I always had questions about my life,you know the “what ifs.” What if I married another guy instead of my present husband. What if I was still single. What if nothing bad ever happened to me? Those what ifs can sometimes be waved off as meaningless thoughts but; what do you do when they can’t be? Does that mean that your living a lie? Such conflict is involved with these thoughts that they can’t really be as meaningless as we think. Are the what ifs a subconscious wanting for things or are they just curiosity.Would your life really be different? Would you still be who you are. Deep down do you really accept your choices in life? As you can see the what ifs generate countless questions and is some cases even more confusing answers. The fact that they even exist makes me ask myself am I just living a lie? What do I really want? Do I have what I want already? Why am I still searching? What am I here for? As I think the longer my list of questions become. I also noticed that once you have started thinking about the what ifs you cant stop. Is there ever a time when the what ifs are gone and if so when? My advice to you would be to never ever let those what ifs begin to form because once they do their there and its quite hard to deal with them.
What if “what if”s are needed to really live life? I would be much more worried about someone who did not think about and question things- to ask “what if” seems very human to me. Just because you question things does not mean you cannot also love and accept your life as it is and know that you can go whichever way you please in the future :) Perhaps that is how you deal with “what if”s- accept them as part of life but also remember to look for the good in the choices you made.
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What if “what if”s are needed to really live life? I would be much more worried about someone who did not think about and question things- to ask “what if” seems very human to me. Just because you question things does not mean you cannot also love and accept your life as it is and know that you can go whichever way you please in the future :) Perhaps that is how you deal with “what if”s- accept them as part of life but also remember to look for the good in the choices you made.
that was beautifully said….i never looked at it that way before