...things I've learned so far

Karin  Taylor
Author: Karin Taylorcommunity helper
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...things I've learned so far

I’ve been reflecting upon some things I’ve read about Stefan Sagmeister, and one of the things he does is write lots of lists, i do that also…. he wrote a list once about things he’d learned….and i just had the impulse to do the same thing….

Perhaps you’d like to reflect also on what you’ve learned, and please feel free to write your own and link it back to this writing…. or perhaps just share it with me here, anything special you’ve learned….

...things I've learned so far belongs to the following groups:

All Out Emotion, All Things Poetic, Artistic, Philosophical and Light In The Darkness
  1. angry people are hurting people
    (they hurt themselves and others)
  1. picking flowers is less rewarding than leaving them grow and watching them sway in the breezes
  1. there is comfort in familiar routines and rituals
  1. children can surprise you with their wisdom
  1. the more children you have, the greater becomes your capacity for love
  1. taking risks is never easy but always you feel proud for doing so
  1. I have gratitude toward those who’ve let me down, the human spirit rises up on such occasions to meet challenges and accomplishes much
  1. In seeking to avoid challenges I am choosing not to grow
  1. Bitterness is ugly…forgive and learn to love your enemy….and move on
  1. God speaks through anything if we are listening and open
  1. Movies provide real insights into the human condition if you reflect on them they can become windows to the soul
  1. Wisdom equals experience
  1. Being stubborn and unforgiving takes more energy than admitting a wrong and moving on
  1. Rainbows and sunsets can provide moments for reflection and cost nothing but a moment spent living in the moment
  1. Music can remind us what is important in life
  1. Musicians are healers
  1. To live and let live is an excellent idea and quite practical
  1. My mother saved lives through nursing, my father saved lives through policing, I nurture hearts and encourage people
  • Hugs are healing
  • My heart sings songs that no one can hear
  • I cry tears that no one can see
  • My life has a purpose, unknown yet to me
  • I love the smell of salty air, the sand between my toes, the mystery of the sea
  • I am on a journey to learn about you and about me
  • BettinaSchwarz

    BettinaSchwarz

    Karin … that is so beautiful … true and from the heart … wholesome, touching and inspiring :)
    thank you for sharing :)
    this absolutely glows :)
    Namaste
    ~ Tina

  • Karin Taylorcommunity helper replied

    thank you so much Tina…. I’m was so touched by your reply :) x

  • izzybeth

    izzybeth

    I so adore your spirit Karin!!!

  • Karin Taylorcommunity helper replied

    aah, the feeling’s mutual beth …thank you so much ….xxx

  • Isa Rodriguez

    Isa Rodriguez

    oh yay!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!.. you always help to lift us up !!!!!!!!! thanks my friend

  • Karin Taylorcommunity helper replied

    I’m so glad dear Isa…..thank you …...xxx

  • red addiction

    red addiction

    You are beautiful!!! mmmmmmwah!

  • Karin Taylorcommunity helper replied

    aw, hugs for you Marlo….and mwaaah xoxo

  • Marjorie Wallace

    Marjorie Wallace

    Thank you so much, Karin for this beautiful and reflective writing. I also love many of the things you do and believe so many of the things you have mentioned here. You had me at the opening line, and I seeing the favorite thought and ideas you hold in your heart. I hear a truth… I am inspired.

  • Karin Taylorcommunity helper replied

    thank you for hearing my truth, and listening to my heart….a glimpse of my soul….
    my love….karin x

  • Julie Everhart

    Julie Everhart

    Here is something I have learned in life: That you should never compare yourself to the best others can do but to the best that YOU can do! :)

  • Karin Taylorcommunity helper replied

    thx so much Julie, a great truth indeed this is! I appreciate it very much….. to reach our highest potential is a wonderful thing to aspire to :) x

  • BlueKnot

    BlueKnot

    Old Chinese Proverb: The man who is full of venom most of all poisons himself.

  • Karin Taylorcommunity helper replied

    I do love this saying BlueKnot…. it’s so true…brilliant…. considering i had a nightmare last night too…in which an old gentlement covered me in the venom of a lionfish… very interesting and scary dream. He was full of bitterness and also managed to poison me, but it looks like i survived to tell the gruesome tale hey…lol… :) thx so much!

