Dad & Me - An Old Photo

Polkadot Snake by Matt Mawson
Matt created the above vector version of my photo today from the goodness of his heart – I am deeply moved Matt, thank you
Hello everyone,
I rave on a lot about my dad, coz really he is some kind of hero to me. This is me when i was little with my dad handling a snake in the backyard in the very western town of Tottenham…(or as i used to call it Totnamham) it is actually pronounced …. Tot – Nam, NSW, where my dad was the only police officer in town, what they call a one-man station.
He was ever encouraging me to ‘touch’ the wildlife and not be afraid….. after growing up in the mountains of Katoomba and being introduced to rockpools and snorkelling at a young age while on a holiday, my dad’s love for nature grew and grew and grew.
That early encouragement to ‘touch’ things could explain why at age 10 i got my thumb stuck in a giant clam on Keswick Island, a then uninhabited island in the Whitsunday Group, and perhaps that’s why he and i both touched the leaves on the Qld Stinging Tree and really regretted it…. yes, looking back, perhaps that explains a lot of things :)
I am much more at home with animals than people….give me a cat to cuddle and I’m much more me….. although…i do love snakes….. i much prefer lizards, they are my favourite reptile..after that comes the turtle.
I am very partial to baby chicks as we raised a lot of them by hand when i was young….i also hand raised 3 baby mice who’s mother had died of heatstroke because the garage where we kept them got so hot in the summer…the little black and white one died, and it broke my heart….i had a special burial ceremony for him and never forgave myself, because i killed him with kindness by overfeeding the delicate little sweetheart…and he was my favourite. The baby mice were only about 1cm long….and about 7 others all died before i could revive them.. I fed them milk through a tiny rubber flange by sticking a needle through the end of it to create a teet and pinching the other end between my fingers..
We had many unusual pets growing up, including a blue ringed octopus, crabs, lion fish, a baby crocodile, a cockatoo, quails, parrots, snakes, baby foxes, turkeys and little baby chicks which i remember had hardly any feathers, looked a bit like they’d been skinned and we would feed them until their ‘craw’s were really full and poking out…..then we knew each one had had their fill. The one thing i love more than most other things, are baby lizards. This love apparently comes from the time I saw lizards born live. If only I could remember, but I have to rely on my parents retell. Shingleback lizards bear their young live…and i was lucky to witness the miracle once…..screaming ‘Born lizards, born lizards’!!
It was not unusual for us to have octopi crawling around the back yard and lobsters too…..i used to so enjoy listening to their crackly noises from yabbies we caught in the dam in the buckets of water…and watching the little fishies dad would catch for the fish tanks…swimming round n round in the little yellow bucket.
Our home was a haven for crab casings, beautiful exotic shells, wahoo and marlin heads mounted on timber…and every specimen under heaven that dad could inject with formalin to preserve in some way…there were fishing nets hung from the ceilings with all manner of things stuck up there, including the glass buoys i so love and starfish, and all manner of spider and spanner crabs…etc..etc…
On yet another occasion, i scrubbed the baby turkey chics and almost killed them all, in an effort to clean off their specks…..perhaps that’s when the OCD first began (lol)
I’ve been very reminiscent about the past lately, mainly because it seems the more i share my stories, it appears i had rather an unusual upbringing.. I always thought that everyone was brought up this way….
No need for you to comment on the image above, because it is just something i’d like to buy for myself as a card to give to my dad, to show him my appreciation for all the stuff he introduced me to as a child, for all the adventures we had…...
....just reminiscing :)
ps… if dad caught a marlin today, he would simply release it, he no longer has the desire to kill beautiful creatures. I’ll never forget the day we caught a beautiful jewelled Dolphin Fish…it was almost as tall as myself..and as I lifted it from the ocean with all my might, it seemed to me to be a treasure chest of glittering rubies, diamonds, sapphires and emeralds..then his glorious colours faded once I’d hauled him into the boat… they fade before you can even take a photo… but there has been nothing like this in brilliance that I’ve ever seen out to sea before… other things were amazing, but nothing this gorgeous… we ate him for dinner that night, and i always regret not giving him back to his ocean home and leaving him be :(
Dad & Me - An Old Photo belongs to the following groups:
Childhood and Remember When
Patricia Anne ...
How CUTE!
Karin Taylor
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thank you Patricia Anne :)
I’m so glad this came to mind… it will be so fun to give this to dad on a greeting card one day :)
kjgordon
ha.my dad always had a cig in his mouth too…..they didn’t know…......
Karin Taylor
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hey kj…yeah, dad always (and still does) had a ciggie hangin out his mouth….he still does his gardening, fishing or whatever …. but the ciggie will always be there…
picketty
wow you did so much you ran out of room. Where is the rest of the story Karin…what happened to the turkeys you scrubbed? However dont be scared of people…most of us dont bite
Karin Taylor
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..nearly all the chicks survived, they were revived by a fire to warm them, it took a few hours…
i’d only seen yellow chicks from the hens before that, and assumed the turkey chicks splodges and colourings were dirt….
