Children FIRST at least ... it should be!
This is one of my oldest and dearest friends Diane. Her daughters story is below. This is one of many times Diane has gone to bat to protect the innocent. She is even going to school to become an attorney to help fight the system that has so many failures in polices and leaves children who desperately need a little extra effort out in the cold. Please read her story below and if you agree please sign the petition. Thanks so much RB! Vonne
The Story of One Little Girl vs. Edmond Oklahoma School Policies.
Thank You for visiting our web page. My name is Dianna and this story is about my little 12 year old daughter named Rachel. The school’s say they care about our children? My daughter attends Edmond Central Middle School, 6th grade. She has Asperger’s (autism), generalized convulsive seizure disorder, and asthma. The school had a recent outbreak of H1N1. 77 students were sent home and 38 were suspected of having the virus. I made her stay home as to not take a risk of her contracting the virus. I was picking up her school work, having her complete it and returning it back to school every week. They informed me that I needed a Dr.s note saying that she had this diagnosis and she was at high risk of developing flu-related complications if she contracted the virus. I did have a Dr. agree and he signed it.
I went to the IEP ( individualized education plan) so we could change it to allow her to stay home and continue doing her work until the crisis passed. They refused to hear anything I had to say about H1N1. They refused to accept the Dr’s letter of recommendation of Rachel’s diagnosis and her high risk of dying if she contracted the virus. I presented evidence from the CDC that says” People at high risk for developing complications to the H1N1 flu are, Neurological disorders such as epilepsy and asthma. They recommended the educators to permit high risk students to stay home while the transmission is high in their community.”I showed them the CDC stated, “Healthy high risk students who are sent home out of precaution could take home curricular packets so that they don’t fall behind.”They gave ideas such as deliver content via conference calls, audio recordings, or teachers could call students and parents to provide lessons, checkins and tips to create a learning environment at home. I showed evidence of the CDC statement saying, “Two thirds of children who died from H1N1 virus had neurodevelopmental disabilities. Two thirds of the children who died had high risk medical conditions. Nearly all of them had an illnesses related to the nervous system, including epilepsy and other seizure disorders.”CDC highlights H1N1 risks saying, “Nearly 70% of these children who died had high risk medical conditions including asthma. I showed them what Sandy Garrett, the State Superintendent of Public Education recommended, “There are people who are more at risk for H1N1 complications and may want to consider staying home until it subsides. If a student opts to stay home because they are at high risk for contracting the virus, the IEP team can determine which services can be provided such as tutoring by phone, or the internet.
I don’t even care about speech, or OT services; I just want her to be safe and have an education. The school said I either send her to school or I pull her out and home school her. They said for her to be allowed home I had to have a Dr. recommend that she needs to stay home. I pleaded with the Dr’s at Children’s Hospital to write me a letter saying they recommend it but they informed me they could not, because they would have to recommend it for everybody. They can only recommend staying home if you have the virus. I pleaded with the school saying if Rachel contracted this disease, she could die! 70% chance of dying! This isn’t the regular flu that we are dealing with; this flu is KILLING our children, especially our special needs children. I requested, Please let me continue picking up her work, I will even grade it too and return it so she doesn’t get behind, just until the number of cases subsides. They said they cannot tolerate the absences that were occurring because of this situation. They refused to work with us about Rachel. They said they cared about her and wanted what was best and being in school was best for her. Yet, they would rather her to stay home as suggested and not have an education than to work with a loving mom who just wants her daughter to survive this epidemic and not be another statistic like some children who we have already had to witness the unbearable pain that their loss has caused their families.
