hypothetically though, what if someone knew that they thought of things in the wrong way and they know that they should change that, and they thought that if they were to finally listen to their heart then they could have a clean start and then things could be different. I mean deep down, doesn’t everyone want to change for the best and have a fairy tale happy ending?
jcmontgomery
changing yourself is one thing changing others is another and in changing yourself are you simply losing the negative? remember that in changing, others will see and accept and stay others may not accept and go because you are no longer what they once saw “To thine own self be true” is not just a platitude and it takes a lot of strength and fortitude to be what you want to be, even if it seems you are the only one who knows this
I know…probably more questions than answers from what Ive just said but am trying to share, not tell, or even advise….as truly, all of us have to chose our own path…and I know from experience, as I have travelled many that seemingly led nowhere, . But I gained so much from the experience (life lessons and all), that I made peace with those decisions, even if looking back, they were wrong
Again, probably no answers here for you to consider…but maybe some additional things to consider when making your decision
This is such a difficult question, whether you are 17 or 47…changing for the best is always a good thing….fairy tale endings belong to fairy tales, happy endings belong to you….and I hope you find it
then is it wrong to change because you want to keep from losing someone you still have? I mean what if you were to change things about yourself because you know you need to, you just never thought you could find the stregnth to do so. But, then you find a person who you want to be the best you can for and you think that they could be your strength and inspiration to do so, or, would that still be changing for someone else?
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Cato29
hypothetically though, what if someone knew that they thought of things in the wrong way and they know that they should change that, and they thought that if they were to finally listen to their heart then they could have a clean start and then things could be different. I mean deep down, doesn’t everyone want to change for the best and have a fairy tale happy ending?
jcmontgomery
changing yourself is one thing
changing others is another
and in changing yourself are you simply losing the negative?
remember that in changing, others will see and accept and stay
others may not accept and go because you are no longer what they once saw
“To thine own self be true” is not just a platitude and it takes a lot of strength and fortitude to be what you want to be, even if it seems you are the only one who knows this
I know…probably more questions than answers from what Ive just said
but am trying to share, not tell, or even advise….as truly, all of us have to chose our own path…and I know from experience, as I have travelled many that seemingly led nowhere, . But I gained so much from the experience (life lessons and all), that I made peace with those decisions, even if looking back, they were wrong
Again, probably no answers here for you to consider…but maybe some additional things to consider when making your decision
This is such a difficult question, whether you are 17 or 47…changing for the best is always a good thing….fairy tale endings belong to fairy tales, happy endings belong to you….and I hope you find it
Cato29
then is it wrong to change because you want to keep from losing someone you still have? I mean what if you were to change things about yourself because you know you need to, you just never thought you could find the stregnth to do so. But, then you find a person who you want to be the best you can for and you think that they could be your strength and inspiration to do so, or, would that still be changing for someone else?