I was just trying to ‘help’ lol
Samantha Goode
Karin, what a fantastic photograph! and I love your writing with it too. Wonderful stories. (for some reason though, I can’t read all of it, only to the paragraph of you scurbbing the chicks to remove their specks, after that paragraph – the RB banner on the bottom of the screen – about support etc covers the rest of your writing – and I’d love to know how it ends!! :-) xx
Karin Taylor
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Hey Samantha..
The chicks had to be warmed and rubbed near a stoked fire…..most were revived….
my mum says i was tugging her skirt to tell her “I washed the birdies” but she and dad thought i wanted them to ‘watch the birdies’ and delayed coming to see…
Upon arrival at the scene, it was duly noted, I had ‘laid them all out in a row’....the poor little chicks….
I was only trying to ‘help’!!
Karin Taylor
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thanks again Sam…i’ve ordered the book ‘My Family and Other Animals’ by Gerald Durrell through my local library…should have it soon….and i really will enjoy reading this!!
Samantha Goode
Karin ignore me! – I can see it all now
Karin Taylor
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thank you so much Sam…sorry i forgot to thank you earlier :) glad you can see it all now :)
MKWhite
What a great photo :) It’s kinda funny in a way, my parents were never into taking photos or videos. There’s a few photos around from my childhood but nothing like this. Thank you for sharing this and the story with us. :)
Karin Taylor
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..hey thank you !!
I didn’t expect anyone to really respond… that’s very nice that you did. I was born in 1965 and being the firstborn, did have a lot of photos taken…. it’s such a shame not to have them, but as long as you have the memories… sometimes for me, the photos bring back, or help recapture fading memories..it’s lovely to have them…
now and then, i stop and just look at them and reminisce…it’s a lovely feeling to be able to do that…
i keep this photo in a dear little pebbled frame in my studio and when i look at it, it lifts my spirit and i feel connected, strengthened and encouraged to perservere :)
tonilouise
What beautiful memories Karin..Look at you touching that snake, absolutely no fear at all…Gorgeous image..xx
Karin Taylor
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Hi tonilouise, thank you so much for looking and commenting….i am so happy you like my childhood memory captured in a snap…thank you again! Hugs xox
Samantha Goode
sorry – have you ever read My family and other animals? it’s about the author and him growing up on a small Greek Island (actually where I lived) – I’m sure you’d like it from reading about the animals you had growing up. It’s by Gerald Durrell, it’s one of my all time favourite books.
Karin Taylor
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oh no Sam..i have not heard of this book…i’ll try and google it and see if i can find it tho….i did always love Dr Doolittle (still do) and his travels and chats with the animals :)
Karin Taylor
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Hey Sam, i just located some text on the internet, it sounds wonderful…i will have a good old read of this later on :)
thank you so much!
Marilyn Harris
Sounds like you had a childhood filled with adventure!! What a wonderful photo – Great memories for your Dad I’m sure!!! Good one Karin!!! Thanks for sharing!!!
Karin Taylor
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Hi blossom…it certainly seems that way … thank you very much….(now you see why your images capture something special for me hey!!)
Keith Richardson
Hi Karin! You and Byron (Barnsis) both write beautifully of your childhood and upbringing. It can be so rewarding teasing out the multitude of experiences that have produced what we are today… As I read your account (thank you so much for sharing it!) I found myself wondering about the impact I might perhaps have had on my three children, camping and hiking through the bush, dissecting fish we had caught, or shooing Tasmanian Devils out of our night-time tent, in the Tassie wilderness…. We all need encouraging as parents and grandparents to keep on giving our offspring experiences that can perhaps shape their future personalities… Keith.
Karin Taylor
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Hi Keith, yes, thank you so much! It does make one ponder about these things. The only thing i’m very good at with my children is taking them to the rockpools…i love to find things and explain what they are…i have a great fascination for things that are ‘dangerous’.........we had fun one day (as grown ups) with my children when my dad came to visit….he could just tell there was an ‘occy’ under the ledge of the rockpool…because of the little bubbles floating to the surface….he jammed his hand in their and reefed the poor thing out and we all (my children included ran screaming and jumping with excitement)....
I wish I’d done more with my kids, to show them nature…but a child has also to find wonder in nature…and not all children these days find this an easy task with computers etc…. and the norm being to ‘stay inside’....i would encourage them with ‘bug catchers’ out in the back yard, and to look at the beauty inside the flower, or the leaves…. now they come running to tell me when there’s a beautiful sky to be viewed, etc… so perhaps they do now begin to show a love for nature. My sisters children are very lucky because they live right near my father…(their grandfather) and he has instilled this love of nature in them.
Every afternoon, at a certain time, dad feeds all the birds …. hundreds of them flock to mum and dad’s verandah…at first there were just maggies (magpies) but now there are all sorts, and it’s magnificent to watch…not to mention that from their view on the hill they have a 180 degree view of the ocean and ‘whale watch’ the season from start to finish… i wish we didn’t live so far away (only an hour) but too far to be there for such occasions…...ie…quick, look, there’s a whale going by…. i often am on the phone, and mum will start gasping and i’m saying….what’s goin on Mum?? and she’ll say o shit…the fishtank just burst… or omigod your father just split his leg open doing some crazy thing…or stop everything, the whales are jumping!!!
so yes, what a wonderful life they gave me and what a wonderful life they still have, always surrounded by their love of nature :)
I’m sure you would have had a super impact on your children….i have always adored the TassieDevils….
