Daddy's Girl

Thomas Dodd

Daddy's Girl

...
The wounded part of her
is sealed with his abandonment
buried deep inside
and still she feels his disapproval
She seeks it in a million men
she rejects them like he rejected her
and still she remains
the little girl whose love was twisted
all those years ago

(dedicated to my ex)

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Daddy's Girl by Thomas Dodd
  • M. H. Stephens

    M. H. Stephens

    Beautiful! Great atmosphere and title! love the tones! Well done!

  • vonne

    vonne

    This brings out so many emotions in me Thomas. Its been favorited and its an aweszome piece. I honestly cannot find the words to say anything more.

  • KEITH  R. WILLIAMS

    KEITH R. WILL...

    very interesting peice i like it

  • Thomas Dodd replied

    Thanks Keith…

  • dimarie

    dimarie

    thought provoking stuff!
    very deep. i think alot will be able to relate to this..

  • butchart

    butchart

    indeed there is an overwhelming sadness to this Thomas… i’m trying to ascertain whats in the upstairstair’s window… i’m thinking daddy…but my monitor is telling me puppy dog… wish i could see the original…. also the blue ankle piece… trying to figure that one out…..... man your images are so interactive….............b

  • Thomas Dodd replied

    Butch – I posted a detail shot for you: as REM said “That’s me in the window…”
    Thank you as always my detail-observing amigo!

  • Antanas

    Antanas

    superb

  • Thomas Dodd replied

    Thank you Antanas!

  • Laurie McClave

    Laurie McClave

    I just can’t talk about this yet…..

  • Thomas Dodd replied

    That’s ok my dear – you know I’m a good listener…
    ;D

  • pinkyjain

    pinkyjain

    very emotional. Poor soul looks so distraught & in such pain. and the Dog in the window, has a devilish look about him. Brilliant piece. Even though we carry baggage with us into relationships & can’t leave the suitcases outside the door it still hurts when we hurt our new partners even tho we try not to

  • Thomas Dodd replied

    Thanks Pinky – thanks so much and you are right – we ALL have baggage – it’s just a matter of how heavy it is – Some luggage is just not totable!

    Psssst – that dog in the window is me…
    ;P

  • butchart

    butchart

    sorry i called you a puppy dog…...........b

  • Thomas Dodd replied

    Ha ha Butch – no offense taken – I did one of those “hold the flashlight under your face” shots for that pic so I know I don’t exactly look fetching! (mmmm – “go fetch”?!)

  • Paul Louis Villani

    Paul Louis Vil...

    A moody and atmospheric artful creation, well done Thomas! :D

  • Thomas Dodd replied

    Thanks Paul – I appreciate the kind words!

  • etta

    etta

    A lonely piece, Thomas.

    Abandonment. Rejection.
    The hurt as a child is something that does not quite heal.

    And so…it is herself she holds…
    Often, a comfortless comfort…

    Such a lonely piece, Thomas.

  • Thomas Dodd replied

    etta – you have a very perceptive and insightful vision ma’am
    Thank you for the comment!

  • butchart

    butchart

    ohhhhhhh.. the things i could say…...............b

  • Thomas Dodd replied

    yes indeed B – and I did notice you’re on your best behaviour!
    ;D

  • whisperingruth

    whisperingruth

    A bit different spin from your usual ‘unique’ style Thomas! The purple/blue hues are marvelous….....I love this work very much….............

  • Tatiana R

    Tatiana R

    Thomas, this is such an emotional piece, I can see it brought a lot of resonance in other people, most of it has been said already, just want to add a little. in every one of us still lives this little girl, who wants to hide so no one else can find her and see a pain in her eyes, when no matter how hard she tries, she still thinks it is not good enough. I think it often happens to a girl, who was a first child, when daddy wanted a boy.

    Without reading the words, it is applicable to everyone. But I do sence a hope, for she turned away, as if she is trying to get free from that pain and guilt.

  • Thomas Dodd replied

    That’s a pretty interesting and accurate take (at least I think so!) Andromedae – I once did a piece called “The Inner Child isn’t Always Pretty” and I think a lot of those feelings of rejection and inadequacy get burned into our subconcious at an early age. I also think that acknowledging it and identifying the pattern is the first step to excorising it from our behaviour…

  • Krisso

    Krisso

    It’s work like this that motivates me to taking photos! Thanks for the inspiration mate!... Awesome!

  • Thomas Dodd replied

    Krisso – always glad to be of inspiration man – you are such an encouraging positive soul – thank you as always!