  • Ingz

    Ingz

    I have learnt that you are so lovely and beautiful inside and out and am very proud to have met you here in Bubbleland xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

  • Karin Taylorcommunity helper replied

    your kindness to me has so moved me Ingrid, that whenever I see your avatar the tension subsides, my face softens and I feel loved…..thank you always…...xxxx

  • barnsis

    barnsis

    So many profound truths, Thank you for sharing.

  • Karin Taylorcommunity helper replied

    just a few little things that when you write them down you realise a little better, who you are and what you stand for…thx so much byron :)

  • Teacup

    Teacup

    Its in writing lists that unknown truths about ourselves come forth… this happened to me when I wrote my profile about the things that make up me and someone pointed out a glaring omission! Thanks for sharing with us here on RB. xx

  • Karin Taylorcommunity helper replied

    this is so true in and of itself, there is something about writing that brings about understanding and clarification…. i’m sure i’ve missed lots of things too…i only took 5-10 quick mins to pen this, but i love hearing these other observations…because they enrich and inspire and encourage us all the more teacup! ;) thank you :)

  • Julie Everhart

    Julie Everhart

    I wanted to add a few more things I have learned in life. I just kept thinking about this and had to come back to share. :)

    1) I have learned that KINDNESS is much, much, MUCH more important that perfection.
    2) The greater a persons sense of guilt is… the greater their need is to cast blame onto others!

    and…

    3) The absolute worst pain for me is watching someone else in pain.

  • Karin Taylorcommunity helper replied

    these are very sobering thoughts which i’ll reflect on …..i love them, thank you for coming back Julie!!! it’s more treasure :) x

  • schiabor

    schiabor

    as yota might say “very wise yo are”

  • Karin Taylorcommunity helper replied

    ....and may the force be with you kind one….thank you :)

  • Marjorie Wallace

    Marjorie Wallace

    Darling Karin; What a wonderful exercise and way to express myself this morning. I have written mine as well and I loved this creative endeavor. Hugs, xoxoxox
    http://www.redbubble.com/people/windflowers43/writing/3969695-things-i-have-learned

  • Karin Taylorcommunity helper replied

    hey thank you so much Marjorie, and I’m so glad you decided to go ahead and try this, you have written yours beautiful, I really relished the reading of it a wee while ago…. wonderfully rich and rewarding to read! :) xxx

  • artsthrufotos

    artsthrufotos

    how beautifully said, i shall look up that writer

  • Karin Taylorcommunity helper replied

    thank you very much, you can read about Stefan Sagmeister’s list here and watch his video and listen to him speak here

  • restlessd

    restlessd

    A link for Marjorie W

    -I linked it for you Marjorie because I know how :o) -

    I will be pondering this “challenge” and see if I can be as insightful as you my dear, wise Karin.
    ♥Rhonda♥

  • Karin Taylorcommunity helper replied

    thank you so much for that Rhonda….x
    and please let me know if you do and link us up from here…i am so interested to learn what other truths people have discovered in their life’s journey… thx again!! :) x

  • Patricia Anne McCarty

    Patricia Anne ...

    good lessons to learn and wonderful words! xooxo

  • Karin Taylorcommunity helper replied

    thank you so much dear Patricia!! xxxxxx

  • AngelArtiste

    AngelArtiste

    it;s lovely words

  • Karin Taylorcommunity helper replied

    thx so very much Angela :)

  • Renee Dawson

    Renee Dawson

    I love your list Karin! All of these things are true and very wise. Thank you very much for sharing it. xo

  • Karin Taylorcommunity helper replied

    smiles, thank you Renee! xxxx

  • Ebbers

    Ebbers

    I love this list! One of the things stood out for me:

    Wisdom equals experience

    However, some people get confused with this one and I should point out that:

    Experience does not equal wisdom.

    Some people mess up so much in their lives (like me) that they assume they can now pass on great advice. Unless something has been learned by our mistakes, we faulty humans should never presume that we are done learning, and therefor can start teaching.

