Christopher Ewing


need prayers for a friend....

Who would have ever thought that 3yrs ago, while I am just starting my photography career seriously. I join a photography website in hopes my work will sell. That this woman who happened to comment on my work and started giving me tips would end up helping thru the years in my photography. Surely not I.

She has been such a true and real friend, which is so hard to find now a days. She is the one who has helped me improve and progress. I cant put into words how much her friendship means to me, and I am sure anyone else who’s path has crossed with her, feels the same way.

She is an angel in disguise, willing and having helped everyone that she has come to meet. Im sure there are so many people that can probably tell the same story as myself. Not to mention an awesome photographer herself, and a Master in Photoshop (best I have ever seen).

Friday she started bleeding internally, of course she had to go straight to the hospital immediately. After losing 3 pints of blood, and dozens of tests, they finally found the problem this morning. She has a hole in her colon along w/ a blockage. Today she had to have emergency surgery to try to fix this problem.

So Im asking that anyone and everyone that reads this, and a lot will probably know her, since we all at one time were on the same photography site.

Her name….Marianne Venegoni

So along w/ those of us who had the honor of hanging out w/ her just at the beginning of this month, need help in more prayers sent her way, so this problem can be fixed, and she can get back to a halfass normal life again.

It breaks my heart a person like Marianne has to go thru this, it just isnt fair. Why does it always seem the good ones always have to go thru such terrible things. I dont think I will ever understand that.

Im not a real religious guy, yes I do believe in God, but…I dont believe in churches. I know I have asked for the strength for her to pull thru this, and I’m asking others to help me out.

For those that do, I’d like to thank you now. She needs all the prayers she can get right now.

It’s really hard especially when she is hundreds of miles from me and the others. If I could get away with it, I’d head down there. So it isnt like I can just go hang out at the hospital. Sometimes this internet is a good thing..but on the other side of the coin, it’s frustrating as well.

So once again, to those that do help us out in sending some serious well wishes…..I cant thank you enough, my words wont ever express what your help really means to me. All I can say…is …thank you.

  • Antoine Dagobert

    Antoine Dagobert

    count me in…i will pray for her my friend!!

  • Christopher  Ewing

    Christopher E...

    Thanks very much Ant. I know quite a few people might not really recognize her name, since she has been sick since we all found RB. So she hasnt really had the time or strength to get as involved here. Once you guys get to know her, you will love her as much as we all do. Thanks again

  • Anthony Pierce

    Anthony Pierce

    Done Chris! Hope for the best.

  • Bonnie T.  Barry

    Bonnie T. Barry

    First of all, Chris, thank you for sharing this information with us. I agree with you that Marianne is a fine lady; she’s sent helpful tips my way and has always been gracious and humble, given her impressive talent. I join you in praying for her complete recovery. I believe firmly in united prayer so I propose that everyone who reads this gives at least five minutes of their time before bedtime tonight to send prayerful thoughts and united hearts Marianne’s way. We don’t have to be in the same room to accomplish this; all we need is to meet in the chambers of our hearts on her behalf. May the good Lord touch her now and raise her up to health. Thank you, Chris, for sending out this plea.

  • Christopher  Ewing

    Christopher E...

    Thanks Tony, I really do appreicate it

  • Christopher  Ewing

    Christopher E...

    Thanks Bonnie, and you’re right, she is always willing to help anyone and Everyone!! and not think twice about it.!
    here’s her link…sorry I’m not up to par on making it a actual link.
    So anyone interested, can just copy and paste

    http://www.redbubble.com/people/photoeyes

  • Darlene Marryatt-Ruhs

    Darlene Marrya...

    Consider it done Chris! I look forward to meeting her one day! She sounds like a terrific woman and I will place her right after my Parents in my prayers tonight.

  • AngelPhotozzz

    AngelPhotozzz

    You can count on me as well my love and prayers go out to Marianne on a speedy recovery!

    Love and good wishes
    Wendy

  • Roslyn Lunetta

    Roslyn Lunetta

    thank you Chris for keeping us up to date, sending my thoughts starting now…

  • Christopher  Ewing

    Christopher E...

