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Powerful read; I know adults who were violated when they were very young by a parent. I went out with a lady who had been abused by her father for many years. We were good friends. Because of what had happened when she was a child and persisted through young adulthood, she suffered terribly, in and out of mental facilities. It stole her childhood and crippled her emotionally as an adult. It is a tragic crime (one of the most hideous, in my opinion) you so vividly bring to our attention. Profound writing!
Throughout my life I’ve known and befriended many woman who were abused. I have also spent some time in reletionship with one who powerfully deals with it, she has run survior groups herself. This experience has somehow made me into a magnet for recognizing this, my life, living decades in the public art worlds played a role in this. Most all I known have used the arts to live! Including the healing arts! I do feel the subect will alway need as much light as it needs. Healing does exist here, the more natural the method the better.
I think this one heads the list of the worst crimes against the innocent because in reality the child has been ‘murdered’ before life has really begun and is crippled in so many areas thereafter, especially in the area of healthy relationships with others, the backbone of life itself…. There is healing, it takes time and patience and I agree that the more natural the method, the better. Thank you for taking the time to shed some light on this heinous crime against the innocent.
THANK YOU Avalone, well said. The crappiest part is love and intimacy in its infancy for all of us is wrenching and devastating; all on its own, even without abuse. Yet, for those abused, and some for extreme long periods of time, the chance to be wrenched and rung out to dry naturally (or not) gets twisted in with all that was taken by an outside force, and the trials just seem relentless, more so. Even though these lesson are relentless for all. It really is a murderous theft, but the power of unconditional love can outlast what seems to the victim to be what participated in the silent terror and latent guilt of the time. Thank you for caring enough to comment! Big hug!
Wow, this is a powerful piece. Raw and honest and with the most empowering closing line. A healing mission. Your words here are a hand to healing. I am amazed by survivors’ strength, not just in general, but their Daily strength. Their Daily Choice – I Survive – I Am. I am humbled by their strength. The terror and abuse human beings can endure is something that never ceases to amaze me. My mom has told me many, many stories… both things she experienced and things she witnessed, that have been burned into my psyche. I wonder in awe at how humans survive atrocities. And not only survive but heal! I find that nothing short of a miracle, equal in audacity to the Sun rising every day. In their Strength, they are the embodiment of the Sun rising out of Darkness. As tears roll down my face, I wish Peace to their tortured souls with every ounce of my being!!!
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No wonder…… a writing style that streams words and lines into the readers mind. A bold choice indeed it shows depth ..your reach !
Reading you brought me memories of several fictions and half fiction half real stories , real happenings and many a real hap within own span of life , ever since I sensed this human need as a thirst , a hunger , a pleasure , a crime , and at most times just one indulgence , an infatuation , a romance ….leading to a point of no return and many times to an extent …a deep sorrow !
It is certainly not merely a matter of incest alone , its a matter concerning various whims and fancies of Heart in chest , another beater under the belly and yet another , the Top storer of general know how in ethical sense and over all analysis of all in one go ….and only when one is aware over all and in control at given moment…does the mishap to happen has a chance of avoidance !
Unawareness , the so called boldness in matter of love , and a thing called independence and individual right is more responsible for relative mishaps !
Since ages…age itself is a big matter , but these days its ( difference ) shown the scantest regard . For example when a 53 year old man observes a particular feeling in a 13 year old girl ( can happen right ) then it mostly depends on how that man at 53 handles the same as a responsible human being , what can happen ar will happen subsequently is no accident . The same is true of a case ….vis a vis . I have actually seen this …between two of different nationality…race etc etc…..! Similar thing is likely in sense such as incest …….as mentioned in some comments above , may be style is different !
I think I must stop here now….though…well talk can go on and on…as …." (Stream of Linear Poetic Conscious) is a style that streams words and lines into the readers mind. "
What can i say my friend? Profound, insightful, intelligent, compassionate, and a humble and vulnerable share of words. thank you for the time you give here to this comment and too the series! I am most grateful!
Reading your insightful writes and talking with you is sheer pleasure !
Mutual is the gift that grows here! It is a gift from you each time you receive these insights and in-turn shine on from within them to create a light within a light. And the beauty is this brilliance of how no harm of love becomes being. Your friend, cc
Only by the light of your powerful read boo. Thank you! Your courage to return and read on through this journey is astounding!!!!
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