Syria
A short illustrated article on racism.
Syria belongs to the following groups:
Art of the Middle EastThis is a story that can only start in the middle because it has no beginning or end.
Damascus 1988 or thereabouts, that is the middle. Two prior years in Cairo had initiated the change and by 1988 it was fast gathering pace.
A cleansing of racism. Not the hard-edge racism of the deep South. But that quiet ugly, unassuming racism that penetrates your soul even without speaking. The coolest teacher in school had remarked (why I should remember it so clearly?) that he was not racist except for Arabs because they were dirty and cruel. This ugly seed germinated, watered by the media (still the same media we see today) and ignorance.
But it was not going to survive five years in the Middle East! My photo albums are full of images of me eating on floors with Syrian families. I can’t remember their names. I met them in the street, at parties, when asking directions or while sitting in cafes. There we are, Loreto – taking the photo – and me, chatting with another beautiful family about the weather, children, sport. I am growing cleaner.
A second dimension of change – coming home. Here I am (a lot younger) in front of a very, very old church – almost 2000 years old. Older by hundreds of years than the oldest church in Europe. The core of my faith was born in this ancient land. It is in its rocks. Christ was a Jew. Among his first followers were Syrian Arabs. They built churches that stand to this day. And that faith lives on in Christian villages were Aramaic is still spoken. And Christian, Muslim and Jew can and do live side-by-side. I began to re-find my faith when I understood that the sons and daughters of Abraham are sisters and brothers still.
Oh and did I mention the donkey? 
Adrian Rachele
In Peter Moores book The wrong way home he describes the hospitality of people he encounters on his travels. Those that were impoverished or war torn always gave more.
Quote “And Christian, Muslim and Jew can and do live side-by-side.”
The majority of people from many walks of life and differing beliefs walk this earth side by side.
A nice reminder for myself not to listen to the media, to stop, and look at the world around me instead.
You look a lot like my friend Barry whom i used to work with.
Jacob Simkin
i am intrigued by your story and want to know more!
My close family is a collection of Christian, Muslims and Jews so it is interesting when we all get together. I am still yet to travel further east than Iran
Pilgrim
Jacob. I envy you your trip to Iran. I never made it there but have many good Iranian friends and bought wonderful Iranian crafts.
I will write more about my time in the Middle East. Will try to keep the politics out of it. However it is strange that even suggesting you can do this becomes a political statement. It is as if even accepting the humanity of arabs is seen somehow suspect.
mtamer
I admire this, I am Syrian myself and work in the media…so you can imagine what it’s like. But you are right and I wish everyone was as open-minded and truthful as you.
I have written a few articles about this, but in a more modern capacity. You can find them on
http://www.bbc.co.uk/threecounties/content/articles/2005/07/09/tamer_asfahani_090705_feature.shtml
There are more on there too.
hanadi
I am touched by your words..
diffusion
amazing story and yes I do love the donkey shot!!!
hengyixuan
hi
Pal Gyomai
Thank you for the story, Pilgrim. I think people are beautiful everywhere, no matter what their belief may be. I think many people equate Arabs with radical Muslim extremeist terrorism, which is not the truth. I am a Christian myself and I how could I hate anyone, when I know God loves every single person on earth whether they accept or reject Him.
Philip Rogan
All too true and of course being destroyed day by day by the circle of an irresponsible press, hawks interests and the fundamentalists who pick up on the attacks and use them as fuel for their hatred which in turn breeds more hatred. Dinner is always a better way to solve a dispute and señor Bush would be well advised to sit down and have lunch with some Iranians before he suceeeds in doing what the Hawks want, another war this time with Iran. Crazy crazy world and it always has been but we think we have learnt something only to see that the evil keep pushing their agenda so its up to us to push back, litlle by little and day by day especially in our own hearts and minds where the posion can so easily seep in.
Eyal Nahmias
A great back to the roots story, I like the way you portray people as they are, and it doesn’t matter from which country, basically people are good but led to beliefs and behavior that can alter their behavior. A touching and informative story. A splendid addition to the Art of the Middle East group. that can shed light on people lives and roots.
BLYTHART
This is a nice human story. I know what you mean about the media perpetuating all those myths about Arabs. Living in England we hear a lot about Arabs and suicide bombs, but classing all Arabs alike is similar to those people who compared all Irish people to the IRA terrorists.
At Christmas, one of the newspapers here carried a story about how we must stop celebrating Christmas because it offends Asian people. Our local Asian shopkeepers assured me that when they came to the UK they knew we celebrated Christmas and they accept that as part of our culture.
