Read my lips!!! I said "HELL NO!!!!" You're shootin blanks and I need a drink!
acryl on canvas
Well, I think the title is self-explanatory….we come to a time in our lives when we are just tired of gettin “screwed” ...I was born “screwed”. so gettin “screwed” even more is not on my list of things to do…i have better things on my agenda….
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micmac
Things we could do not to see the life .I called that living with «sunglasses on».Sex can eat you up raw.There were a time where I though that the body was only a tool for others to use.
H M Bascom
Damn, hitting hard, hitting home. NO means NO. Great work
flower68
Waaah!Fantastic artwork.Wow.
Joe Valcourt/M...
Intense and powerful
umauma
The Goddess who has teeth!!! Fantastic Image…
helene ruiz replied
thx lol///yea
madvlad
yes yes yes sex is only masterbation with out love of the holder of the tool, i was married 38 years to my wife i loved her,in my 20,s i played around, and found it empty and even cold, until i found a love, i did not know exsisted, it was a love of respect, care, and enjoy each moment with this person, not a part of this person, but young are hormon crazy, as all is lost to lust,and the second of pleasure, but sadly respect, caring are lost, too, bad we are wired for instant graditifcation . not long, sure caring of another soul, what is value? what is trash? who leanrs this fact? none it seems at times, and as the song goes, and the beat goes on! love is a mist few seem to find?
helene ruiz replied
thnx for ur comment!........well as u can see from my painting i have given up on “love”.....i just find happiness…PAINTING….(and its safe :-)
Lim-Lim Andonovic
topical, topical topical. i think for many women. (and one guy i met who was open about it) our sensationalized society, grown out of the last 4000 years of patriarchy really does not portray the magic necessary to make such intimate physical bonding also emotional and sacred and carefree. maybe not the sentiment in your title – but the sentiment to the whole “the more one seeks gratification (especially from a seemingly external source, ie another human being), the less chance one has of ever reaching it…” lol (synically) better not to want, tis true.
drawing (or paintin) is a great release no? !
and madvlad – sex without love – it’s not like masterbation at all (unless it’s some tantric master performing the service) – this involves intense communication between the two parties. attentive communication. otherwise it is NOTHING like masterbation – masterbation would prove much more satisfying on a physical level. -
even when there is love involved, unless the guy has had some kind of special training from some great communicative girl beforehand or like i said, is some kind of tantric master or is open to learning and exploring and most importantly, with all of his spirit body, listening…. a rare thing, no? tell me i’m wrong, but in any couple, doesn’t this art take years to develop and master and synchronize in a fulfilling way to both parties.
esp the way girls are still made to feel when talking on these subjects – i know it’s meant to be all fair now, but i think it’s not – it’s not many generations back that things were really obviously totally warped between man and woman. only 1or two generations, and i’m sure out of the metropolises, it is probably the between then and now (I am in london). Where my husband is from in the Balkans is still sure like that…
great picture helen.
keep that GREAT heart of yours open and your spirit free …. x i hope you don’t mind me being so open here and bearing all…
blessings and brightness
helene ruiz replied
thnx for your honest and open comment!~ appreciate your “no fear” response
neogolas
You’re very creative with a style of your own,however this is beautiful work.
helene ruiz replied
thnx…...
Paul (Quixote)...
An intensely and provocative image, Helene. I simply love it.
Dan Elbourne
very cool and visceral :)
is the title deliberately misspelled?
helene ruiz replied
thnx!
misspelled? which word?
Dan Elbourne
you’re / your :)
at the moment, you’re saying, “i, and the shooting blanks that belong to you need a drink!!”
i assume that you meant to say, “you are shooting blanks and i need a drink!!”
i know. i’m anal… lol :)
helene ruiz replied
lol..u r so right…didnt even notice (lol) thnx for letting me know! going to make the necessary correction now! thnx thnx thnx….........
Dan Elbourne
lol :) no probs :)
helene ruiz replied
smile….......
xXluvinlifeXx
Fantastic image Helene and oh so true!!!
helene ruiz replied
oh yea lol..thnx
Alleycatsgarden
Powerful – message is clear
helene ruiz replied
lol..thnx
Donna Raymond
awesome work sista!!
helene ruiz replied
thx!
Astoreth
Oh boy…can I every relate to this Helen. Well done. xx
helene ruiz replied
lol..i think we all know this one huh?...thnx for looking!
Virginia McGowan
wonderful art Helene you are extremely talented. I just adore and envy your skill so much with the brush .
I am soooo lucky the perfect partner for 54 years and still super perfect , hoping for another 50 LOL
helene ruiz replied
awe…how sweet…Best to you and thnx so much!
mikeyartscape
fantastic image ! – pure joy emanates from pure love I give to myself firstly before i can know and feel love from another. I’ve never liked the word “respect” it sounds like a judgement or belief with conditions. My heart is open and I observe with less emphasis on attachment – all things spiritual :)
helene ruiz replied
thx so much for ur comment!