    I had come to realize this when I had two friends that asked me for advice, because they were both in a situation to which I worked through a half a dozen times before. They told me this made me wise. I had to tell them that it just made me messed up and I still have some learning to do. Lesson learned.

  • Karin Taylorcommunity helper replied

    thx very much….. that’s really true…. experience doesn’t equal wisdom … treading the path doesn’t always result in wisdom… there are many experiences I’ve had which i would not be able to help another through, bar giving them an insight into how i dealt with it at the time and upon reflecting on these things later on in life…it gives a certain amount of perspective. sometimes the pain is too great to want to revive the experience in order to reflect upon it, sometimes the experiences may not seem important enough to ponder… and those that live in denial and tend not to reflect upon their experience, may not be able to offer us wisdom…. apart from cliches and sayings that are rote-learned. I prefer to delve into my own heart and learn the mysteries for myself, often tho, a saying will project onto the wall….and i will see whether there are parts of my life that can use the old wise saying, whether it lines up or not…and i do in fact find those helpful at times… as long as I’m not told that my feelings are unimportant or that i need to toughen up and wise up… I find that not reflecting upon things results in a vault build up and an impenetrable bridge that cannot be crossed over to another person, I want to be a bridge, rather than a brick wall I suppose, and that is at the crux of a lot of the decisions i make. I do remain aloof toward many people that have hurt me, and I won’t easily find my way back to them. I have found there are those that will not be moved and will not change for it suits them… and I realise that I am not from that tribe and I move on :) x

  • kjgordon

    kjgordon

    yes and so much more to learn….........
    a journey to learn about you and about me

  • Karin Taylorcommunity helper replied

    smiles for you kj :)

  • ZoeMcduncan

    ZoeMcduncan

    One is wrong…..(My heart sings songs that no one can hear). We hear the songs your heart sings through your work :)

  • Karin Taylorcommunity helper replied

    aw, thanx so much Zoe…perhaps you’re right.. lol…i hadn’t realised, what a lovely thought to ponder …..x

  • Helen Chierego

    Helen Chierego

    Karin , you share beauty, wisdom and kindness in all you do here on RB. Love conquers all…
    xox

  • Karin Taylorcommunity helper replied

    love conquers all and may it be so Helen, may it be so! xxxxxxx

  • itsallgoodamanda

    itsallgoodamanda

    Wow I agree with all of this like it came straight out of my own heart ,cheers ,you are a dear soul

  • Karin Taylorcommunity helper replied

    that’s a pretty wonderful thing to hear Amanda, thank you…how encouraging!!! ... xxx

  • gemini63

    gemini63

    Very lovely words and sentiments :))

  • Karin Taylorcommunity helper replied

    thank you gemini, i enjoyed reading sme of your works, they are great and really resonate with me!!! :))

  • Linda Callaghan

    Linda Callaghan

    very true Karin ….and thanks for sharing your thoughts too….love makes the world go around and we need more sharing caring people like yourself…x

  • Karin Taylorcommunity helper replied

    thank you Linda… it means a lot to me, and yes, love does make the goodness flow…..that people taking time to read my written works is wonderful, i know how time poor we all are… so i really do appreciate it very much indeed. xxx

  • CateTownsend

    CateTownsend

    How wonderful Karin.. One really important thing I have learned is that my life is so much better for knowing you. I have some really hard issues to address in my family, and I am going to go and write. I have spent countless sleepless nights, crying and tossing and turning over what I can do. Just by sharing this you have opened up new possibilities,and something I was considering was to write about the issues. The pain is so overwhelming that I have stopped working. Which is not a good thing so hopefully by writing things down I can get things more sorted at least to a point where I can work again.