  • vonne

    vonne

    Thomas I have no doubt she would love as much as I do. Its an awesome work of art and emotion. Without all the trials life throws our way, all the challenges, disappointments, pain, and losses. without having to struggle and overcome all of these things. I do not think we would appreciate all the good things we recieve…at least not as much. I think it would just be taken for granted. Perhaps I am wrong but I know personally I try very hard to let the people I love and care for know how I feel. Having lost 2 very important people in my life at such a young age it made me truly appreciate the gifts/people I have in my life. So although this is painful. It also is a reminder of all the above and that I got through it and learned to love and even trust. I hope you do more like this. You did it very well. {{ hugs}} V

  • Thomas Dodd replied

    Yvonne – you are someone who I think we can all learn from – just the things you told me about how you make your marriage last should be written down – it would be a must-have book!
    There is too much negative crap passing as advice from all the Dr. Phils and Lauras of the world… Sometimes all the psychobabble and 12 Step platitudes obscure the fact that leading a happy healthy life is really quite easy – you just treat people the way you want to be treated (just like Mom said!) and if they want to be an asshole in response – you find someone who will appreciate it!

  • Amanda Hammock

    Amanda Hammock

    Outstanding manipulation.

  • Thomas Dodd replied

    Thank you kindly Ms. Hammock!

  • Karen Cougan

    Karen Cougan

    Brilliant peice of work…............if your art speaks and stirs emotion then that’s all you can ask for as an artist…...............you have a winner here…........congrats
    xkc

  • Thomas Dodd replied

    Thank you very much Karen – that is the best compliment an artist can recieve…

  • giovanni

    giovanni

    evokes a deep sense of sorrow and despair and loneliness…approval has to come from within…wot a great piece…

  • Thomas Dodd replied

    giovanni – thank you so much!

  • myoriginalsin

    myoriginalsin

    Wow this is so powerful and emotive. I found myself having to stare at it for quite some time. Impressive work…

  • Thomas Dodd replied

    Thanks myoriginalsin!

  • Geoff  Coleman - Landscapes

    Geoff Coleman...

    Beautiful and emotive piece this Thomas. I’m afraid the figure in the window does look like a dog but in a way that gives it an interesting surreal touch. This made me think of an alternative compositional scenario where instead of having her head down she’s looking over her shoulder (literally and metaphorically) to the character who so dominates her emotional life, arms by her side with one hand clenched and the other with fingers splayed to heighten the tension.

  • Thomas Dodd replied

    Thank you Geoff
    I’m still not seeing the dog – but then again – I thought it was only the women who see us as dogs!

    Interesting recomposition of the piece – perhaps I’ll do something like that in the future – Thank you as always!

  • Helene Kippert

    Helene Kippert

    Stirring and powerful Thomas

  • Thomas Dodd replied

    Thank you kindly Helene!

  • darkestartist

    darkestartist

    the depth is amazing, both figurative and literal. your prose is an exquisite fit to the piece, and this one actually made me gasp. Love the textures as always, and I confess, I looked for text and book parts…;)

  • Thomas Dodd replied

    Thanks DA – I think I may be entering a new phase, but who knows: I may return to the text thing again at some point in the future (and of course – an avid reader like yourself is probably always looking for a good new book!)

  • Wizard

    Wizard

    quite a stirring work, well done !

  • Thomas Dodd replied

    Thank you kindly Mr. Wizard!

  • Jessica Stephens

    Jessica Stephens

    ..so haunting

  • Thomas Dodd replied

    Thanks Jes!

  • PJ Ryan

    PJ Ryan

    you’re amazing

    the artwork .. the words ..

    truly talented and intelligent.

  • Thomas Dodd replied

    Thank you for the kind words Nicole….

  • shaytay

    shaytay

    You just absolutely amaze me with your work! Every time! Speechless:)

  • Thomas Dodd replied

    Thank you as always Denny!

  • Winslow357

    Winslow357

    This is a masterful piece of art! Very emotional, and powerful!

  • Thomas Dodd replied

    Just trying to keep up with you man!

    Thanks so much Charles!

  • Winslow357

    Winslow357

    OH HELL NO!!!!!! I am not the one with a 5 foot banner outside a Gallery with my name on it!! You are!!!

  • Mohammad Khaksar

    Mohammad Khaksar

    great work thomas.
    i like the focal point you chose and the blur is enough but well balanced not to be too much. clever, arty and stylish. cheers!

  • Thomas Dodd replied

    Thanks MhDkHr!

  • Liesl Yvette Wilson

    Liesl Yvette W...

