You Shall be Missed
So our good friend Helen has finally been given the old iron-side and sac tossed down the river like so much discarded kittenry. To be perfectly honest, I’m surprised it didn’t come sooner, but was hoping it wouldn’t come at all.
The woman of course to whom I’m referring using the aformentioned link-thru to wit will not function, is none other than Helen Bascom.
In keeping with a ruddy good sense of giggles and silliness and something I know will probably make Helen piddle, I would like to offer the following rememberance as if the woman had kicked off; something I’m sure those who have snapped her guitar strings wish were true but will summarily be sacked for at a later date.
Now then…
Helen was a wonderful woman with nerves of steal. I say steal of course because I believe someone stole them while she slept and replaced them with guitar string. This lovely woman was to say, wound up like a balista, which was exactly what she would do in the case of her nerves being tested…that is to say, unleash a venomous fury the likes of which the old blck hearted one would get a chill at everytime she was pitted out of her cage.
Like an angry tiger being teased by an overweight brat at the zoo, Helen was always ready to tear out someone’s jugular all in the name of three things. The first and what some scholars who research the cause of the third world war is what was and will continue to be like warm milk and heroin to Helen: the truth. Truth as it would be seen in the eyes of the many is a fundamental thing, but lacks boundaries and comes in many forms, is open to interpretation and thusly maleable…Helen could not have this. Not to put too fine a point on it, if a man is black he’s been tarred and feathered and if he’s white then he’s been in the blasted freezer too long he’s gone bad! The second and what I myself consider more important than stolen cheese is: acceptance. Accepting the things in life and in others that are different from your own is the only way the human race will ever stop masturbating in the shower and start actually screwing each other out loud. Politicians practice the former all the time and the general publi is forced to bend over receive a proper fist fucking all in the name of discretion and liberty. The third is something I’ve never been able to confirm though I whole hearted beleive in: just a plain good time to be had by all. The woman loved a good fight and was always willing to whack you on your Jon Tomas for thinking bad thoughts about republicans when you should be filling up kerosine tanks when you think about them instead.
Now while Helen may not be missed by all, she will be missed and even those of you out there who despised the woman alongside the ones that do indeed miss her now, I have a charge for you. I say everyone that comments on this journal must display one reason they will solemly miss her and one reason they are glad to see her be gone. Comments in otherwise will be deleted and summarily cat sacked.
For those of you who actually do know Helen and are in her area, I have a favor of a different flavor. Slide over to her house with a bottle of Jim Bean, some advil and bottled water for morning and don’t forget a wooden ruler.
EDIT All fun and games aside, I won’t be deleting comments without the good/bad comment about Helen. This seems to have become a big issue with a lot of people on RedBubble and in the event that the forum thread gets locked, this journal will remain open…I hope.
NEW RULE: keep it clean and no attacks, otherwise, opinions are your own, feel free to share.
UPDATE
Apparently this is becomming quite a stirring issue!![]()
pointed this out in a journal link
Forum about ok, where is Helen?
Growing Concerns?
i would be afraid to complain about anyone if they bothered me now
MY PERSONAL STANCE ON SOME (LIMITED) RED BUBBLE POLICY
Bascom kicked out of The Tent for calling a spade a spade
Will be leaving us by tomorrow, his work has already been removed, anyone wishing to say their farewells best do it soon.
We will also soon be losing Terugvanver![]()
to quote him because his words will be lost when he deletes his account
Today is a very sad day in RB.
Very sad…
Today, my friend’s profile was deleted from RB.
Helen is my friend..
Her art decorates my wall..
Because her work was work with a message.
Like Blood Diamonds, a protest against the diamond mining slavery in Africa.
True, Helen can be rough, but I never caught her dishonest.
We play nice in RB, but sometimes things are so bloody wrong that one must speak up.
I’m not American and I have nothing against anybody.
I believe in freedom. Freedom of expression, freedom in art, freedom of movement, freedom of sex. freedom over the will to end your life, freedom of… and I can go on forever,
Think about this: we know our Sun was the product of interstellar dust, created by several supernovae. Gravity pulled it in and what escaped the pull of what became the Sun and was big enough, ended up in planets, moons and asteroids. Much of what we have on Earth, our tiny speck of dust in the Universe, was there from the beginning.
