Bits of Wisdom
Don`t take anyone that is hungry shopping !!!
( including yourself, unless you have a fat wallet )
Don`t count on something whole-heartededly.
This way if it doesn`t transpire you won`t be disappointed.
If you say I would like to do something,
( ie: vacation, movies, remodel, meet, buy.. ect,ect.. )
but it is ok if this something isn`t done.
Then you will have much less stress.
Remember whatever will be will be.
Surrender control to God, he has it anyways !!
For it is his will be done, not yours or mine, if you pray!!
We are not fortune tellers, or we would be rich!!!
However we can predict a persons reactions…
If we know them quite well ( in most cases ).
For most people are habitual and have a routine of some sort.
Also, we know what we would do in most situations.
Therefore some reactions are natural or human nature.
When shouted at we may anger, or be hurt.
When hit we may cry, cringe, cower ..walk away.. or fight back.
All natural reactions.
Worry over something that hasn`t transpired…
is a waste of time, and tears in some cases.
It only causes the bearer pain…
and doesn`t change the outcome whatsoever!!
So, it is like crossing a bridge when you get to it.
You can`t tell what is on the other side of it,
until it is in view… or you get there.
Sometimes what you expect to see… or happen… never does.
If someone doesn`t want you, and you love them.
…It isn`t the end of the world, Although it may seem so.
They aren`t worth your tears.
They are probably going out having fun and laughing.
Why waste your love on someone that doesn`t care?
Wish them well, and get on with your own life.
It wasn`t meant to be.
Be happy for the time you had together.
For they created many fond memories.
We all come into one anothers path in life for a while.
When we are no longer needed… we move on.
When the right person comes along, if they do…
nothing will come between you.
Holding grudges… they only hurt the person that bears them.
You might think they hurt the other person.
Well, they may at first…. As time passes on..
It eats away at you… in the long run…
You will be the one that suffers the most.
Life is for love, not hate.
Life is for the living.
So live life, for it is so short.
We are all here on borrowed time.
No matter what age we are.
God gave us time to share, use it wisely.
Don`t say I should`ve went out to dinner more,
or visited more, talked more,
danced more or kissed more..
or loved more, vacationed more….ect, ect… do it!!
You can be the healthiest person and wham..
in one instant something can take your life…
( ie, Car accident, plane wreck, freak accident, drive by shooting, road rage.)
Or worse yet… the life of the one you wanted to do more with.
Hug today, stop take time for that long passionate kiss.
Take that walk in the woods, Go fishing by the stream,
Dance in the wind, or by the moonlight.
Lounge by that beach. Smell the scent of the ocean,
Hear the sounds of the waves washing up on the shore.
Feel the warmth of the sun on your skin.
Go to that cabin… smell the firewood burning.
Watch the embers glowing, the flames flickering.
Feel the warm glow around you. Watch the snow outside.
Ski the slopes if you care to.
What are you waiting for?
Time waits for no one…
Death awaits us all.
Starr B. H.
Personally I wished I`d have danced more when I still could dance.