    Thanks so much Darlene, Wendy, and Ros

  • Scott Ruhs

    Scott Ruhs

    Of course, Chris! She sounds like an amazing person. While I am not a religious person I will still send out my love and best wishes to Marianne.

  • Maria Dryfhout

    Maria Dryfhout

    Chirs…Marianne has been added to my list. So sorry to hear to what happened. One never knows when our lives can change. It can happen in a heartbeat.
    God does accept “knee-mail”... in church, driving down the road, or in the middle of nowhere… I agree with you!

  • AnnieG

    AnnieG

    I am so shocked to hear this. I can’t possibly tell everyone here how much help Marianne has given me over the past year or how talented she is or about her wonderful sense of humor….she really is someone you need to know yourself. She is a true friend! My prayers are with her.

  • Mundy Hackett

    Mundy Hackett

    Oh God Chris, absolutely I am praying as I type and hope she is out of trouble and back on her feet soon! She has always been there for me in the few short months we have known each other, and her praise and guidance have really been a blessing for me on so many levels! She has kept me out of trouble more than once in my internet ramblings, I feel just ill for her and you right now. I am sending all of my positive energy and prayers her way and yours, because I know how much she means to you. If you talk to her, please tell her that I want her to get better asap, because I need her here! And send her my love, because although we have never met she is that close to me in spirit and I mean it! Rest well Marianne, rest well Chris, we are praying and thinking good thoughts for both of you tonight. Thank you for sharing Chris, it means a lot, it truly does! Rest my friend, all will be better son.

    Mundy

  • Wanda Faircloth

    Wanda Faircloth

    Marianne has touched our lives as well.She is a one in a million lady. Prayers,hugs and anything else she needs is hers. We love you Marianne

  • TrEaSuReDiMaGeS

    TrEaSuReDiMaGeS

    I’ll be praying and adding her to my list too Chris! I don’t understand why things like this happen either!!! ........ But I do believe in the POWER of prayer!!!

  • Christopher  Ewing

    Christopher E...

    Thanks very much Sruhs, Maria, Ann, Mundy, Lal and Wanda. I havent heard anything as of yet, as they say..no news is good news? Still wish Id hear something tho. I guess it’s the not knowing. I will sure pass on the well wishes and all, and Mundy..you’re right 100% on all. Im hoping she reads off of this, knows how many love her, and chews my ass out for even mentioning it!

  • Christopher  Ewing

    Christopher E...

    Thanks so much Treasured..really is appreciated.

  • Sherri Hamilton

    Sherri Hamilton

    To the angel who started helping me in Nov. 04, Marianne is that angel here on earth, and oh how much she has helped me though the years… I can’t begin to thank her, never in a million years could I thank her enough. We have been though alot together as well, she and I both know what and when. I had the best gift given to me just a few shorts months ago, when I got to meet this wonderful angel, and throw my arms around her and tell her just how much she means to me. We sat and talked by a stream the others just had to wait while we finished talking and finally we walked back, but really we didn’t want to leave that special place. All I want is for the Good Lord above to heal her. Give her the strength she needs to make it through this time in her life. And give us many more trips together.
    Love and Prayer for my Best Friend!

    Sherri

  • budrfli

    budrfli

    Chris, sitting here feeling shocked and in emotion knowing how special it had to be for all of you to be together…and then hearing this. Prayers right now for the Lord to touch her at this moment with His healing power, to give her peace that passes all understanding, and to wrap His love around her. You are right , it is so hard to understand when it is someone who is so good and so giving. He WILL keep her! prayers for you also, for peace and blessings on you as you are there as one of her true friends! He will keep you both. Please bubblemail me when you here something!
    prayers and faith for healing,
    Sandy

  • Joan Smart

    Joan Smart

    MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AND ARE FRIEND !!! JOAN

  • Christopher  Ewing

    Christopher E...

    Thanks so much Sherri, Sandy, Joan. They did have to remove part of her colon yesterday. Last I heard, she’s in a room, I’ll wait to call her sometime this evening after work, maybe then she will feel up to getting a call. Thanks again so much.