We came from dust…. True, new research shows essential building blocks for life like aminoacids were brought here by comets and asteriods.
Yet it all has the same origin.
Why this bla bla about this?
Because, when you really think about it (yes.. switch of tv, internet, radio and mobile phone for a while)... every living thing on Earth is born in absolute freedom!
To say it in a funny way… when you are born, you are assumed to follow the rules of that country without ever been asked if you want to comply to them (no.. am not preaching anarchy here at all..).
Helen is a person who understands this principal right very well.
And yes… many times she has been insulted and shouted back.
Hell.. we are human beings and we should take full advantage of our brain functions.
You know, somehow we are expected to rule by our Neo-Cortex only but NO.. we have that basic limbic system in our head which defines our emotions.
It’s part of every living creature (besides the point we, humans, show very louzy control of higher brainfunctions, resulting in greed and suffering).
And so, at the end of my debate and support for Helen..
I cannot be part of a system which violates our principal right of Freedom of Expression.
Be well my friends…
Some have my email address.
My website is www.stolkphotography.com.
Photography is my passion, based on principals like freedom.
Always…
Take care..
Will wait until tomorrow to exit the bubble.
We have also now lost: Roy Barry![]()
We will also soon be losing: Aaron Schwartz Bye![]()
We will also soon be losing: Gingy![]()
Say goodbye to Marion Cullen Knee Jerk is Not my Style![]()
Others now lost:
Exultation
labelladame
Earthmonster
Bring your own glasses please for the whiskey. Helen hates to do dishes. :)
RPGesus replied
good spirits now, but Monster you will have to say 1 reason you’ll miss her and 1 reason you’re glad she’s flown the coup
Earthmonster
Well thats easy. I’ll miss her fiery spirit, sense of humor and friendship. On the other hand I won’t miss her biting commentary on guys like Glenn Beck lol
RPGesus replied
nice
Sally Omar
Love Helen…and am really upset….xxoxoxo
Helen was a big part of RB…a woman of intelligence, humor and heart who often was
harassed for her opinions!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! xoxoxoxox
RPGesus replied
yes yes, but you forgot something bad to say!
think of this as Irish day “honey you’re the love of my life, but you fart in your sleep and sneak out at night to snuggle with the sheep”
lol
Sally Omar
Sorry, Helen and I have been to hell and back together…there is not one word, even in jest,
that I can say about her…but your reply to me did get a chuckle!!!!! xooxox
RPGesus replied
I guess that’s close enough for you Sally (laughing in her absence), not really a jab in the ribs, but it’ll do ;)
funkyfacestudio
I will miss her feisty passion,dedication,art and her friendship ! I won’t miss her girly frilly over the top pinkie sticking out tea drinking skirt wearing weak shell of a person that she was LOL
RPGesus replied
HA!
Vim Lowenstein
what do we expect, all the interesting people on here get kicked off.
FUCKING SHIT
a small minority throw their arms up and the weak moderators here throw all regard for
art and free speech out. we may as all just stick to taking photos of horsie’s and flowers
and all safe subjects.
MESSAGE TO ALL:
FUCK ART
GO AND SELL INSURANCE
RPGesus replied
agreed…forgot the two things about Helen in the midst of your rant, good message though
Matt Penfold
I’ll miss Helen’s forthright approach and her total honesty among a million other things, I won’t miss her calling chips “fries”
Summary execution is deplorable and this is indeed a very shameful day :-(
RPGesus replied
chips fries, its all the same smothered in gravy and covered in Montreal smoked meat and cheese.
funkyfacestudio
Yeah ! I already followed the rules here but I forgot to say that this totally BITES!!!!!!!!!!!
