The Choice
Thirteen years ago I tragically lost my greatest friend….. and subsequently almost lost myself.
But somehow; after a very long time; I made a choice….. to live.
I’ve never regretted my decision.
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kathy s gillen...
beautiful work
Rosemary Scott replied
Thanks Kathy :)
vonderzenn
Very strong image and story!
Rosemary Scott replied
Thanks very much :))
midzing
very powerful work Rosemary,,, I am sorry for your loss,,,, beautiful tribute to your friend,,,
Rosemary Scott replied
Thanks Wendy…. I’ve wanted to do something for a long time, but didn’t know what….. glad you like it :))
AndyGii
I can relate to the choice and to the being worth it. Well done Rosemary. This shot is a fine tribute
Rosemary Scott replied
Thanks Andy…. we all face tough decisions….. part of life I guess :))
Libby Bennell
Very touching…
Rosemary Scott replied
Thankyou Libby :))
Samantha Lewan...
Very intense shot… fantastic
Rosemary Scott replied
Appreciate that Samantha, Thanks :))
Maria Medeiros
Rosemary! Beautiful piece. so powerful and strong. I am sorry for your loss. So sorry. I know what its like to loose someone special. You make beautiful and powerful art! Brilliant and keep going! :) your friend,maria
Rosemary Scott replied
Thanks fro your beautiful words Maria, I know you speak from the experience of loss…. I hope you’re beginning to heal xx
Ann Rodriquez
Not only is the texture and color perfect, but this is a super-powerful and emotive piece, Rosemary, with all of you poured into it; that’s what makes it so powerful. The viewer can just FEEL your heart. Amazing. A great lesson for us to remember and to follow after in the midst of pain. Choose life.
Rosemary Scott replied
What lovely things to say Ann, Thankyou so much. I’m so pleased you feel the image reaches you….. I struggled over whether or not I should explain what the image is about…. I wasn’t sure if people would see it’s meaning without explanation. I eventually decided to add the words simply because I always like to share my thoughts. I can’t help myself!!! LOL
navybrat
Rosemary Scott replied
Woo Hoo!!! I think this is my first feature for this group…. VERY EXCITED!!! Thanks navybrat!
Shelly Hiebert
Wow Rosemary….this packs a heavy punch. There is so very much emotion and feeling in this image and I think it really speaks for itself. Wonderful, moving image :)
Rosemary Scott replied
That’s so good to hear Shelly, I never know if others will see what I’m getting at. Thankyou so much.
Colleen Milburn
Extraordinary work, Rosemary.
Rosemary Scott replied
Thankyou so much Colleen :))
Cora Wandel
Lovely work, Rosemary. You should consider joining the group ImageWriting.
Rosemary Scott replied
Thankyou Cora, I wasn’t aware of this group, I’ll join straight away :))
JUSTART
great work
Rosemary Scott replied
Thank you justart :))
Ric Alexander
Such sadness in the words and image, but it is beautiful, As i imagine your friendship was. Good work Rosemary.
Rosemary Scott replied
That’s so nice of you to say Ric. It still makes me sad after all these years….. Thankyou :))
Catherine White
A wonderful image with poignant words.
Nancy Stafford
Ann Rodriquez
I hear ya – I’m a ‘words’ person myself. : ) Good on ya for choosing to share!
Rosemary Scott replied
Glad you’re with me Ann, Thanks!
Kim Calvert
Such a powerful image Rosemary, thank you for sharing this!! and congrats on the features..it is so well deserved.
Rosemary Scott replied
I’m so pleased you like it Kim, Thankyou so much :))
Margaret Harris
Beautiful image and story!!