  • Christopher  Ewing

    Christopher E...

    an update for now on marianne. first id like to thank ALL that commented and viewed this journal, even tho you might not have commented, i do hope ya helped us get her well, if you did..along with Everyone else..Thanks So Much

    right now she is in her own room, she will be in the hospital for at least another week (ugh), they did have to take part of her colon out..which really sucks, but she is a fighter as much as an angel..she can handle it
    just thought those keeping up w/ this would like to know
    i know im partially relieved (i will be more so once i know she is home and doing better)

    Thanks again SO much to everyone (i cant say that enough)

  • Melinda Kerr

    Melinda Kerr

    A prayer from me too.

  • Christopher  Ewing

    Christopher E...

    thanks very much melinda
    i just called her, was a Quick call, she’s tired, i could tell, and medicined up pretty good..its going to be a LONG week..sighhh

  • Sheryl Kasper

    Sheryl Kasper

    So sorry to hear what Marrianne is going through. She will be in our thoughts and prayers.
    She has been very helpful to everyone always and now she needs our help. Glad to do it.

  • AnnieG

    AnnieG

    Chris, Thank you so much for this update! It’s nice to know that she has been taken from surgery to recovery to a room. Just that much is good news-that she is no longer waiting for tests and has been cleared from the emergency list so to speak. I know she must be exhausted and in pain so I will not ask for updates again and will wait until you hear something.
    And you are right. Our angel is also a fighter! She has been through so much already and regardless of all her health problems, she has always taken the time to help others. Bit of a pisser, that girl!!! ;) She never whines, never even tells you she is having health problems. She is the type that if she had access to a computer right now, she would be giving me PS help from her hospital bed!!!! For anyone who has not had contact or conversation with Marianne, she has battled health issues for some time now and never lets it stop her. She is truly a courageous woman!
    My continued prayers
    Ann

  • Christopher  Ewing

    Christopher E...

    thanks very much Sheryl and Ann, and you’re right Ann she is a fighter. and we will definitely have to keep her there in our prayers for awhile i do believe, and im SURE she is jonsing Big time for that laptop!! lol

  • Wanda Faircloth

    Wanda Faircloth

    Good news.Thanks for the update Chris. I feel so helpless sitting here,wish I could do something,anything! Please update us as much as you can.

  • Christopher  Ewing

    Christopher E...

    and ditto wanda and lal!! i hit that powerball tonight, all of us will be heading to alabama!! lol we hang out in the hospital parking lot! lol

  • momleeb

    momleeb

    Marianne???!!! I hope she’s better now Chris. She has been a real inspiration for me- both personally and professionally . Hard to find someone like her who has the knowledge and is always willing to help.

    My thoughts and prayers are with her. Please let her know I wish her well. Keep us posted Chris.

  • whisperingruth

    whisperingruth

    It breaks my heart too Christopher . . . Marianne will be in my thoughts and prayers . . . I am feeling she is going to be okay . . . Sincerely, Ruth

  • Christopher  Ewing

    Christopher E...

    thanks so much momlee and ruth, she’s been a serious inspiration in my life, so im Sure she has been in everyone else’s :)
    i talked w/ her a few tonight on phone, she is sounding So Much better tonight. She will be in hospital for a few more days tho. The bleeding has stopped, so it must have been her colon and not the ulcers ..so glad they found that
    Thanks again everyone for sending your prayers and well wishes, I wont ever be able to put into words how it makes me feel you have openly helped me and others out on getting her back to the good ole Marianne again..thank you from the bottom of my heart

  • Sherri Hamilton

    Sherri Hamilton

    Marianne – She is an angel, a fighter and with both those together she is going to come out of this and be back on her feet in no time at all, I’m just glad it’s winter, she can stay in stay warm, and when Spring comes she’ll be ready for hitting the road with her camera…. as for helping folk, she’s helped plenty, but she wants no praise, even tho we give it, she is one of a kind, and I’m so Proud to call Her Friend!