Vim Lowenstein
Nancy Polanski and Co. must be celebrating hard over this news
heathens will not be tolerated
frogster
I only got to know Helen for a short time, but in that short time she showed me that she would not back down from someone going against her Country and President So the Glenn Beck and Fox News Worshipers that praise God and Sara Palin and only want positive comments giving almighty thanks and deleting comments not agreeing with their slander got their wish they got rid of Helen, so praise the Lord and bow down and add to the ratings of Glenn Beck.
The one thing I can say bad about Helen, she could hold her temper better than I can.
frogster
Oh Helen told me last nite she was a Dem. not a Rep.
frogster
This is what she said to one person in a comment…I’m a registered, voting, tax paying Democrat, born in the good ol’ U.S. of A. and an American Citizen
Juilee Pryor
What happened to Helen…. this can’t be for real…..???/ why and when and for what reason is she gone from here? this is awful … another step into the whitebread of sunsets and kittens with nothing else to look forward to …..
Marion Cullen
Fucking sucks big time….the redbubble boot’s been stuck in, it’s been itching for an excuse for some time… but it’s the discrepancies in the way it meters out it’s so called ‘discipline’ that is inexcusable.
Helen too has put up with much shit over the past two years, living with blatant harassment and personal attacks on an almost daily basis. RB has rarely acted on upholding it’s own etiquette when it comes to those doing the harassing…their actions towards the attacks were many times nothing short of dismissive. What the fuck did they expect? Although she’s a woman who certainly knows how to hold her own… the rules, as they stand, should apply evenly to all….regardless of how well someone looks like being able to manage a constant barrage of crap ….If you get little back up, cracks are going to start to appear….But then it’s my bet it’s just what RB were counting on…..something surely is rotten in the state of RB.
Will miss her irrevocable passion for truth & justice, her art that speaks volumes and her incredible tenacity…
Will not miss her because, thank jeebus, I still know where to find her!
Tiffany Dryburgh
Just logged on this arvo to discover her gone and I am quietly devestated!
And that right there is why we need people like her! I am “quietly” devestated but in my place she would be jumping up and down screaming the roof down! So you see, she makes up for and drags along with her the rest of us who may feel the same way she does but have not either the strength or the resources to act.
Where would the world be with the revolutionaries or the loudmouths? We would still have slavery, backyard abortions and the Inquisition.
:(
And in jeebus’ name can someone please send me a link to her blog? Ta.
Kitty Schul
Helen is my mother-in-law and its BULLSHIT that this happened. She should be brought back.
roybarry
Who the fuck is going to save me from dodgy photos of squirrels, lopsided horizons and happy clapping, creationist, gun toting morons now????
Ahh well, never mind-her breath feckin’ stank.
BYRON
so, what happend and why?
Kelly J
Never have I heard more crap than today!!!!! Oh yes they have been trying alright – for 2 years!!! Well congratulations RB you have finally friggin done it!! Well you have taken her name from your site but you WILL NEVER take her spirit! And I for one will fight on her behalf!!! This is exactly what Helen Bascom fought for!! FREEDOM OF SPEECH & Fair play for ALL! Yes ALL – it’s okay to harrass, bully, and taunt Helen, and god forbid she eventually snaps and tells one of them to F^@k off – and she instantly gets removed!!! It’s bullshit, totally bullshit!
Great article to a great woman. I congratulate you!
I shall miss Helen’s awsome tenacity, strength and beauty!!
I shall not miss Helen – because even though Im in Australia – we talk on the phone!! Try taking that from me Red Bubble!!!!!!! pppppfffffffttttttttttttttttttttt
Anne van Alkemade
unfair! unfair! I’m rethinking my loyalties! For this lil Aquarian, that’s really saying something. Summary execution!!!!! Really not on Redbubble. Take away my red dot. I don’t want it any more.
