Class of 2009
This weekend, May 29, 2009, our youngest,
Tyler will graduate from academy/high school.
Today he called me on my cell to let me know
he had picked up his cap and gown…
He said something else, but I don’t remember…
my eyes watered, my heart swelled,
And even though I have been through this experience
with my 2 daughters, the moment is not less-it is not routine.
My emotions are just as uncontrollable as they
were for Carissa and Lise.
As I see not only my youngest, but my son in this
passage of graduation, I feel like I have learned more
from my children then they from me.
I have learned more patience then I knew even existed!
I have experienced an undying, unflinching, unquestionable,
growing love that has carried me through the deepest and
darkest moments parents sometimes go to.
I have felt the strength and hope from my children that
erases all doubt and gives me all reason to never give up.
I have learned to step aside and allow them to rise
out of their own efforts, or fall from their own choices,
and I have learned to be there for both.
As I slip into this middle aged motherhood,
less becomes more takes on another meaning…
as I watch them become more responsible,
more outspoken and opinionated on life issues and
I become less anxious for them to know my opinion.
So as I iron this gown I will be not be in a hurry and
I will remember this moment forever.
Congratulations Tyler Gunnar Gustavsen, class of 2009.
(our youngest Tyler (right), and nephew Mark (left).
Class of 2009 belongs to the following groups:
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Arlene Zapata
Both very handsome boys! Wishing them both much success. You can see + talk to them for FREE on your computer w/a computer camera + free download from Skype.
jegustavsen replied
I am going to look into that definitely! Is it expensive?
LindaR
wonderful & thanks for sharing ~ feels like we as parents graduate continually in one phase to another along with our children as they grow ~ love the line
“less becomes more” so true ~ so congratulations to Tyler ~ and you too xx
Arlene Zapata
You just need to get a camera for your computer + his. They are not expensive. My MacPro laptop has a camera in it already. Then you can google Skype to find the download page for FREE!
Pam Hunt-Bromf...
Congratulations and thanks for sharing such inspiration.
jegustavsen replied
Thank you Pam, I appreciate your comment. This is such a bitter sweet time of life as your children grow up and away. I am so thankful I have been able to be a parent.