In the same vein, a councillor from a nearby town proposed that the Borough should stop issuing black plastic bin liners (trash can liners) because it was offensive to Africans. It is so often well-meaning Caucasian people who are stirring up controversy and leaving the Asian and African people to face the backlash of their stupidity.
Pilgrim
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Sorry to take a while to reply to your comment. I must have been off dreaming. Anyway I do love it when political correctness goes haywire. Christmas is a wonderful tradition and like all such traditions should be enjoyed and shared. Can you imagine anybody suggesting that Indans shouldn’t celebrate Dewali or whatever. No, the richness is in all our cultures.
deliriousgirl
YES! I live in the US Deep South. These days racism here has a new and complicated genre to it. I wrote an article for The Village Voice a year or so ago on The New Racism In The New South.
What never ceases to amaze me is the very few steps forward we’ve taken in the past century.
Great mind boggling piece, thanks!
Christi
WOW! Great comments everyone! All I have to say is I agree with everything I have read here and I couldn’t say it better if I tried so DITTO to all. Great story and view.
Karin Taylor
this is very interesting about your faith pilgrim, i am a quarter jewish, my father is a half jew, i only found this out in more recent years, but my great grandmother was married in The Great Tabernacle in Sydney….and i have had much joy and wonder discovering my heritage, i named my children Benjamin Joseph and Sarah, biblical names, only to find out later in my family tree there were many such names…...my grandmother was a New Zealand jew, bearing the surname of Myers, descended from fisherman, who moved to that region. My great grandfather was Sir Alexander Myers and his brother Sir Michael Myers I am so proud to say was Sir Michael Myers, GCMG, KC, PC, (7 September 1873 – 8 April 1950) was the sixth Chief Justice of the Supreme Court of New Zealand …...not that I’m name dropping…..just that I’m sooo proud to be part jewish and part all sorts of other things….....all of us I’m sure have a a lot more in our heritage than we realise, and tolerance and love toward all races is to be encouraged…..Jesus embraced all, especially the children :D
Pilgrim
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Sarah, for some reason I missed this comment. Fascinating to hear about your background. It is wonderful to learn of the context from which we come from.
Karin Taylor
ps i am a christian who found out she was a jew…..could life get any better than that!! :D
Stzar
wonderful and fascinating story ~ i enjoyed reading it so much learning about your adventures and heritage. The photographs are beautiful
kimie
Lovely story, straight from the heart. Just feel i would like to show you all this quote .
There is no need for temples, no need for complicated philosophy.
Our own heart is our temple, the philosophy is kindness.
The Dalai Lama.
Pilgrim
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Yes, the Dalai Lama has been one of the great forces for true, joyous inter faith dialogue. Willing to accept others while not retreating from his own experience.
memac
Thanks so much for sharing what the world needs to hear: that we CAN live in peace if we only remember that we are all simply human beings with the same needs for food, air, water, shelter, kindness, fun, creativity and especially love. I do so enjoy reading your thoughts, Pilgrim – they are very reassuring and inspirational! Keep up the good work! Thanks, too, for your kind response to my last comment – I’m glad it lightened your heart! :) memac (aka ‘Sunny Days Originals’)
Pilgrim
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memac, for some reason I didnt get around responding to your comment. i do thank you for it and your empathy and understanding.
skyhorse
This is a beautiful story & grows more powerful through the sharing. I grew up Catholic, am still Christian & for many years was partners with a Christain Iraqi – it gave me a whole new perspective on the Middle East – sadly, he was the one with racist feelings for non-christian Arabs :-(
Virginia Maguire
Very inspiring story. Getting down to the human level with people is the only way to realize that we are all one. I hope I live to see the day when this becomes a reality.
van049
What a beautiful story of hope, faith, and love!!!xx
memac
Thanks for ‘touching base’, Pilgrim – it’s good to hear from you again, especially as it gave me a chance to re-read this story of your ‘faith journey’; I think I needed to revisit the ‘tolerance’ aspect of my own faith journey. Karin Taylor also made a powerful observation: Jesus embraced all, especially the children – would that we all could see each other that way!
Blessings!
“Have a Sunny Day!” :) memac (aka Elaine Macdougall “Sunny Days Originals”)
Sharon Mau
The Donkey is a beautiful punctuation for a fascinating story. I very much enjoy reading about your spiritual evolution, it is eloquent and soulful.
Aloha nui loa,
Sharon
Faizan Qureshi
Someone once said, focus on the journey, never the destination. It’s that journey I enjoy in this piece.
shadowlee
Very interesting, and enlightening, I enjoyed your story.