Christopher E...
wow…all the things to say about helen, good and bad
good ….she is a fighter, wont ever say was, because even tho the admin thinks they can rid her from this site and all the right dingers, they cant ever get rid of her permantely!!
she stands up for what she believes in, which is a trait a lot of people dont have, they are sheep, they follow who is “winning”
she is passionate about what she believes in
she is a creative writer and artist
she makes us all think
i think i have to agree with what was said earlier about the bad side, her temper
someone pisses her off, and whammo!! she reacts
i think the admin in the past two years didnt do her justice on standing up for her on the countless attacks made by many on this site. instead they just blew it off, and yes, i saw their responses in the emails sent.
im just glad i have other means of staying in touch with a passionate and artistic person
i think today…the admin made a huge mistake, one they will in time soon regret, because the idiot that got this started now will feel he got away with something, and he will strike again
maybe then they will see they deleted the wrong person
DragonFlyer
This is totally totally WRONG!!!!!
Helen is honest, fair and smart enough and strong enough to hold her own in any fight – and now – the fact that she took it all for so long (OK – she gave back too ;) without complaining to RB is used against her to get her off the site!
Ever since I met Helen I found a person who was totally generous and wanting to engage in DEBATE TO INFORM – not indiscriminately abuse.
I will miss her on Red Bubble because I loved her intelligence and the strength and rigour with which she pursued any issue where she found unfairness and injustice. I think I will be spending much less time here as so much of my time was taken by enjoying the debate that Helen continually stimulated.
Helen is also one of the most generous people on RB I have met – she never hesitated to support me in my more difficult moments – and I just CANNOT believe that she will no longer be here to share times and tales and laughs with – just this morning (o – yesterday now…) I got my last bmail from her…..
But – I will NOT miss Helen. Can’t afford the phone bills to Kentucky, but there ARE lots of cheaper ways of keeping in touch that RB can’t take away from me!
An ‘artists’ site’ where the most intelligent debate is ‘dumped’ because someone else dobs????? Joke. Not.
Gregory John O...
How come I report a moderator of the defunct Love Is All You Need group for raceist comments on my poem and the response I got was to have all my work deleted and I get suspended. The moderator changes the name of the group and his account still exists… so raceists are ok on RB, but say fuck off and you get your account deleted. Count the Fuck Offs and see how many accounts would be left ....... Glad I kept all the emails ….... What happened to the RB agreement that states you have the right to arbitration before an account is deleted ??????????
Boycott The Bubble !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I Love Helen !!
Wendy Slee
I agree with all the above and more….(except about her breath Mr Barry LOL).....
The bubble has burst for me that’s for sure, and a lot of others too….wonder what would happen if we all got onto our recent artworks, writing and journals and told each other (with all due respect) “Fuck you!”........
OR wrote copious journals saying just that…....
would they get the message…?
Would we all get deleted?
Christer Fribrock
Yes, we have guidelines and we try to keep within those boundaries. While being harassed as Helen stated she was from some one threatening her and her family those boundaries brakes as for most and every one of us.
Also, an aspect even RedBubble can’t live without as an art community. Art and artists rules and boundaries must always be tested to the limit it breaks. If not for the artists sake to find out her personal limits, but also to find out in what cultural environments she is playing. Without this constant struggle there would be no Bronte’, no Picasso, no Beatles, no Mozart, no you, no me ..
I have tried to keep my self out of this discussion because I do not have all the facts: I still like to know what art, in what group, by whom and what was said.
Excerpt from the other forum thread
Chris
midzing
I love Helens honesty, compassion, her humour,,, and although I didnt comment on a lot of Helens written work, I read it,,, Helen taught me a lot, about the American culture and way of life. I would love to be as outspoken as Helen is,,, but above all that,,,I LOVE Helen for her compassion,,,, its something that most people dont have. A downside to Helen, is of course her temper,,, but I would love to be able to be more assertive and tell certain people to ** off.. so even in her “bad” point,,,I still admire that fighting spirit!! BRING BACK HELEN RB
kathleen
my co-hostess… 4 political art groups… i am very very very very very very ticked OFF!!!
jesus… when does persistent negative commenting become harassment???
RVRFNX
I say bring her back! I love a bit of hoorah and debate. We need balance here.
And it’s not the loudmouths you have to worry about.