    Sherri

  • Christopher  Ewing

    Christopher E...

    and make that a HUGE ditto sherri, you nailed it down 100%!
    talked w/ her tonight, she sounds so so much better :):)
    ill feel a lot better when i know the coast is clear tho

  • Christopher  Ewing

    Christopher E...

    i talked w/ marianne today
    she is getting frustrated, poor thing, they havent let her get up and
    walk around yet
    and they arent really letting her eat
    she has quite a Few docs coming in, of course like their buttox hole,
    each one has a different opinion, so she hears this, then another
    comes in..and tells her that
    i can understand why they arent letting her eat much, that colon and
    muscles are all ticked off, they cant risk it tearing
    i feel so bad for her, i could tell she is wanting OUT of there, and
    is OVER it
    she thinks she might be in there for another 4-5days :( of course
    none of the reg docs work on the weekend, and she is stuck w/ the poor
    guy who works ALL the patients on the weekend..so guess who has a
    tude? the doc! lol
    i told her..next time he comes in w/ that tude..just simply tell
    him…she will take that IV line and wrap it around his damn neck if
    he doesnt ditch the tude and communicate w/ her ..hehe
    they will pass it off on the drugs they been giving her…. :D lol

    as much as she likes to do what she wants, im SURE this is starting to
    get pretty rough for her, however, it is a good sign she is getting
    back to norm , if there is such a word…lol

  • AnnieG

    AnnieG

    Thanks for the update Chris. I am sure she is frustrated with being in the hospital but I am sure it is for her own good. Hopefully, on Monday, she will hear from her own Dr. and they will know more and be able to give her a time when she can go home. And I am sure you are right. If she is getting feisty, it’s a good sign!

  • Christopher  Ewing

    Christopher E...

    I am VERY VERY HAPPY to report..marianne is HOME! :):)
    from what her best friend sally said, she’s very glad to be home, but wont be on the computer for awhile. Im sure she has still a ways to go before complete recovery!
    Thanks again SO MUCH Everyone..for sending your prayers, you’re all angels in your own right

  • Bonnie T.  Barry

    Bonnie T. Barry

    Praise the Lord! So happy to hear this terrific news, Chris, and thanks for keeping us posted. You are a faithful friend!

  • Christopher  Ewing

    Christopher E...

    thanks very much bonnie..and she makes it very easy to be a faithful friend, and thanks once more for all your prayers

  • AnnieG

    AnnieG

    Any new news Chris?

  • Christopher  Ewing

    Christopher E...

    not since she has gotten home, she emailed me once and that was it, i figure she isnt able to spend as much time on the computer, not until she heals better, i sure hope all is A ok

  • AnnieG

    AnnieG

    It does figure that she won’t be on the computer or doing much of anything else at this point. I just didn’t know if her friend had called you or anything. I am still praying for her until she herself can tell me to stop! LOL

  • Christopher  Ewing

    Christopher E...

    well guys, a bit of bad news..sigh
    marianne is back in hospital, she went to doc yesterday, complaining about pain in her leg. they did a test on it, and found a bloodclot, they are going in to get it fixed, and then do a procedure to help prevent anymore from happening
    i guess it holds true, when you feel something isnt right about someone, you should contact to find out whats up, ive had this feeling for a couple of days now, and yesterday was the strongest, and then i wake up to an email this morning, telling me the news
    so looks like our “job” isnt over with yet
    once again, for all of those who have read this, and put marianne in your prayers, thanks so much, i just wont ever understand why there are so many bad people in this world, why the Good Ones have to suffer so much

  • Mundy Hackett

    Mundy Hackett

    Thanks for the update Chris, and the task of prayers and well wishes for those we care about is never a done deal! It is a daily endeavor!

  • Gary L. Suddath

    Gary L. Suddath

    Didn’t notice this, not been on here much with my bronquities.I just talked to Marianne.They haven’t delt with the clot yet but she did seem in good spirits she still needs our prayers.This is a rough time of year to be having problems keeping you away from home.

  • AnnieG

    AnnieG

    This is not good news at all but at least they caught it and I am still praying. Thanks for keeping us updated Chris.

