Prayer of an Alzheimer's Sufferer

Bonnie T.  Barry

Prayer of an Alzheimer's Sufferer

When I saw this prayer, written by an unknown author, at the Carmelite monastery where I do volunteer work, I knew I had to incorporate it into an image and offer its consoling words to those who are suffering from Alzheimer’s as well as to family, friends, and medical personnel who care for those afflicted with this disease. I chose an image of a cloud-filled sky as the sun was setting because those with Alzheimer’s are largely in the sunset of their lives and have to contend with many issues that cloud their lives.

Prayer for an Alzheimer’s Sufferer

Please grant my visitors tolerance for my confusion,
Forgiveness for my irrationality,
and the strength to walk with me
Into the mist of memory my world has become.

Please let them take my hand and stay awhile
Even though I seem unaware of their presence.
Help them to know how their strength and loving care
Will drift slowly into the days to come
Just when I need it most.

Let them know when I don’t recognize them
that I will . . . I will.
Keep their hearts free from sorrow for me
For my sorrow when it comes only lasts a moment –
then it’s gone.

And finally please let them know
how very much their visits mean,
How, even through this relentless mystery,
I can still feel the love.

Amen

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Prayer of an Alzheimer's Sufferer by Bonnie T.  Barry
Prayer of an Alzheimer's Sufferer by Bonnie T.  Barry
  • Agnes McGuinness

    Agnes McGuinness

    A beautiful and moving work, my friend. I like the poster version you’ve just put on. Those are words to ponder. Agnes xx

  • Zoraida Pesante

    Zoraida Pesante

    Tears are rolling down my face! This is a serious sickness! My grandfather and two of my aunts when thru it. They are all gone now. It was rough for all of us! Excellent findings on this poem! You did a spectacular job with this image!

  • Charlie08

    Charlie08

    Oh my bonnie this is quite moving and a spoken word for those who cannot speak for themselves. Beautifully composed on one of you beautiful photos!

  • Jan Piller

    Jan Piller

    This is beautiful Bonnie. My father is in the throws of this wicked disease right now. He is being abused and manipulated by a drug addict he invited in off the street. There are no laws against elder abuse in my country – even if diagnosed with Alzheimers and found not to be capable.

  • StacyLee

    StacyLee

    This is very touching Bonnie. Thank you so much for sharing!

  • Maria Dryfhout

    Maria Dryfhout

    This brings tears to my eyes. My dear auntie in The Netherlands is slipping away and thinks that my grandkids are hers… I just keep sending her pics to keep a smile on her face…

  • Teresa P. Pelaez

    Teresa P. Pelaez

    Thanks so much for sharing this writing we us Bonnie!!

  • Glenda  Remaklus

    Glenda Remaklus

    Thank you so much Bonine for this post. It is so beautiful and has touched me deeply. I have had several Aunts who have had Alzheimer’s and now a sister. It is so devastating to watch them slowly drift away.Another loved one is suffering from Vasculator Dementia which is close.
    I will read this prayer daily!

  • SandraRos

    SandraRos

    This is extremely beautiful, and very touching thank you for sharing.

  • Lori Peters

    Lori Peters

    I lost a neighbor and friend to Alzheimers’s just about a month ago. This is such a moving prayer and card. Nicely done. xo

  • silverstrummer -  David Everitt

    silverstrummer...

    Absolutely stunning work beautiful picture and the verse is very touching too …..... Alzheimers is such a dreadful disease, its definate a favourite for me! – David :>))

  • Cora Wandel

    Cora Wandel

    Bonnie, this is a beautiful work, for personal reasons it says a lot to me. You may want to consider submitting this to the group “The Healing Journey”.

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  • Rick & Deb Larson

    Rick & Deb Larson

    Hi Bonnie, CONGRATS on this well deserved feature of some very moving words, so beautifully done!! Take Care Rick & Deb :)

  • Joanne  Bradley

    Joanne Bradley

    This is just wonderful Bonnie, thank you so much for sharing this prayer! Alzheimer’s has a personal meaning in my life and I find this truly inspiring, it is a difficult road for all family members and sometimes we need to be reminded to focus on what our loved one is going through and not ourselves, and this work can motivate us to cherish every moment despite the disease…Congrats on the ImageWriting feature!

  • Nanagahma

    Nanagahma

    What a wonderful description of this horrible disease. For those of us who have family members that have had this or are currently in the throes of this, it gives hope that perhaps, although the patient doesn’t seem to recognize us, they really do. It’s so heart-breaking to go visit someone with this disease, they just seem to be “an empty shell” of their former selves. Wonderful picture depicting the tone of the message. Thanks so much or sharing this!

  • athex

    athex

    Thank you for puting this up. It strikes close to home

  • Diane Schuster

    Diane Schuster

    This made me cry! We had this disease in our family and it strikes to the heart and soul of anyone close to anyone with this disease! Dee

  • CarolM

    CarolM

    Wonderful words. It’s is such a hard disease for families to face. It tears you apart when you loved one doesn’t even recognize you. This is such a beautiful prayer. Thank you for sharing it with us.

  • Tracey Mac

    Tracey Mac

    Beautiful words…..brings tears to my eyes…
    My dad suffered from Alzheimers…and didn’t recognise me for 2 years until the night before he passed away at 63….he said my name….told me he loved me…and went off to sleep…never to wake again…..
    I wish I’d had this prayer back then…it’s pure magic…thank you

  • elphonline

    elphonline

    This has brought sad memories of my mum back to me. A truly devastating disease for everyone involved. Beatiful words.

  • nonarom

    nonarom

    It’s absolutelly overwhelming…I am speechless.

  • Matt Penfold

    Matt Penfold

    I’m currently a full time carer of a mother with Alzheimer’s, thanks for bringing this prayer to our attention in such a lovely way. It is an important reminder of the turmoil of the sufferer.

  • Robert Boretti

    Robert Boretti

    Wonderful, heart warming!

  • JonoCarrick

    JonoCarrick

    I spent two years working in a dementia unit. This touched me profoundly.

  • photofriendly777

    photofriendly777

    Oh, Bonnie, this is absolutely indescribable. I have no further words, except, “Very well done!”

  • Carol Clifford

    Carol Clifford

    Bonnie, I just loved this piece. I was getting really teary today thinking about the suffering my mother endured and I asked God if I could just feel her presence again. She died of Alzheimer’s on Dec. 3, 2005. The answer came so quickly, first in the bubblemail when you connected with me and now seeing this on your site. I know that she is with me, and that God used you as His instrument. I cannot thank you enough for putting this on Redbubble. God Bless you. Hugs, Carol

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