Sensiworld
What a lovely shot !
And what brave you were…i would not have dare to touch it.
Karin Taylor
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lol…thank you Sylvia…i bet you would have touched it too, had you been encouraged and felt safe, as i must have here in the photo…...hhaa… if only i really was brave!! but thank you very much!!
Jakki O
How lucky you are to have such wonderful memories…treasure them :D
I only hope my son has some great memories like this when he is older!
Great photo Karin
Jak
Karin Taylor
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Hey Jak…thanks, yes…i am lucky to have had the life I’ve had…..for many years, i wasn’t grateful for it….but when i speak to other people it helps me realise how fortunate i really have been…i’m sure your son will feel the same Jak….you make sacrifices and the kids know it later, when they’re all grown up :)
hugs xoxo
Karen Cook
LOL… the things we do when we think we’re ‘only helping’ hey!!! Thanks for sharing your happy memories of your childhood :o)
Karin Taylor
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hehe…yes, funny that!!!
i could still use the same ‘catch cry’ today….as i still get myself into all sorts of trouble! thnx so much kaz xox
tcups
Such a beautiful photo, there is so much love and wisdom in it. One of those photo’s you don’t want to loose as it has so many memories. Beautiful Karin!
Karin Taylor
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thank you so much tcups :)
yes, i treasure this photo, it’s framed in my studio and i look at it when i need encouraging :)
tcups
Oh, and the snake would have freaked me out but you were so brave!!
Karin Taylor
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hehe….i’m sure you would have touched it too…you just have to feel very safe in the handlers skills…which i must have felt…i wasn’t brave!!! I think i was scared too :)
CATNIPMEOW
Awww…....now look what you did…...I am looking like Alice Cooper and need Kleenex in a bad way
Thats so awesome that you shared something so personal and sweet !
If you ever want to visit my part of the world you can have all my snakes okay !!!!
What great memories to have…......
Karin Taylor
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aw, thanks so much (you have to catch them tho!!) i am so glad you enjoyed this…you are so sweet, your comment spread a big happy smile over my face!! xox
Sharon Perrett
Out of interest Karin, the book was made into tv series and was very enjoyable. Click here
Love your photo of you and your Dad and the wonderful stories too :))
Karin Taylor
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thank you very much Sharon, i will check that out ….it’s very kind of you….. and you know how much i love your wildlife images!! :)
Karin Taylor
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thanks again Sharon…i’ve ordered the book through my local library !
Keith Richardson
Perhaps Karin, the greatest gift we can give to our offspring is our passion for things – passions can be so infectious. I always followed the same philosophy in my teaching… it works!
Karin Taylor
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..now you’re talking!! yes….. that’s it!!
Janis Zroback
Yippee….that’s so cute…I should put one of mine up too…
Karin Taylor
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yes…that would be lovely to see Janis….!
thank you very much :)
Janis Zroback
I read the story too…a little like Bindi Irwin?
Karin Taylor
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lolz… yes, i do relate to Bindi a little… dad wasn’t so wild-eyed as the gorgeous Steve was tho :)
webbie
Just too CUTE …great photo my friend..huggggggggggz
Karin Taylor
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hi webbie, thank you so much for stopping in to have a little look!!
and for taking the time to comment also :)
Shanina Conway
It’s a wonderful pic Karin and I’m sure your Dad will be tickled pink;) Love the story…those poor little turkey chicks lol!
Karin Taylor
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thank you Shanina..yeah, the poor widdle fings…!
who knew turkey chicks weren’t yelllow…no one told me!!
Mohsen Bayramn...
This is so cute Karin! it have the feeling…. those beautful years…!
Karin Taylor
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Hello Mohsen,
and thank you so much!!
:D
Keith Russell
great story – great shot
Karin Taylor
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Hi Keith,
and thank you :)
Matt Mawson
I second Samantha Goode’s recommendation. “My Family and Other Animals” is a favourite in our household. Gerard Durrell was a famous “naturalist, zookeeper, conservationist, author, and television presenter” (thanks Google!), and the book is based on his boyhood on Corfu. It’s a warm, funny novel.
Karin Taylor
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thank you Matt..i have just requested it from my local library here, they have it and i’ll pick it up soon…looking forward to reading it very much!
cheers!
Natsky
It shows how you developed your sense of wonderment & reveals where your love of animals came from, particularly the wet ones from the sea. It highlights a huge respect and love that the 3 of you shared for eachother…the 3 being you, your father & the natural world! I envy your relationship with your father…it is something to be treasured…and it sounds like you do! Thanks for sharing a bit more of you.
Karin Taylor
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Hi Natsky…sure, yes…this is definitely how i came to have the sense of wonderment….to just sit and stare at things, and watch them…...to gaze into rockpools…these things bring me back ‘into the present moment’ and who knew that the things i learnt in my childhood would be ‘therapy’ now in my grownup years. It takes sharing with others the journey, to realise that what i had was rather special and unique growing up….and only in the last few months has this become apparent to me. I wish dad and I were closer, but we share the greatest love of all….that of the world around us…and in that way, i am as close as ever to him always :)
Samantha Goode
Oh fantastic! – I’m so pleased! I am sure it will make you smile. Can’t wait to find out whether you like it or not!! I’m don’t usually recommend books. :-) xx
Karin Taylor
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oo yes, me too Sam!! thanx again, i’ll let you know!!
genevievem
this is lovely Karin, a sweet memory and I am sure your dad will love the card!