  • Christopher  Ewing

    Christopher E...

    talked with marianne tonight, was another close call, had they not caught this clot, it would have ended up going into her heart. along w/ dealing w/ that, some of the stitches in her stomach had busted. so tomorrow isnt going to be too good of a day for her , i hate to say
    i told her id be calling her tomorrow night, to check on her
    i hope to God, everything works out A ok tomorrow

  • Christopher  Ewing

    Christopher E...

    after talking with marianne last night, she is going to be in the hospital for about two weeks :( they are needing to keep a close eye on her, if she’s ever needed any prayers its now. along with fighting for her life, she is stuck in a place that isnt home for the holidays. her doc said she might be able to go home for about four hours for christmas, then must be back in the hospital, they still havent done the filter yet to prevent the clot from moving to her heart. that should be done this morning
    so everyone..please pass on the strength to her to make it thru this, especially with the holiday season now at hand…thanks

  • AngelPhotozzz

    AngelPhotozzz

    OMG thought she was getting better well she has all my thoughts and prayers for a quick recovery and hope for a healthy new year.

    Sending my love and prayers

    Love
    Wendy

  • Sheryl Kasper

    Sheryl Kasper

    I’m sorry to hear about this set back for Marianne. I will continue to keep her in my thoughts and prayers as well.

  • momleeb

    momleeb

    Thanks for the update Chris. I’m thinking of her and I hope she has a quick recovery.

    -Momlee

  • AnnieG

    AnnieG

    Chris, Thanks again for the update. It’s awful that she has to spend the holidays in the hospital but better she is safe and being cared for. Please pass on my wishes for her and I am still praying.

  • budrfli

    budrfli

    Chris, just caught up with everything going on with Marianne. Prayers are with her this minute. Although it is tough being in the hospital, with a blood clot it is smart!
    prayers for quick healing!...where in alabama is she???just curious how close she lives to me!! i think she told me when we were on shutterpoint…but somehow i lost touch with her when everyone moved here…but anyways! prayers this morning!

  • Gary L. Suddath

    Gary L. Suddath

    Marianne is in this hospital for those wanting to know
    Northeast Alabama Regional Medical Center
    400 E 10th Street
    Anniston, Alabama 36201
    Telephone Nr. 256-235-5121

    Room 533

  • budrfli

    budrfli

    thank you Gary!!

  • AnnieG

    AnnieG

    I just talked to Marianne on the phone. She said to thank all of you for the prayers! She is so grateful for them and for all the well wishes. This is truly a courageous and wonderful lady!

  • Christopher  Ewing

    Christopher E...

    yes she is, and its a shame more dont really know her on this site, hopefully when she can get back to her “norm”, she will spend more time here and realize the type of people that are here, and thanks gary for posting that, i didnt know for sure if should do or not…lol

  • AnnieG

    AnnieG

    Just to give people who don’t know Marianne an idea of what she is like-when I first met her, she jumped right in by emailing me with PS advice. Not only that, but when I had an event I was asked to do and didn’t have a lens that I needed, she actually offered to priority mail it to me to use for the job!!!!!! How many people would mail you a lens or even loan it that long distance? Or loan it out at all? She is a very experienced photog with no ego! She never riducules or makes you feed stupid when you ask a newbie question. And she has spent hours with me privately, to help me with technical issues. I am not one to gush about people-but this is one person I am gushy over! Incredible lady!

  • Eyal Nahmias

    Eyal Nahmias

    Somehow I feel like a fool, completely out of the loop. I was just informed by Chris about Marianne condition, and to say the list I was shocked. I never met her personally but our acquaintance is going back from other sites. All the things that have been written on her are true, And I only wish for her speedy recovery. I’m not a religious guy and I do not believe in God, but I do believe in the human spirit and strength, and she has plenty of that. All my best wishes for her and her loved ones. Phone calls, letters and support from friends and family are the things that makes the person the alive and well. So open up your hearts, call her, send letters and e-mails and let her know that there is a whole world that is standing beside her.

  • Kimberly Palmer

    Kimberly Palmer

    I’m sorry to hear she is back in the hospital…. My thoughts are with her and her family.
    thank you chris, for keeping us updated.

