INTRODUCTION
Psychics and Relationships
Greetings and welcome!
The Love Crisis Survival Guide is written as a spiritual yet practical approach to self-empowerment in the relationship process. Some parts of this book may feel a bit uncomfortable to read, because I don’t sugarcoat what could be perceived as bitter truths. I will always encourage you to take responsibility for the reality that you create.
I have come to understand a lot about relationship crisis resolution as a result of my work as a psychic. Although my job dwells outside the lines that form the barrier around mainstream society, it has allowed me to tap into the core of humanity; the most interconnected areas of the human psyche and condition.
When I first began providing psychic readings, I noticed that nearly everyone who consulted me used the same lower-level strategies to deal with drama in their relationships. Although there were always some differences in details surrounding issues in my clients’ love lives, most were asking the same questions, doing the same things and ending up with the same results. The common questions I have always had from clients are:
“What is he or she feeling about me and our relationship?”
“When will I hear from him or her? (When is he/she going to call?)”
“When will I see him or her?”
“Will we ever be a real couple, and when?”
First of all, ‘WHEN’ is truly a four-letter word of the worst kind when it comes to getting readings. Psychic energy cannot be measured by instruments of time. Therefore, as a general rule, psychics are not able to provide consistent, accurate time frames for their predictions. I could write an entire chapter devoted to why this is, but that would be better left to a different writing project.
Many people call psychic readers for a ‘fix’ of hope when they are not getting it directly from their love interest. When a client feels emotionally neglected by someone significant, the psychic can appear to be the best candidate to assure them that the person in question loves them, that the ex boyfriend or girlfriend is coming back, or whatever else will temporarily calm their emotions.
In the long run the customer becomes further stunted in their spiritual growth as a result of the psychic consultations. In unfortunate scenarios, the client develops a psychic addiction to try to fill the missing hole in their heart. Some callers have admitted that they still call psychics almost every day, even after they have accumulated many thousands of dollars in debt.
Not only do some clients end up losing vital amounts of money in their quest for privileged information, but also their sense of intuition is often negatively effected as well after calling a variety of different psychics. The customer ends up with so many different opinions circulating around in his or her head that it becomes increasingly difficult to find their own inner voice in the midst of all the different messages they have been listening to.
Most psychics that I know personally only want to see the client succeed and find happiness and peace in their lives. Granted, there are always deceptive and manipulative bad seeds in the bunch that give the rest of the psychic community a bad name. Psychics who have integrity are still only able to actually help clients who are receptive to hearing the truth.
Psychic consultations can be used as a powerful tool if they are obtained with enlightened intentions by a seeker who understands the limitations of a reading. However, there is a common misconception in this society that the purpose of a psychic is simply to predict the future in the way of fortune telling. While genuine psychics can see short-term outcomes of some situations, we are not able to see forward and backward through time as if we were omnipresent.
Common ground between myself and other readers I respect is that we strive to help the client stretch the understanding of their role in the creation of their lives. In fact, many successful spiritually based psychics that I know make it a point to educate their clients about the fact that predictions are unreliable. This is because the universe has a structure set up that allows us to alter the course of our lives with the power of our thoughts and decisions, a concept often referred to as “free will.”
I will elaborate more about the concept of free will later in this book. For now, think of our future paths not as set in stone, but rather set in water. Water changes; it has the ability to transform into both ice and steam in a short period of time; depending on the conditions we expose it to. Although you may not attempt something as far fetched as trying to influence the direction of the Mississippi river, think of yourself as the ‘assistant director’ (The Ultimate director being the consciousness of the Universe itself) of your own personal life stream.
Psychics who are spiritually inclined have a succinct ability to rise above the petty aspects of life and see a greater picture, a glimpse of the Grand Design, so to speak. We are sensitive to the patterns in people’s lives and have a tendency to see a way through the difficult blocks that restrict their potential success.
While therapists generally get their knowledge from textbooks, spiritual psychics receive information from ‘the other side,’ ‘spirit guides,’ ‘the source’ or ‘the light.’ Psychics can tap into their gifts naturally, and also through meditation and psychic development techniques. Some psychics excel with the aid of divination tools like the tarot, runes, the I ching, palmistry, numerology, tealeaves or astrology. Other readers prefer to use their empathic or clairvoyant skills when conducting sessions. Each psychic has their own style when it comes to deciphering and delivering his or her readings.
Psychic abilities are the same thing as gut instincts, a sixth sense, discernment, mother’s intuition, or any other more generic term that describes an inner knowing. However, just because everyone has the potential to give and receive psychic energy does not mean that they often interpret the vibrations accurately, or that they have the gift of being able to provide quality readings for people.
Please ‘take what you want and leave the rest’ in terms of what I write here. I cannot be held responsible for the use or misuse of the information I provide. The following content comes from my observations and revelations a result of my work as a psychic answering questions and providing guidance since 1993.
© 2007 Mystikka – Empathic Psychic. All Rights Reserved
(to be continued)
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