Rosemary Scott replied
Thankyou Margaret, really appreciate it :))
collectivebydeb
Dear Rosemary – I remember you telling me of the loss of your closest friend back in Feb when so many were dealing with the shocking fires – its so sad to see the pain that loss leaves behind – your image is a beautiful dedication & your choice to ‘live’ is a blessing to all those who are close to you – you are such a special person – your friend would be SO proud xx
Rosemary Scott replied
Oh Deb, you’ve said such beautiful things and really moved me….. I’m so touched that you remembered our conversation. Thankyou so much for your beautiful words xx
Caroline Fournier
Wow … you’ve left me speechless. This is so poignant! Great job Rosemary!
Rosemary Scott replied
Thankyou so much Caroline, I’m pleased that this touched you :))
Megs D
Great photo! Beautiful story. Happy you decided to live. The world will be better for it. Much love x
Rosemary Scott replied
That’s very nice of you to say megs, Thankyou :))
micklyn
Powerful and moving.
Rosemary Scott replied
Thanks so much micklyn :))
CarolM
Your story and you image are dramatic and powerful. Very emotional. Excellent work, Rosemary. Loss is one of the hardest things for us to face. God Bless.
Rosemary Scott replied
Thanks so much for your kindness Carol, I greatly appreciate it :))
hsien-ku
the right decision – and not an easy one – it takes so much more courage to go on living than it does to give up. this is a beautiful photo Rosemary. And it speaks volumes that you have had the strength to keep her photo, to look at it and not crumble. This photo reminds me of the true meaning of ‘grace’.
Rosemary Scott replied
You’re so right about courage…. choosing to face the aftermath, knowing that I’d have to live with the memories was very difficult…..
Thankyou so much J for such kind words :))
dvande1
Very moving Rosemary! Glad you made the right choice even though those are sometimes the hardest ones to make…............
Rosemary Scott replied
Thankyou dvande…. in the end it was the only choice :))
Wendi Donaldson
WOW….this is very powerful,, Rosemary. Losing such a life connection is certainly life-altering. Your friend would be very proud and pleased to know you’ve continued on and are following your passion in photography. Beautiful tribute.
Rosemary Scott replied
You’re right Wendy, I think she would be proud of me…. Thankyou for such a lovely comment :))
Lois Bryan
bless your heart, Rosemary. I’m so sorry for your loss … but I celebrate your choice to move forward with your life!!! What strength and courage it must have taken to create this image and revisit your pain … and to open yourself up in this way. I applaud and admire you!!!!!! A beautiful image … and a beautiful tribute to your dear friend!!!!
Rosemary Scott replied
Sigh….. Lois, you’ve said such beautiful things…. Thankyou so much for you kind & touching words….. all greatly appreciated :))
ltruskett
good choice ….............. and beautiful sentiment…........
Rosemary Scott replied
Thankyou very much :))
terugvanver
good work
Rosemary Scott replied
Thanks Henk :))
woof
sorry for your lost!!! very powerful image!!
Rosemary Scott replied
Thanks woof :))
LTPhotography
Lovely work, unique
Rosemary Scott replied
Thankyou so much, I’m pleased you like it :))
GiGee
A beautiful piece, your friend would be so proud of you.
Rosemary Scott replied
Thanks GiGee, I hope so :))
susi lawson
bravo to you for the right choice, the world needs your beauty!
Rosemary Scott replied
Thanks Susi, that’s so nice of you to say :))
KcranmerArt
Rosemary, I can’t even begin to explain how emotional this image is…so sad yet so perfect in so many ways…it will lead as a constant reminder of how fragile life really is!!!
Rosemary Scott replied
Thankyou so much Kellie….. knowing your personal familiarity with the fragility of life makes your comment all the more special to me….. I’m so pleased & honored that this touched you :))
Tracey Mac
I’m sure your friend has her hand on your shoulder for all time and she would be the proudest of your strength and determination for life.

A beautiful poignant image Rosemary and a special keepsake to remind you of how very precious friendship and life really are.