  • Christopher  Ewing

    Christopher E...

    well talked to marianne tonight,
    she’s passing on a thanks to the flowers sent (bonnie and ann), she said they were Beautiful!! she’s planning on having Sally bring her camera up there! lol
    she sounded great tonight compared to the last few nights..that is a Huge Relief!!
    ill be so glad when she is completely out of the woods
    she does have her family with her tonight, which is a very good thing :)
    thanks again everyone for helping us get our buddy back on her feet

  • Christopher  Ewing

    Christopher E...

    here’s a shot of her flowers she shot today

  • Christopher  Ewing

    Christopher E...

    marianne had a great day today, the above are flowers she recieved from bonnie and ann, she loves them and of course had her friend bring her camera up there. she sounds so much better, she might get to go home on friday, thats the prediction for now :):):)

  • AnnieG

    AnnieG

    It would be wonderful if she is ready to go home tomorrow!!!!

  • Christopher  Ewing

    Christopher E...

    i talked w/ marianne tonight, she said they are letting her go home tomorrow (friday) its been a LONG two weeks!! hell a LONG month!! the blood clot is still there, and so far her ulcers arent bleeding due to being put back on the blood thinner (lets just hope it stays that way) she has a long way to go for complete recovery, without a doubt this was a setback. come to find out, she’s had the clot in leg for awhile..and the damn doc’s knew about it!! GRRRR
    one even knew about the blockage a few years ago!! i hate doctors!!!! lol they think they own and can control a patient, and the saddest part..is the patient allows them to!
    anyhow..lets hope..she doesnt have to return to that place for a very very veryyyyy long time

  • budrfli

    budrfli

    Chris!
    thanks for the updates!
    So glad to hear that she will probably be home today!
    yea!
    the picture of her flowers made me smile and think how spunky she is!
    Which says full of life to come!

  • Christopher  Ewing

    Christopher E...

    just for anyone interested, marianne got to go home yesterday, she still has a way to go for a complete recovery
    thanks so much for those who kept up with this journal, it really does mean a lot to me for you to take the time out to leave a comment and send your prayers
    thanks again

  • Bonnie T.  Barry

    Bonnie T. Barry

    Thanks, Chris, for the news about Marianne. I’m so glad to hear she will be home for New Year’s Day and let’s pray 2008 will be a much improved year for her with better health. Marianne, come back! We need to see those gorgeous photos of yours and see your smile through the lens! Happy New Year!

  • Christopher  Ewing

    Christopher E...

    sigh..bonnie..she wont be home for new years
    she went back into the hospital yesterday morning
    lost 2 more pints of blood, so they had to replace it
    going to be rough acting happy tonight at midnight
    sherri hamilton’s mother passed away this morning , she had been ill for awhile
    so she is in a much better place

  • Bonnie T.  Barry

    Bonnie T. Barry

    I’m so sorry to hear that, Chris. It’s been a rocky road for Marianne. I’ll continue praying and hoping for a turnaround soon. Blessings in 2008.

  • Bonnie T.  Barry

    Bonnie T. Barry

    Hi, Chris, any news about Marianne? Just wondering and still praying.

  • Christopher  Ewing

    Christopher E...

    yea bonnie, she’s made it home..again
    hopefully this time, she Stays Put
    they managed to get the bleeding to stop by finally taking her off that blood thinner
    surprized you didnt see her comments on shutterpoint..she’s been on there..guess not here, thanks for asking

  • Mundy Hackett

    Mundy Hackett

    Glad to hear she is finally home again Chris, thanks! Give her my love.

  • Christopher  Ewing

    Christopher E...

    thanks mundy..i will do

  • budrfli

    budrfli

    just stopped to see how Marianne is doing…
    glad to hear that she is home!
    i did not know about Sherri’s mom!

  • Christopher  Ewing

    Christopher E...

    yes…she passed away on the 31st, they buried her yesterday, sherri said it went beautifullly, she is holding up well. her mother had been sick for quite sometime now, so her mother is in a much better place now

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