  • Karin Taylorcommunity helper replied

    ....i am thinking of you Cate, i’ll bmail you very soon …. hang in there, you are a wonderful mum…. when the time is right…. you will know what to do…. x

  • Midori Furze

    Midori Furze

    Hi, Karin!!
    Thank you for sharing. This is awesome!! {{{HUGS}}}}

  • Pip Gerard

    Pip Gerard

    what a beautiful list. I love everything on it. xx

  • Duncan Waldron

    Duncan Waldron

    Flowers swaying in the breeze: you must have been looking at my lawns, covered in tall yellow “weeds”. I’m happy to leave them there for the time being :)

  • Karin Taylorcommunity helper replied

    Lol yes it was your lawn in my minds eye :)
    I have a wee tinge of regret when I lift a flower from it’s natural world to beautify my 4 walls…. Lucky I’m nit the one who has to mow all the tops off like you… But from another perspective… Weeds might have the appearance of popularity due to sheer numbers but they cause chaos in the garden…and we need to keep them in check or they choke the roses :)

  • Alexandra Felgate

    Alexandra Felgate

    Karin you are one of the most amazing people I have ever come across! This list is embodies your caring, loving and inspiring nature, thank you for sharing so much of yourself with us all.
    This has really given me pause, I am a compulsive list writer, everything from groceries and to-do lists to ideas for my artwork, inspirational quotes and random thoughts, but never have I written a list of things I’ve learned…..its now in the list of lists to write (lol)
    Words fail me, I can’t express the wonder of how this makes me feel. Thank you xxxx

  • Karin Taylorcommunity helper replied

    Hi Alexandra, I wish I were really amazing ha… but that you think I am… brings a smile to my face :) thank you so much, and i would love to read yours truths and please link us up if you do won’t you…i would love that :) xxxx

  • Vicki Ferrari

    Vicki Ferrari

    Sassie, there are no words, you have nailed this perfectly, as you do! Stretch :) xoxo

  • Karin Taylorcommunity helper replied

    hugs for ya Stretch…and thank you v much for your encouragement and support :) xxx

  • catherine walker

    catherine walker

    so beautiful karin..wonderful to read that !

  • Karin Taylorcommunity helper replied

    aw, thanx so much for reading it catherine … xxx

  • frogster

    frogster

    Very nicely done

  • Karin Taylorcommunity helper replied

    thnk you so much mr frogster! :)

  • Mui-Ling Teh

    Mui-Ling Teh

    Very insightful Karin :)

  • Karin Taylorcommunity helper replied

    thank you so much for reading this Mui-Ling :) x

  • Marjorie Wallace

    Marjorie Wallace

    Ah Ha! I finally learned how to link! Yiiipppeee!!! I hope you will come and lead my list. xx
    Marjie

  • Karin Taylorcommunity helper replied

    yay…congratulations Marjorie, and well done indeed!!! x

  • Rosalie Scanlon

    Rosalie Scanlon

    Beautiful and truthful words Karin.

  • Karin Taylorcommunity helper replied

    thx so very much Rosalie!! :) x

  • lacitrouille

    lacitrouille

    You’re such a nice, kind person…

  • Karin Taylorcommunity helper replied

    aw, thank you Josette…. and so are you, a real sweetheart and a great friend to me …. xxx

  • lacitrouille

    lacitrouille

    So nice of you to say so Karin…but I’m not as forgiving as you…

  • Karin Taylorcommunity helper replied

    aw, i have plenty of grudges…..it’s letting them go that is the hardest thing….i think at first pain has to be validated before we can let it go. Often, i find when someone acknowledges the hurt, I can let it go more easily…. but life is hard, never easy…and I’m struggling and battling my way through it too x

  • Jewd

    Jewd

    What a beautiful, uplifting spirit you have bought to the earth sweetheart..love yr heart..hugs …xooo

  • lily pang

    lily pang

    Karin, Thank you so much for sharing! It’s wonderful to read!

  • lacitrouille

    lacitrouille

    Absolutely right Karin, about neednding to acknowledge the hurt to better let go of it…Sometimes, if I can’t forgive, I find acceptance brings the peace that I need. :)

  • niki78

    niki78

    Beautiful to read the truth you are wise and you have a great soul :)

  • valentina63

    valentina63

    what an incredible list . Dont know how i missed this. Much wisdom and spiritual generosity and warmth in your words Karen . I loved so many of the points but this one “I have gratitude toward those who’ve let me down, the human spirit rises up on such occasions to meet challenges and accomplishes much” reminded me of this song and thought you would appreciate it . its near the last line that it is the most powerful.
    Thank you for this wonderful reminder about whats important in life . :)xo

  • Yan Gao

    Yan Gao

    wisdom and kindness in all you do here on RB.

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