Karin Taylor
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thank you genevieve…i think he’ll get a lovely surprise too :)
i just bought it :)
Ujean1974
Awww….Karin, I can’t just help but comment on this special photo…..I can really feel your love for your dad!! Your father looks so handsome in this picture…LOL. Hope you wouldn’t mind me faving this precious pic, Karin!!
Karin Taylor
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aw, you are so sweet Ujean… of course i don’t mind…gosh!! i am only extremely honoured that you would favour it … wow…thank you!!!
I agree…my dad is a handsome fella :)
satsumagirl
Lovely photo and story of your upbringing Karin. Makes me think of how different the wildlife is here in Canada.
Karin Taylor
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thank you satsumagirl! Yes, i’m sure it must be….!!
Mel Brackstone
I had to come back to read the rest of your story, as the redbubble menu was over the top of it when you first uploaded! Wonderful story, and love that photo to go with it, Karin! I’ll agree with the gerald durrell story, it’s amazing too!
Karin Taylor
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i’m so glad you did Mel…thank you for that.
i’ve reserved the book through the library, and just waiting for a phone call from them to go collect it…can’t wait to read it, it sounds wonderful!
frozenfa
awww…. this is so fun!!! dang, you touched a snake when you’re so so small!! lucky you for having a brave and encouraging dad!! =D Love reading your history, Karin!! all the past memories.. it’s like you have an animal farm there.. how can an octo or lobster go walking around the backyard?? they don’t need water?
it’s soo sooo darn cute how you tried to help the lil turkeys.. hehehe.. i think, your kids too will grow up with fun memories about their mum.. how she paints.. how she’s got her works exhibited.. hell, i’d be proud to have a mom like you! XD
Karin Taylor
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hi Fa…. yep…
did i tell you about the baby foxes that had razar sharp teeth too…they bit me on the ankles!
Re the occy and the lobby….dad would go fishing like at 3am in the morning or sometimes all night long on the trawlers and he would bring home an array of sea creatures in buckets….he would have them outside while sorting them all, and it was really fascinating and they were all still alive and you could sort of play with them, (before we ate them) he was also a big jewfish fisherman, and caught many large ‘jewy’s of the breakwall across the road, where the river meets the sea (called the ‘bar’) and boats go out to see through the channel…anyway…every night he wsn’t working, he’d be over there fishing…some times the jews could be 4-5 feet…and we’d have a huge bbq outside and invite ‘everyone’...... dad was a bit of a showmen also, he would do the old ‘blowing the fire out of his mouth’ trick for everyone on ‘Firecracker Night’ around the bonfire…very dangerous stunt, involving a mouth full of petrol and a naked flame….madness!! But oh!! the excitement!!
Karin Taylor
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ps dad loved his fishing soooo much, that we had to have our bath, get in our pjs and walk across the road to kiss him g’nite…coz he wouldn’t come home when he was fishing!!!
MuscularTeeth
first – its a fantastic photo originally. your dad has style !
and this remastered version – corr blimey. the colours of youth..
it must be an ambivelant feeling for you KT…
Karin Taylor
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thank you so much MT…
i am guessing my mum must have taken this photo with an old camera…
when little, i was given an old broken box brownie to play with, maybe that was the vehicle … who knows.. i doubt if the folks would remember anyway – and yes….truly happy feelings and tears both abound when i look at both these special images, and i feel so lucky and so loved
peyote
Lovely moments hey
Great photo xXx
MickThow
Hey i wish i can leave these imprints on my children to. great image
Karin Taylor
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Hi there Michael,
I’ve been over to your site and see that you love reptiles too!!
or at least enjoy photographing them :)
I am sure you will leave a special imprint on your children too :)
Antanas
Very good old photo and you version too
Karin Taylor
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thank you very much for that lovely comment Antanas,
very kind of you indeed :)
Tracey-Anne Pryke
WoW! what a great father you have, I just love the idea I have in my head about you in your PJ’S kissing him goodnight…
Karin Taylor
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thank you traceyanne, i’m so glad you enjoyed this :)
udonchow
I read that you dont need us to comment on the image….but just to let you know this is one of the sweetest father-daughter portrait I’ve seen…there’s just so much bonding and love going on…beyond all that words can say :D I’m very sure your dad will like this card!! :D
frozenfa
all still alive and you could sort of play with them, (before we ate them)
oh my… so you have been playing with your food!!! kekeke!!! XD
Karin Taylor
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yesh!!! isn’t that terrible!!!
glompz
Linda Ridpath
the photograph is intensely emotional, so much being said. Your written memories are wonderful…
Karin Taylor
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thank you so much Linda…you are very empathic to notice…
i really appreciate your lovely comments :)
JuliaWright
So great memories for you Karin!
Karin Taylor
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thank you Julia…yes, a very wonderful life indeed :)
Tracey-Anne Pryke
xxxxx
lacitrouille
Lovely old photo. :)
Karin Taylor
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thank you so much!!
EnPassant
Thanks for sharing your reminiscences K. I always like to hear about people’s childhoods. – Great photo.
