Humans are incapable to not feel emotion. As strong and couragious as we would like to come off, we all feel feer, sadness, and lonliness at one point or another. When we feel hurt we may try to deel with it in different ways, but its all the same. I’ve personally started to notice the way I deel when I’m hurt. Some people become the weaker apponent, caving in, trying their best to win whoever it is that hurt them over. Some people, like me, harden up the part of their heart that was hurt. I’ve been told that I act bold and confident when I get hurt, but in reality- I’m losing part of a feeling in my heart. In a bitter, cold world, how else are we exected to handle hurt?
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To learn from it. Every experience in your life, positive or negative, has made you the person you are today. The real challenge is taking all the knowledge you’ve gained and not letting it discourage you, rather, let it stay with you and lead you to the best solution in future experiences where ever the knowledge can be applied. And although hurt, sorrow, pain and loss are sadly some of the few constants in life, remember that happiness, friendship, love, kindness and a myriad of others are all around the next bend. And know that without loss you would never appreciate gain, without sorrow you would never truly appreciate happiness and without hate, what would love be? With nothing to compare it to, the most beautiful emotion in our existence would be condemned to a fate that I hope I’ll never have to see, being taken for granted. I wish there were more kind, considerate, honest and caring souls in the world but alas the difficult we complete quickly, the impossible takes a little longer. Who knows, maybe one day common sense, common courtesy, respect and honesty will all be as common as we’d like them to be? Maybe. Just maybe.