    Tom this is such a powerful piece. I spent years working with abused children and this image brings to mind a thousand different stories…all the same and completely different. now what I mean. Well done you…not an easy subject matter.

  • Thomas Dodd replied

    Thanks Liesl – I wanted to convey someone who was more emotionally wounded than an outright abuse victim… although I think the line between the two is not so delineated or absolute…

  • Stewart Wood

    Stewart Wood

    WoW, this is great work, i love the detail in this work. Fantastic.

  • Thomas Dodd replied

    Thanks Stewart!

  • Ariane

    Ariane

    This piece is the most painterly Ive seen of your work yet – fantastic – and totally emotive – – always tugging at the heart strings and soul you are.

  • Thomas Dodd replied

    I suppose it’s fitting that I ( as someone who used to play the harp) should still be tugging at strings…
    ;D

    Thanks Ariane!

  • Theresa Rankin

    Theresa Rankin

    Excellent ….again….and says so much. It is a beauty to look at…..and your concept comes across so well. Bravo!

  • Thomas Dodd replied

    Theresa – thank you so much – I appreciate it!

  • aglaia b

    aglaia b

    wow, a really moody, dark, emotive piece.
    lovely dedication.
    love the way her white clothing contrasts with her surroundings.
    another masterpiece!
    ;-) xox

  • Thomas Dodd replied

    aglaia -thank you as always my lovely-avatared friend!
    ;D

  • janrique

    janrique

    Wonderful Thomas. So many people could relate to this and gain comfort from it. Excellent work as always. May I ask who or what is at the window, it looks like a fox or a wolf but I can’t make it out? Not important as far as the image is concerned but I am just intrigued!

  • Thomas Dodd replied

    janrique, I suppose it is now a general consensus that I am the “Doggy in the window” – I have been told several times that I have very lupine/wolven features so I guess that gives this piece a more predator/prey feel…

    Thank you as always my dear – now I’m going to go bury my bone in the garden…..

    ;P

  • gypsycaster

    gypsycaster

    Ouch. This is a truly wonderful piece, but a little painful.
    As always though, wonderful piece!

  • Thomas Dodd replied

    There there GypcyCaster – care for a little healing balm?

  • gypsycaster

    gypsycaster

    LMAO!!! Perfect!!!
    How did you know?

  • Sylvia Karall

    Sylvia Karall

    Lovely work.

  • jlynn

    jlynn

    Very emotional work! Outstanding

  • Wil Southers

    Wil Southers

    nice. reminds me of some of Porcupine Tree’s album artwork.

  • Seanchai

    Seanchai

    please help remove the ache in my heart and lump in my throat….....

  • Maria Murphy

    Maria Murphy

    BEAUTIFUL DARK IMAGE AND GREAT DETAIL.I like this very much.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • helene ruiz

    helene ruiz

    fantastic!

  • Rajdev D

    Rajdev D

    Too good

  • solareclips~Julie  Alexander

    solareclips~Ju...

    Fabulous!!!! Congrats on the front page!!!

  • Lucindawind

    Lucindawind

    fantastic !

  • Joanne  Bradley

    Joanne Bradley

    Excellent work! Thought provoking image! Congrats on making homepage!

  • Christine King

    Christine King

    WOW! Very powerful! Both the art work as well as the description. Great job. ~Christine :-)

  • charlena

    charlena

    This is so powerful and emotional, absoutley love aevry aspect you captured here, I am in awe

  • aglaia b

    aglaia b

    hey congratulations you are famous all over again! LOL xo love your work!

  • Kim Hart

    Kim Hart

    That’s messed up, but in a realistic and relatable way where you’re not sure cuz of all the emotion in the picture or cuz you’ve been there at some point in life with someone/something. Hard to leave the past behind you.

    Love the fact that it’s hard to tell how you did this picture. Seems parts are so clear they look photographed; other parts look done by hand.

  • Sandy Stewart

    Sandy Stewart

    Wow, what an emotional statement this amazing image portrays! very well done and I love the story you typed out for it too!

  • April Mansilla

    April Mansilla

    heart breaking this work of art ….

  • pinkyjain

    pinkyjain

    Congrats Thomas on Being Featured on the Home Page, awesome

  • Alisa Gonzalez

    Alisa Gonzalez

    ;) much love

    congrats once again

  • Ashley DeRossett

    Ashley DeRossett

    This work strikes up a lot of emotion in me, no doubt! I love it though. Fathers can leave scars that run deep. But when they heal there are no words to decribe it. That’s why I paint. I like your image. Great Work!