Karin Taylor
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thank you Richard…i am really happy to share :)
glad you liked it :)
Nira Dabush
Dear Karin..
WOW!!.. I’m impressed by your both braveness, my friend…
and what a beautiful colourful image made for you Matt..
just love this
BRAVO!
HUGS XOXOX
Karin Taylor
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Hello Nira, LOL..thank you :)
Matt did a great job hey!!
I’m very lucky :)
xox
frozenfa
i told my mum about this photo.. she went, “WHOAH…..” hehehehehe… XD
she’s scared of snakes… hehehe.. XD
Karin Taylor
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hehe…that’s so funny….i can imagine your mum’s face and reaction!!
i wouldn’t be so brave now….!!
i do have this terrible tendency to chase chicks though…
and then i remember it’s best not to touch them, because
the mother duck or hen may reject them if you you interfere…
but they are so cute….and so are baby lizards !
lily pang
I love this photo. You just look like my baby right now. It reminds me that I should treasure every moment with her.
Karin Taylor
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thank you so much lily..
my mum says she made that little dress for me too :)
yes, we have to treasure every moment don’t we !!
pinkyjain
What wonderful memories. This is so beautiful and loving Karin. Thank you so much for sharing with us
Karin Taylor
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thank you so much pinky…. i really appreciate that :)
CateTownsend
Man I think I would have had a heart attack on the spot if I was your mum let alone take a photo. It is really so nice of you to share these memories with us Karin, it lets us have a glimpse of your childhood and your wonderful relationship with your dad. Such a treasure, I really loved reading about your adventures on Keswick and the tales you shared of your dads practical jokes so funny. You really have enough material for a book, movie even a tv series I reckon.
Karin Taylor
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lolz….. methinx you are right Cate!!
we had a lot of adventures – a lot of heartache along the way too….but that’s life isn’t it!! I’m so glad you enjoyed this Cate..i’ve so enjoyed everyone’s comments, and so did my Mum and my Dad…who actually came over here and read them all yesterday!!!! they were pretty amazed at the response from you guys :) xoxox
Mui-Ling Teh
I remember the story of how you scrubbed the baby turkeys!!! And how you got your hand stuck in the clam!!! Ah memories… I love this pic; you are so cute Karin, and your dad very handsome.
Karin Taylor
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ah – you have a terrific memory Mui-Ling!!!!
thanx so much :)
Karin Taylor
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....Mui-Ling … your new profile pic is beautiful!!
Mui-Ling Teh
Thanks, I took that photo yesterday.
barnsis
I was drawn to the picture because I have a similar one of my dad and me. However the story was spell binding, so well written. I am applying today to host a new group called I Remember When. If my application is accepted I will let you know and I would love for this story and many others from you to be a part of the group.
Karin Taylor
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...amazing to hear that barnsis… so glad you enjoyed hearing little snippets from my childhood….. this group sounds great…..there is
another fellow called ‘ozcloggie’ who would be good also for your
group, as he does a lot of reminiscing and his stories are interesting
too. I would love to become a member of your group!!! Thank you
so much for the invite, and I feel really happy that you liked hearing
about my childhood so much!
Karin Taylor
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Ozcloggie
barnsis
Thanks I looked him up and added him to my watch list, odd he is a retired teacher also and nearly as old as me.
Karin Taylor
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lol…well, that’s interesting :)
glad you found him….. i must be a bit younger…born 1965
my hubby is a teacher tho !
barnsis
You are two years older than me lovely wife, now figure that one out. } :>)
Karin Taylor
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aha! she must be 41…which makes you????
barnsis
Older than ozcloggie
and we have been married 21 years very happly. So not every old man is a dirty old man!

Karin Taylor
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lol!
barnsis
Seriously I am 65 She is 41 and we have never had a fight, we don’t always agree but we never fight and enjoy life so much togather. Her dad is 1 1/2 years older than I and her mom is 1 year younger, our next door neighbors and my best friends. But enough of that now back to RB.
Karin Taylor
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oh that’s a lovely happy story…see, it matters not what age we are….the older i get the more i realise that !
AnaCBStudio
Thank for sharing Karin!...great and beautiful moments right….missing my dad…sigh
Karin Taylor
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i’m so glad you enjoyed this Ana… aw, sorry it makes you miss your dad xox
AnaCBStudio
opsss…I meant: thanks…:)
georgiegirl
Wow!!! What an adventure… and that was just reading down to here through all the wonderful comments ;D
You had an amazing upbringing! Nothing like living in the country. How many city kids can say they had blue ring octopus for pets (most country kids don’t have them either).
When I was young, most of our pets (chooks (chickens), ducks, goats) became dinner eventually. Zac was mortified the other week, when Mum told him about Bip and Bop, our Nanny goat’s kids. After NannyGoat had them, she moved to a farm with other goats and we kept Bip and Bop for a couple more years. Eventually they ended up in our freezer… after hand feeding them, walking them on leashes and giving lots of cuddles. I’ll never forget how the duck ran around the yard because it lost its head. It was also the last time Dad did that himself!! Couldn’t bear giving animals the chop (a local farmer did Bip and Bop). We’ve only kept chooks and ducks for eggs and chicks (to give away or to keep as egg laying friends) from then on!
