface which as though it is inset into the scales…
Hell am a fussy old….
tkrosevear replied
thanks TG, don’t think you are fussy, you have always steered me in the right direction…still trying to master the whole text thing, but I’ll give it a shot ;) xoxox ♥
ToastedGhost
Great workshop you must have attended. Yes it is so easy to see our faults in glorious technic colour and our assets in monochrome!
tkrosevear replied
Yes, she noticed right off the bat, that I was my own worst critic ;) xoxox ♥
Trudi's Images
This is wonderful tk, great image and thank you for sharing your inspirational words xx
tkrosevear replied
thanks so very much Trudi, it was an amazing experience ;) xoxox ♥
Alison Pearce
Wonderful!!
tkrosevear replied
thanks sis, love ya lots ;) xoxox ♥
ToastedGhost
I have a poem, in fact 2, about our inner critics. I should post them sometime
tkrosevear replied
yes, TG you should post them ;) xoxox ♥
Joyce Dickens,...
This is really talking to me Tammy; thank you for sharing such a wonderful and meaningful experience…...I love the scales for this…..thank you Sis! xxxx JD
tkrosevear replied
thanks so much Joyce, couldn’t resist the scales (I’m a Libra)...;) xoxox ♥
joyousmoon
Gorgeous, thanks for sharing this sis…we all could use to find more balance in our lives on a daily basis! Love it! xoxox
tkrosevear replied
thanks so much my spirit sis, was so moved to create and share this ;) xoxox ♥
Hope Ledebur
I love motivational illustrations. You’ve done a really nice job on this…Hope
tkrosevear replied
thanks ever so much Hope, these kinds of illustrations are plastered all over my office ;) xoxox ♥
Lucindawind
wonderful words to live by …. past lives I believe influence this life for sure
excellent work sis xxxx
tkrosevear replied
aw, thanks Elaine ~ we are influenced by so much today, mixed with the past & present makes for an interesting society ;) xoxox ♥
Christopher Bi...
TK as always i find myself viewing your work when i really need your inspiration. thank you for this wonderful moment. :)))))xxx
tkrosevear replied
thank you Christopher, love seeing your smiling face ;) xoxox ♥
Rose S. Williams
Dear TK…Hmm, is it no wonder that these piece of art appeals to the Libra in me? :-) Excellent work, the affirmation here is certainly one I need to remind myself everyday. We are all blessed to have your wisdom shared with us here…I know I certainly feel I am.
tkrosevear replied
awww, Rose ~ thank you so much for the purchase ;) love ya sis ♥

Judi Taylor
Thank you for sharing this, Tammy. It is a good mantra … Grandmother Pathweaver asked me about you …. I will call you and tell you about it …. soon.
tkrosevear replied
thank you sis, she must know of our bond ;) xoxox ♥
mrscarlotta
Linsay Wagner you say, how lucky are you, blessed my gorgeous Sister this is one special piece, xxxxxxxxxxxx
tkrosevear replied
yes, the one and only, a truly real and inspiring hero of mine from long ago ~ odyssey complete with the meeting and healing ;) love ya sis xoxox ♥
DonDavisUK
Speaks to me of the justice to come. Marvellous work and words. Don.
tkrosevear replied
thanks so very much Don, as a Libra, justice is my nature ;) xoxox ♥
Polly Peacock
Sis, ya know I just love it – there is nothing better than to tell yourself that you love you truly and sincerely – and so you should! Life may not always be balanced, but so long as harmony exists then the love will flow in the here and now!! Beautifully done! I am so thankful that you met with Lindsay and that you had such an awesome experience with her teachings, as you share them with the rest of us!!! Love ya sis!!!! xoxo!! :))))))))))) big smiles!!
tkrosevear replied
thanks sis, gotta remind myself all the time ~ I too am thankful for the meeting/healing ;) xoxox ♥
Solomon Walker
its an exceptional work of art, and nice to know the inspiration behind it too…
tkrosevear replied
It was an inspirational experience to be sure Solomon ;) xoxox ♥
ArcadiaTempest
Tammy thank you sharing this with me….....these scales would never fit on the crude shelf of a hardware shop…..they are too precious for that. A visual like this has such a positive affirmation to visualize….I gratefully take them with me today….and will call upon their balance as I need. I just gotta remember….that is mostly my problem I find…remembering. XXX
tkrosevear replied
as is mine my friend, have to remind myself constantly ~ felt very moved to share this with you KS, love to you always ;) xoxox ♥