Natella2020

Friendship

My younger sister and her friends are email fanatics. Every forward they receive, they pass it on, and my inbox is usually clutterred with more than one email that are exactly the same. Unfortunately, most of the things they pass on are superstitions, things like, “Do this and your wish will come true” or “If you don’t pass it on, something horrible will happen to you”. Also, they’ve been sending a lot of things about friendship and true friends, and every one of them says “If you don’t send this back to the person who sent it to you, then they’ll know that you’re not their real friend”.

Well, since I despise that sort of thing, I’ve waged a war against these meaningless messages, and I’ve been trying to get them to pass around more useful things. Sometimes, I send them things I find here at RB.

Anyway, I’ve got a new project, and I need some help with it, if you guys don’t mind.

There is one message that discusses friends, and the criteria for finding friends are so trivial and black-and-white, that I’ve realized that no one ever taught these girls what real friendship is about. So, I’ve decided to write one of my own in a simiar format. Here is what I have so far:

Nice friends accept you for who you are.
Forever friends love you and inspire you to change for the better.

Nice friends make you laugh with funny jokes.
Forever friends make your heart smile by just being there.

Nice friends follow you off a cliff.
Forever friends are your wings, either to safety or to great heights.

Nice friends are always fun to be with.
Forever friends are there when you’re in pain, too.

Does anyone have any ideas for more criteria? The original message had the words: real friends and fake friends, which I changed to nice friends and forever friends, though that is still under scrutiny.

Please remember that these are girls on the tween-teen borderline. Nothing too fancy, just straight up and true. And also, if you have any comments on the wording of the ones I already wrote, please let me know.

Thanks!

  • Summayyah Sadiq-Ojibara

    Summayyah Sadi..., 8 months ago

    I love the wisdom in your ways Natella and JZK for being there for these kids. The truth is that many people are losing the real value of being and just be day after day after day. You are doing very well with the ones you’ve written, I will see how I can help and what I can come up. iA

  • EAWilliams

    EAWilliams, 8 months ago

    Well, I have a friend who is so dear to me because she is the “forever” friend in which… Nice friends help you whenever they can; forever friends help you whenever you need them. (Please, change the lyrics to suit your fancy)

  • Natella2020

    Natella2020 in reply to EAWilliams’s comment, 8 months ago

    Hey, that’s brilliant! Thank you so much. (And they’re not lyrics. It’s for an email.)

  • Natella2020

    Natella2020 in reply to Summayyah Sadiq-Ojibara’s comment, 8 months ago

    Thank you, Sumayyah. I appreciate it.

  • Michelle Boyer

    Michelle Boyer, 8 months ago

    Hmm… lovely thought, perhaps something about distance which is a real test of “nice” and “forever” friends- Nice friends are with you when you are there/ Forever friends are with you wherever you are… or something along those lines if you haven’t already sent it :)

  • Natella2020

    Natella2020 in reply to Michelle Boyer’s comment, 8 months ago

    Nope haven’t sent it yet. Thanks Michelle, that’s great.

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January 26, 2008