Back to you and your amazing life!!! Talk about incredible!! I expect you’ve had a lovely time reminiscing and wandering down memory lane ;D It sounds like you tried heaps to help out with looking after all the critters too… poor little things!! Little kids don’t know their own strength most of the time!! Love the photo… aside from the snake, it could be any one of us Aussie kids!!
Karin Taylor
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hey,, so glad you enjoyed that wee little remiscence georgiegirl.
i remember the day i told dad i was all grown up and i wanted to see him chop the chooks head off….dad warned me, there’d be blood and it wouldn’t be nice….still, i insisted,....it was just shocking…. like you recall…the chook ran round and round and round the yard with it’s head chopped off, and blood spattering everywhere, it was bloody horrific…never could do that again….then i had to witness the plucking and the gutting…..and i never could look at chooks the same way….always knew when mum was cooking a chook that dad had killed, as he never plucked ‘em fully, and the feathers were still on half the time, o it was horrible…. I’m one of those maternal types, when i see the animals i love them, and i cannot bear the thought of killing them to eat…...
It sounds like you too had quite a menagerie of your own there Georgiegirl, and poor old Bip and Bop the goats eh!! I’ve friends who are fattening their calves/now cows and i don’t reckon they’ll have the heart to send them to the slaughter…..they were going to have them done about 2 years ago….and days and years go by, i think they are going to remain family pets somehow…lol…well, i certainly hope so anyways… :)
Ellen
Thanks for sharing, i always like those old photo’s. Looks like a man with a lot of coursge ,your father. Very nice image.
Karin Taylor
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thanx Ellen, pleased you enjoyed this!
Cat Bishop
I love this photo, your dad looks alot like my Dad and this could have been our backyard too, same fence..
Karin Taylor
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hey that’s cool cat….how about that eh…thx many, or should i say many thx :D
georgiegirl
Just thought I’d show off Bip and Bop, with their Mum in the background.
Karin Taylor
aw, thank you for posting this here…it’s such a nice addition to this little thread georgiegirl… i think it’s special to reminisce over the good times when we were young!! We had a goat too, it ate everything in sight!!!!! i can’t remember his name, but he had to goooooooooooooooooo in the end :D
Glenna Walker
Very cute…that snake was bigger than you…yikes!
Karin Taylor
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Hi Glenna… lol, sure was!!! eeek!! :)))
thank you!
barnsis
Karin, thank you for posting this one in REMEMBER WHEN it is exactly what we had in mind for images in the group and will set a good example Thank you again.
Karin Taylor
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that’s my pleasure Byron, i think this will be a great group…
would you like for me to journal about it so more people know?
barnsis
That would be so great if you would, you know several writers who are not on my watch list. Do you think Silentcries would like this one? If so I will send her a personal invite.
Karin Taylor
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Hi Byron, i think it would be really nice to invite her personally.. i think she would enjoy this :))
barnsis
Okedoke off to do it now. Thanks
ccwri
Congrate on your feature in Remember When!! Love your story too We grew up with so many wild animlas for pets too, and thats a cool king snake(I think) that your dad is holding.
MrJoop
Kept coming back to the featured photo on Remember When. Have only just noticed that it’s you, as in the person whose art I’ve seen quite a bit, on the bubble.
Good one! Jo (Ozcloggie)
Dayonda
Congratulations on having your excellent work earn a place in the FAVORITES gallery.
Leena Hedman
Very sweet and so nostalgic! When was this taken? xxxxxxx
gabryshak
matts vector is very sweet
i hold as much admiration for my daddy too
♥t
Vicki Ferrari
Wonderful story and photo Karin!!!
Sarah ORourke
Oh how cute!!!
& i can’t wait to tell Miss Anna you actually scrubbed the little chickies to try & make them clean, she will be so amused!!!
Karin Taylor
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lol… thanx so much for reading this Sarah…i hope Miss Anna finds it amusing!! :) xx
Sharon Mau
I love your delightful stories of your childhood Karin with all the animals and creatures and enjoy seeing this beautiful image of you as a baby girl with your beloved Father. You are truly blessed.
Karin Taylor
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thank you so much Sharon, I’m so glad you enjoyed reading this, I am very blessed, big hugs xxxxx
rain-dogs
Hi Karin what a fantastic photo and memories of a simpler time just superb….and it explains a lot to me…as it seems our fathers were kindred spirits in many ways as your upbringing and mine share a fathers love for nature and nurturing from snorkeling and fishing to having fishtanks…..dad had little decorator crabs in our aquarium that hed drop tinsel and coloured wool into and the crabs would decorate themselves with and often escape to make their way back to the ocean only to be found in their bed or cupboards…we also had blue-ring occys crayfish and baby sharks in the fishtanks or a bath full of abalone…and whenever a whale d stray into our bay in the dinghy and off we’d go to get up close..or driving off the road into the scrub while tracking an eagle high above…and so many times out bushcamping catching mainly lizards as our snakes d just kill ya outright(SA)....you and I may not have had a normal upbringing but certainly a privileged one…........thanx so much for sharing your stories of a wonderful father…........cheers
Karin Taylor
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Rain-dogs, i just have to say thank you for sharing some of your childhood with me, i can’t believe how aligned and similar our early years seemed to be…. dad once took me out many many miles to wave to the captain on the tall ships..i never saw a whale out to sea, i always wish for it…but dad has.