It’s the silent, sneaky ones who lurk in the shadows that are the most dangerous – it is most difficult for one to know what their motives are.
themadbubbler
Josh Bowe
Great great great representation here for Helen, and its FUCKIN DISGRACE, that shes been removed, shes erudite, informative and a fucking good laugh, which ironically speaks volumes for RB now. Its total prejudice at work, without jury at all, grow a spine RB, as Lenny Bruce so pertinently put it once ‘its not the word, its what you think I mean by the word’ how can you curb Helens speech in this way? mortifying really, this site is not what it thinks it represents, or as Mark twain put it ‘When you find yourself with the majority, you know its time to reform!’
Things Ill miss about her- open informed thorough debate,
Things i wont miss about her-Her long nails, on your fingers fine Helen, but feet no way!!!!!!!!LOL
Great writing and a fitting testimony to a great and free thinker
AGAIN RB-GROW A FUCKING SPINE
Josh Bowe
Hi there folks, I hope this isnt seen as inappropriate, but i feel compelled to add this as my days here are numbered for my dissent in RB about Helens expulsion, its a bmail that was snet to me earlier today concerning a piece of writing on my profile called “Mecca for FUCKTARDS”, ive included my response, and I want to post it somewhere before i get the boot from here, sad sad sad, I hope ift doent happen but im doing it as a precautionary measure, so I hope you dont find it inappropriate in the context of Helens expulsion from here, if anything its an indicator of what happens when u dissent on RB about RB…............. *
Dear Josh,
I would just like to clarify my response to your latest writing.
It just saddens me so much that you seem to be sabotaging yourself here.
Redbubble is about so much more than just the administration.
I feel that by taking this stance and calling us all ‘Fucktards’ that you are wanting to get yourself reported and thrown out of redbubble to become a martyr.
I understand that you feel so strongly about this but are your actions really hurting anybody besides yourself.
Please reconsider your stance, you are such a fantastic artist and indeed I would miss you and your work.
Marilyn
about 5 hours ago | Delete
Hi Marilyn,
I understand your position, but I think you are making assumptions, I didnt call anyone a “Fucktard” I just reiterated a quote. I do feel that there is a lot more obusive language used on RB, and as i have not personalised it, I dont understand your assumption. I dont take to being a “Martyr” Marilyn, and that saddens me a great deal that you would imply that as my reasoning here, perhaps if you asked me why I worte it we could engage on an open debate on the subject matter? Does RB now take a stance on Free Speech? I would like to see RB stance change on Helen, and I feel Im only exercising my right to opinion, no one has to look at my post, its not like I said it in a forum, its attached to my profile, and I’ll take responsibility for it. Please do not imply I am a playing the martyr, this site means a lot to me actually, but I think that the right to express opinion is key to artists, even if you dont like that opinion. Ive made a lot of friends here and frankly I dont want to leave, BUT, I have to ask the question in context to Helens expulsion “WHO IS NEXT?” because Ive spoken to Helen and she hasnt even be given the grace to voice her opinion on the site. If you had read some of my other posts on the subject, you might have been more informed as to the context here? Theres an awful lot of people upset by RB behaviour here, its frankly undemocratic, and “Anti Art” and its a shame that the admin cant resolve it as quickly as the introduced it. I am going to give it till the end of the month(that is if I am not deleted for speaking my mind before then?)and if no resolution has been offered to Helen I m leaving on grounds of principle and fear of where RB is going in the art community. It saddens me greatly Marilyn that you have decided to comment here and not on the other posts(not just from me)about Helens unfair ejection, she added an enormous quality to this site, and there are numerous people feeling agrieved at this approach the admin have taken to her. Have you made any attempt to contact any of the other dissenters Marilyn? Please dont confuse dissent for disloyalty on this issue, upto until a week ago I was singing RBs praises, and Id like to go back to that, but can the admin(of which I am assuming you are one?)take a step back and admit a large fault on there part? this remains to be seen?
Josh
Nuh Sarche
I’m also thinking about leaving RB....
And thank you for this great journal!
Kelly J
I about to remove my art for sale… Though i can count on one hand what I have sold – i have however purchased a shit load! So they will miss me more than i will miss them!! That is my stance on this… as so many others have either left now or are removing their art… Maybe we can make a difference…