  • blackoutangel

    blackoutangel

    wow – this is beautiful

  • hfrymark

    hfrymark

    wow very profound and congrats for being on the front page

  • Melissa Sampson

    Melissa Sampson

    Chillingly awsome!

  • AtaAlishahi

    AtaAlishahi

    very nicely done, good work :)

  • Linda Sannuti

    Linda Sannuti

    superb!

  • Mark Weaver

    Mark Weaver

    wonderfully well done

  • blutat2

    blutat2

    Awesome work!

  • Rosalie Dale IPA

    Rosalie Dale IPA

    Congrats on Home Page – well deserved!

  • izzybeth

    izzybeth

    beautiful. so much energy.

  • Nicole Goggins

    Nicole Goggins

    incredible image! v. emotive

  • Glenn-Patrick Ferguson

    Glenn-Patrick ...

    Brilliant.Many lives, many stories.

  • fruitofpassion

    fruitofpassion

    This is beautiful…very emotional and fragile…Beautifully done…amazing poem as well. I am touched by this work…keep it up dear!

    Have A Blessed Day,
    Maria

  • Basia McAuley

    Basia McAuley

    Incredibly beautiful, powerful and eerie.

  • EnVee

    EnVee

    this is wonderful work, great composition and editing….i only want to know becauase i cant make it out for the life of me, “what is in the window upstairs?”

    well done :)

  • Dayonda

    Dayonda

    Exquisite, moody, and heart-breaking. Daddy’s Girl well deserves the recognition of being Featured art. Again, congratulations, and thank you for learning your art so very well. (The accompanying poetry breaks my heart, too.) -=Dayonda

  • jase8812

    jase8812

    Full on, great art work , well done.

  • Alateia

    Alateia

    schpoookay…....................dvd cover! love your work!! xx

  • RosaCobos

    RosaCobos

    Exquisite Soul´s feature of the Núbile rejected by her father…
    A matter of deep psychoanalitical fundations.
    The seed… for the craving of intercourse with men.
    The pit of undervaluation…. and fear.. needing for protection..
    Out of home…
    Out of herself.
    She will be looking for “him”..
    remaining a little girl… in a part of her soul.
    Rosa (what can I tell you?... it is beautiful Thomas)

  • mooonrocks

    mooonrocks

    i feel this!

  • myoriginalsin

    myoriginalsin

    Hi Thomas I have featured this art work in The Redbubble Digital Alphabet because it is such an amazing piece. I hope this is ok…Check it out in my journal: The Redbubble Digital Alphabet

  • amarica

    amarica

    Thomas, your work is fantastic. The writing is so revealing. You say so much with your art and very few words. Terrific

  • Susan Grissom

    Susan Grissom

    great work, fantastic insight in your statement. you are very wise

  • J Anderson

    J Anderson

    Really says a lot! Very moving, even with out your description, the painting says it all

  • Barbara Morrison

    Barbara Morrison

    Beautiful piece! Congrats on Home page! Daddy is a little creepy.

  • Nelson Campbell

    Nelson Campbell

    Incredible.

  • Tracey Mac

    Tracey Mac

    Stunning work, to create something so beautiful out of pain from someones past is a very special thing…..such a superb image…....

  • Tracey Mac

    Tracey Mac

    Oh and congrats on the Home Page!!

  • JimFilmer

    JimFilmer

    great work …again Thomas… and something that touches more than the “little lost girls” out there… I keep away from the subject… as this is a very similar story to my ex….and so life goes on

  • Joanne  Bradley

    Joanne Bradley

    Powerful statement both in image and words! Congrats on homepage feature~

  • CateTownsend

    CateTownsend

    Very thought provocking and inspirational work

  • Steve  Woodman

    Steve Woodman

    Fantastic image!

  • Birgitta

    Birgitta

    So much raw pain & emotion this stirs up. Deep.

  • Damien Taylor

    Damien Taylor

    Thomas my ex suffered because of her father. He went to work one day when she was six years old and never came back as he ran off with his mistress – and in doing so fucked up her life (sorry about the language) and she still cannot form lasting relationships. An amazing piece of work, powerful and emotive, just as art should be when required.

  • TaniaLosada

    TaniaLosada

    Perturbing…

  • catherine walker

    catherine walker

    wonderful..well done!

  • Lynn Moore

    Lynn Moore

    How do you know so well the minds of women, both young and old? A woman of any age could claim this image as her own story. And the writing too reveals an understanding I’m not sure many men could express. Your work is a story waiting to be told. I hope many tell them in response to this beautiful piece and experience healing as a result.

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