I so love your story about the darling crabs… how adorable!!!!
We too, would drive slowly on every trip and watch the trees for snakes and lizards, and we’d pull up and reverse and get out of the car to look and observe, or to catch ‘em!! big googies (goannas) were his specialty and it was nothing for him to scale a tree while we sat in the car watching and waiting to continue the journey. He taught me to observe.
Once when we were out at Nine Mile Reef off Kingscliff on a greyish choppy day fishing, I noticed a fin..but thought nah, it’s just a choppy wave… it held my gaze though…and I continued to scan the surface of the water… I am not kidding when I say that a 17 foot (same size as our aluminium boat) white pointer shark approached alongside the boat and gave us the evil eye. I was pretty terrified, he submerged and then reappeared 6 feet away travelling directly towards the centre of our boat… his mouth open and water trailing through it…a sight i shall never forget….he gently glided under the water and I am guessing under the boat, and we didn’t see that fella again…
I have a few other stories about staying on an island in the Whitsundays called “Keswick Island” opposite St Bees Island, where the sharks exhibit some very odd behaviour such as crawling up onto the coral on their bellies to retrieve dead shark carcasses and the like… i can’t believe i went snorkelling in that water…the sharks were very determined to get their food lol
I also relate to opal mining or mining for gems, as my father had an interest in that too and made a couple of trips out to lightning ridge as a younger man, he brought home some pretty opals, and i think mum got a pair of earrings made. I have some aboriginal axes and artefacts he found out along the road i think at Tullamore, where there was known to be ancient aboriginal sites… he’s given these to me little notes as to where he found them….I am one of those people that loves museums…i love the glass specimen cabinets and reading and observing every little detail :)
I had done a bit of writing about out time away and the adventures we had at Keswick island, and just getting there was an adventure in itself. I’ve made them viewable again in case you ever have time on your hands and were interested, but no pressure of course :) I’m not a very good writer, they are just recounts i did the best i could.
Keswick Island Stories (8 chapters plus an intro) :)
when we were on keswick, my baby brother caught a little shark in his bare hands….. he wrestled and wrestled with it… it was most exciting, he was caught in the rockpools which went out as far as the eye could see ;)
It sounds like your dad was a great character rain-dogs, we are lucky indeed to have had this childhood and to continue to have such affinity with nature, I envy you somewhat lving out there right in nature’s heartbeat…but i look for signs everywhere i go, even in this urban area there are still treasures to be found and enjoyed every day :)
Of course, being such a girl, I wanted to go in…but Dad said nope!! we are here to fish, why would we go in now? lol… that’s what he was like.. if you went out with him be prepared for anything :)
Later that day as we drove the boat into the servo to fill her up…he mentions he’d had a night terror the evening before, in his dreams waking up in a cold cold sweat to a huge shark torpedoing from the oceans depths into the sky over the boat he was in…. like a premonition…
rain-dogs
your giving me goosebumps now….........we even share the sharks crawling up out of the water to get to a feed on the beach dad had just cleaned some fish he’d speared ….hed go out diving where a white pointer was spotted the day before saying theyre always on the move and it wouldnt be there now and tho i never saw the tall ships he did growing up on a bay full of windjammers see hometown
and even going out collecting aboriginal artifacts and looking for burial grounds…....I will gladly have a read about your keswick island adventures as im intrigued to see what other paralells there are….....well done to us for having such great dads…......cheers
Karin Taylor
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lol, wow…i hear the sharks are way fiercer down SA way! That was so brave of him, is/was he an abalone diver rain-dogs? I have images of dad’s snorkelling days, he would wear a long sleeved brown skivvy (in place of a wetsuit) to keep warm, and spear in hand…goggles and snorkel in place depart into the ocean….and on his return, usually he had something terrific, a big flathead for dinner or a lobby extracted from a secret cave or shelf he’d found…. he’d go in straight off the beach and seemed to know by intuition I guess, where the best spots would be. We kept track of our position out to sea by watching civilisation…you’d pick two points like buildings in the distance and maintain your position if drifting. The most amazing thing i remember out there was seeing sunfish…huge sunfish migrating, like large plates, thick in the water…and i love love love coming across a gentle turtle swimming along, just going about their turtley business… so slow and sure… my favourite fishies are the anglers with the little worms above their heads, the wee little box fish that are yellow and polka dotted with black spots and look like a pea…and the goby….because they are so quizzical and always look at you, and i loved your story about the blue tongue earlier in one of your comments :) I hope you enjoy the keswick stories :)
rain-dogs
yeah we had some narly big sharks at port victoria not all that far across the gulf from port lincon they even closed our beaches one year just like in Jaws but we had 2 monsters reported 7-8metres cruising around…...dad wasnt a pro diver and he also went diving wearing skivvys and jumpers before wetsuits he gave up serious diving after being accidently speared thru the leg by a mate and an incident of a shark taking a recently speared fish of a trail line with a float on it he felt a big tug on the line and turned around to see only the head left he said he climbed out of the water and up the cliff-face when he got to the top threw away all his diving gear and never went diving in those waters again…........id have loved to seen the types of fish and turtles you did growing up we did have box fish in our aquarium and often found dead ones on the beach that we would varnish a preserve their amazing colours…...i truly feel we were both blessed to have these experiences…........cheers
Karin Taylor
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haha… that’s gorgeous…that he would actually video tape the tank… dad just sits there watching them too…it’s very relaxing isn’t it. We hope to get a small tank going again soon, as Ben my son (12) is interested. I was so amazed your dad wore jumpers and skivvy’s too… my dad gave up his boat and now goes out with someone else crabbing and fishing, without the responsibility. Dad used to catch aquarium fish for the tanks which were all salt water in an elaborate set up under the house, but nowadays, he just keeps pretty guppies and breeds them, that seems to give him great delight and less work than the salt water tanks.
