Self-portrait.
There was once a day during my internship in Japan when a co-worker came to me and said she had to leave because her grandmother had just passed away. Though my Japanese was okay, I was not familiar enough with the custom to know what to say, and I was not the best with words anyhow; even in English it is hard to know what to say in such circumstances. I said to her “cheer-up” but that was it, and she had to leave so that left little time for comforting.
I thought about buying her flowers or making origami roses to give her upon her return, but I wasn’t sure if giving paper flowers would be inappropriate. So I asked my mother’s opinion and questioned whether there were certain colors or types of flowers that are more appropriate for such occasions, or things I should avoid. She said in Japan they would use white for this kind of case, and if I could make white lilies it would be appropriate. So that is what I did, and I gave the paper lilies to my co-worker when she returned. So in the end, though my words could not come through, my sorrow was expressed.
My lips disappears in the back while the lilies light up brightly in front. My mouth is closed and silent, but the lilies made by my hands bloom a thousand words.
Taken with an Olympus FE-220 on July 14, 2008
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What a wonderful story and the picture now comes to life – thank you for sharing
speechless beauty and powerful sentiment Mui Ling
what a beautiful gesture of support mlt….and you are right… sometimes there a just now words…. but you found a way……………… good on you…………b
Spectacular image Mui-Ling!!!!!!!! Love it!!!! Words also great!!!
Beautiful, Mui-Ling!!!
Lots of loooooooooove and hugs!
Thank you Midori :)))
– Mui-Ling Teh
My mouth is closed and silent, but the lilies made by my hands bloom a thousand words.
your magic hands so full of expressive love.. wow you are so darn cool.
Thanks Lina. Yesterday I was trying to videotape myself folding a 5×5mm crane, but was of no success. I came to realize that I will definately need someone’s help. I’m always folding either in the air or on the surface so the camera would have to follow my hands. I’ll be lucky if there is anyone available to help me and who cam videotape well enough (during the time I was trying to tape myself I had to put a magnifying glass infront of the camera lens – would be more conveniant to find someone else with a better camera though.)
– Mui-Ling Teh
Wonderful story Mui-Ling. It’s very hard to know what to say when someone passes away, but the origami lilies were a perfect expression of your sorrow. So very beautiful.
Thank you Karen, for your understanding and thoughtful comment.
– Mui-Ling Teh
just gorgeous!!!
Thank you so much Cheryl :D
– Mui-Ling Teh
I know she was touched, and that she realized your heart understood hers when you gave her these. They’re really beautiful.
The imagry in your photo tells the story and speaks more words than any of us could bring to mind.
You mother has a fine daughter. Please tell her so from Kiwi-san and myself, his wife.
Thank you Dayonda! Please send my regards to Kiwi-san, tell him I say “yoroshiku”. My mother also told me to say “Goshuuhshoosama-sama” desu when I give the flowers; this is what people say when somebody’s loved one passes away. If I knew that earlier I could have said it just before my co-worker left for the funeral.
– Mui-Ling Teh
Such a wonderful & nice story, nice, too, that you put so much effort into making her feel better. The lilies are gorgeous, and the face outlined in the background is magical
Thank you Lisa. I usually don’t take good self-portraits of myself; but this is only half my face so wasn’t as bad lol.
– Mui-Ling Teh