Hugs
xxx
Rosemary Scott replied
What a beautiful thing to say….. Thankyou so much Tracey, Your words have really touched me :))
parmi
You have done such an incredible thing in creating something so meaningful and beautiful from this. Your friend would be so proud of you for doing this, it takes strength and courage to face and manifest such emotion into creative energy. I feel your pain, it never really goes away, but stay strong Rosemary.
Rosemary Scott replied
You’re right Andrew, it never goes away….. but thankfully time helps….. it’s not so raw anymore. Thanks for your lovely thoughts Andrew, I really appreciate it :))
Susan Zohn
Rosemary, I haven’t been around lately but I happened on this shot and it hit me. This is such a great tribute. I lost my Mom almost a year ago this month and though the pain never goes away making this tribute is helping you and showing your love to your friend. It’s healing and you did an incredible job of creating emotion. Thank you because I feel as though I needed this one as well because I feel as though I have lost a part of myself since my Mom has left. This is so helpful. What a treasure you have made.
Rosemary Scott replied
Oh Susan, such lovely words….. yes, the pain never goes away. I’m so sorry you lost your Mom…I’m pleased this has been a help to you.
It’s been such a help to me. It had been a long time coming…. I knew all this time that I had to do something to honor my friend, but nothing seemed fitting until the day that the idea for this came into my head….. then I knew it was the right thing to do.
Stay strong my friend :))
Anne McGinn
What a touching and beautiful image – it tells a great story of love and remembrance. Choosing to live is a good choice – xxoxoxoxoxo
Rosemary Scott replied
Thankyou Anne….. your words are very touching, I really appreciate :))
Julie Marks
An outstanding image reflecting the heartbreaking pain of loss. I lost
one of my best friends several years ago and felt devastated when
we knew she could not survive the cancer she so valiantly challenged.
Choosing a poem by Rumi (Autumn Rose Elegy) that I posed as part of
the narrative of my photograph, strange autumn rose is etched in my mind.
You made the right choice and have so much to give to others that
will benefit from the profound experience of losing your best friend. This
image would fit very well in the group I host on RB, the healing journey,
a group of very talented artists, writers and poets who have also dealt
with the loss of a loved one. My photograph “Lifetimes” also deals with
the life cycle, particularily relating to books for children that deal with the
death of a loved one. You may know of the groundbreaking book, On Death
and Dying written by Helen Kubler Ross. I hope you post this wonderful
image in the healing journey and I look forward to viewing more of
your portfolio.
On Death and Dying.
Rosemary Scott replied
Julie, Thankyou so much for your insightful comment. I’ve been somewhat surprised by the attention this image has received. When I created it I never expected it to touch so many….. I did it to help myself move on. It has been so touching to see how many have been moved by this, & it warms me to think that my little piece of art might help others heal too. I have added the image to your group. Thankyou for making me aware of it….. it’s a wonderful thing you’re doing, & I’m sure it has helped many in their journey through the pain to healing.
Many Thanks Julie :))
CLICK58
Moving image….so glad you made the right choice and are now blessing us with your beautiful art…;} Barb
Rosemary Scott replied
What a lovely thing to say!! Thankyou so much Barb :))
Zoraida Pesante
Very powerful image and words! Very happy you moved on with your life!
Rosemary Scott replied
Thanks very much Zoraida, I’m pleased it touched you :))
CLICK58
YOU…are so very welcome….this image just touches me more deeply every time I view it….....just had to tell you I hope you are happy with your life now…..you’ve obviously touched many people…. xo
Rosemary Scott replied
Yes, my life is wonderfully happy now, & I’ve never had cause to regret my decision to move on. Your kindness has touched me greatly Barb, Thankyou so much :))
CLICK58
so happy to hear that….xo keep up the beautiful art my friend ;}
silvercircles
Wow, such a moving picture . . .
Rosemary Scott replied
Thanks so much Silvercircles. I’m so pleased it touched you :))
Gemma Burleigh 6 days ago
Lovely work
Rosemary Scott replied 6 days ago
Many Thanks Gemma :))