Dad is quite eccentric too lol, but he doesn’t realise that. He makes teapot topiaries in the garden, and attaches fairy doors to tree trunks, he creates some fun sculptures out of all sorts of plastic things like silver tubing to create a chesire cat and the tinman and other things and finds pleasure in growing things in his garden…he’s always hurting himself one way or another….
geeez that was a scary story about your dad and the shark….and horrible to get a spear in your leg… i have only seen a shark once when snorkelling and i was very intrigued but afraid…dad was motioning to it, and when i looked i thought what can i do…i can’t get out or anything so i clung tight to him lol – it was only a little shark tho. I guess i have an immense fascination with shark behaviour, or animal behaviour in general… hmmmm, i can’t think why tho lol ;) .... oh and characters….what about all the characters i bet you’ve met in your lifetime, people that don’t follow the straight and narrow, people that hunt and fish their food, and live day to day in an unconventional way…. dad has friends i always love hearing about… they fascinate me as much as the animals with the funny situations they get into… and dad has always been big on playing practical jokes, was your dad like that too? Is your dad still around?
rain-dogs
he also use to video our fishtank for hours and watch it on tv as he didnt want to miss any of the action….a bit mad but wonderful
rain-dogs
yeah practical jokes was a big one with him like sitting quietly on the loo and screaming when you opened the door even tho youd nocked and checked or on a relly hot night squirting us kids with the garden hose thru the window when we were in bed and telling us it was raining sideways…...sadly not here anymore we lost him to a car accident 18 yrs ago but still with us in every other way
funny i too have had 1 shark encounter when diving i bumped noses with a very small grey nurse when diving for crayfish he was as scared as me as we both swam off at high speed in opposite directions…......has been great remembering this and i thank you for sharing your stories
Karin Taylor
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aw, I’m sorry to hear about your dad, I’ve enjoyed this too, very much, thanx rain-dogs….two worlds so far apart, but with such synchronicity it’s really really amazing. :) take care, waves!
Pip Gerard
Loved reading this… My Dad is my hero too! xoxo
What an exciting childhood he must have given you.
Karin Taylor
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thx so much for reading this Pip… i wish i had realised and appreciated it more! I wish i could remember more…i don’t remember the Tottenham days where this photo was taken, but have been told all these things, so for me they are the memories others have of me as a child…i would love to trigger those memories so i could relate to them and really see… I have one memory of Tottenham i think is real, and that’s playing in the sulky (horse and cart) i recall always reaching up asking for an adult to put me up in the sulky… and then pretending to be on top of the world!! and always wearing a red handknitted jumper with a little beret :) xx
Pip Gerard
gorgeous memories. x
rodeorose
Karin I totally LOVE the shot ( ciggie hangin’ out like a real man’s ciggie) and your dad’s whole confidence, as he would have to be in a one-cop-shop, and how tiny you are compared to the snake (yikes) The photo and your story are priceless, plus the way you tell it. Does the jewelled dolphin fish feature yet in your drawings? You practically printed out here in my mind in full-color :))
Karin Taylor
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hey thanx Rosie!! lol…yeah, my mate muscularteeth thought that was cool…...dad always (still) has a ciggie hanging out while he does the gardening or reading a book…fishing…etc…. one memory is he always has one while he’s rigging up the rods… and needs both hands to tie to hooks… one time he set fire to his hair at a restaurant…lol… had the ciggie in his hand resting his hand on his face…and someone could smell burning…he’s quite a character and always getting into scrapes and hysterically unbelievable circumstances…too many to mention…but i’m thinking of telling a few of his stories…maybe one day :) good for a chuckle :)
No jewelled dolphin fish in my stories….not yet anyway, i feel such a traitor for not setting him free that day….what a beautiful creature….i can’t find any pix on the ‘net to show off what they look like when they’re flashing their fiery colours…. as soon as he landed on the deck the colours faded away…. such a beautiful fish. :) xxx
annamora
Karin ..how amazing what a response your posting generated – so deservedly – your dad really looks like a hero no doubt ..and you are obviously catching it from him .I can see it in your body posture and expression .. your text accompanying this is fantastic and so true … and because i cannot manage to read full page of comments and replies right now … i know I will have to return … how delightful :) ......
Karin Taylor
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Aw thank you Anna!!!! I wish I can be more like him and my mum, they are so kind to others and as a grown up I see their great qualities and wish to emulate them more…. Big hugs xxx and you’re very welcome to return to this when time permits !!