Everyone we meet in our life, our family, friends, accquaintences, lovers and ex lovers will provide us with an opportunity to have at least one lesson, be it good or bad, that we will eventually learn from. Whether you choose to acknowledge it is another question. Sometimes, failure to see it will cause the same situations to keep on happening again and again. Ever have the thought that you are going through the same cycles over and over again? In this case, you need to see what’s the change required to break the cycle, and work towards it.
Be positive, and think about what you want in life/love/money.. the list goes on. Trust that all your wants will come, and it will. Now I know its not easy, especially when things all seem to be so difficult and going wrong, and what is meant by being positive is not even having any negative thoughts at all. Do not even think about the possibility of your spouse cheating on you if you want your marriage to be wonderful and loving, just think about the loving things you will say to each other, things you will do together. If you are anti-war, be pro-peace instead.