I am a struggling mom who is in college to be an attorney so that I may give these children voices that will be heard, and now I have to find some sort of an education for my daughter. I don’t understand why even our President called this a national emergency and has made a big deal of the H1N1 virus, The CDC makes a big deal of the H1N1 virus, The State Superintendent makes a big deal of the H1N1 virus, and school officials act as if I am a hypochondriac because I make a big deal of the H1N1 virus. Why is it so wrong to want to keep my child well? Why doesn’t the school want to provide my child an education when I am willing to do all the work? Why is Sandy Garrett in charge but she doesn’t have a voice? Is it wrong to want Rachel to have an education but not at the expense of her life? My desire is to change the policy that states we need a Dr. to recommend that a child needs to stay home. We as parents have to provide many documents that prove our children’s disabilities so that they can be placed in Special Education or have IEP’s, Therefore, not everybody can afford to bounce from Dr. to Dr. to get a recommendation of a fact that has already been proven. This is time consuming and costly for parents to have to search for one Dr. that agrees with them. I will be putting up a petition on this sight to try and change this policy. Please help us in our quest for change, Please sign it so that the parent’s voices shall be heard. We should not have to choose between our children’s lives or our children’s education. That is what I have been forced to do.
Thank You for your support.
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DragonFlyer 28 days ago
Done. That situation is totally ridiculous – to discriminate against a mother who wants to HELP HER DAUGHTER GET AN EDUCATION??
K xx
RavenSoul replied 28 days ago
Thank you So much K! Typical bureaucratic BS sigh…
sunshine0 28 days ago
Shockingly cruel and inhumane! I have signed the petition, and she has my support.
RavenSoul replied 28 days ago
Thank you so very much!
kalaryder 28 days ago
I hope you get it sorted out swiftly and your daughter remains free of infection – keep fighting !
RavenSoul replied 28 days ago
Oh Diane is a fighter! Rachel is so blessed to have her! Thank you for your support!
Anna Shaw 28 days ago
Thanks for sharing this, – it is a nightmare story. Of course I will sign the petition and I hope it will have a happy ending.
xx
RavenSoul replied 28 days ago
Thank you Anna! She and I have sent the story to local news and she plans on holding a protest as well. So Keep them in your prayers! Thank you!!
AsylumWitch 28 days ago
You know why they want her in school? Because they want the goddamn $35 a day federal funds for her being there – plain and simple. Let me assure you that they don’t give a sh** about her daughter. The schools in CA are just as bad and I have actually had to go to court and stand before a judge because I choose to keep my kids home when they are sick. They try to come up with all kinds of reasons why it’s detrimental to miss so much school. Ha!! My kids are all in the gifted programs and all on honor roll! What detriment?? I put my kids first even if they don’t and I am not surprised at the trouble she is having trying to do the same. It really breaks my heart to read her story and I want to tell her don’t give in! She needs to do what she needs to do to keep her daughter safe. I will say extra prayers for them and yes, I signed. xx
RavenSoul replied 27 days ago
I agree and I thank you from the bottom of my heart for your support! HUGE HUGs Hope you and your daughter recover soon! completely that is. Thanks for taking the time to do this Nikki!
Paul Vanzella
28 days ago
I just don’t understand why common sense can’t prevail… thanks for bringing this important issue to our attention vonne… really feel for your friend and the situation…!
RavenSoul replied 27 days ago
Its just complete BS they want her in school unless she gets sick ands then its okay but nevermind the fact Diane has documentaion from the CDC that it could and would likely kill Rachel uuugh.
jewelskings 27 days ago
I have signed also! Thanks for bring it to our attention!
RavenSoul replied 27 days ago
Thanks so much for your support!! Means so much! Please pass it on perhaps it will help others as well. Thank you!!! xxxx
Paul Vanzella
27 days ago
...yes, sounds pretty insane and illogical..!
Beve Brown-Clark 27 days ago
Wow as having a special needs child, the IEP needs to be updated to accomendate the childs needs…and that doesn’t mean a doctors note…they send healthy ( IEP ) children home for disrupting classes…hummmmm…I think the media needs to do a news clip..maybe a national channel will pick it up…personally I would tell the school district I will see them in court!!