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Sunday Miscellany - Incapable or Unlearned by Cathal .

Posted on July 08, 2011

Writing is my winter sport, but that’s not because I don ‘t write in the summer, its just that the plants shout at me louder in the growing months, as they pop up their heads in places that surprise me, and the snails begin their game of guerrilla munching which has been known to send me into an apoplectic range of a Sunday morning, when nurtured seedlings have been decimated to a status of single stalk, left erect in the clay pot as if flipping me the bird knowing that if I kick them, I shatter my pots. I like my pots, and the fucking snails know that too, they’re goading me. I blame the Missus, she’s an expert goader, remind me to tell you about a camping episode and the mental alarm clock.
But I’m not writing about snails today. I just want to try and get back into sharing a miscellany of a week in the life, or as I prefer to think of it, a life in the week.
I was in the garden this evening, forgetting my worries and thinking of my week. I keep a notebook with me, something Redbubble thought me to do, and I jotted down thoughts that occurred to me., ideas for stories, comments worth recording, and imagineering worth exploring. So to try and keep in touch with everybody and avoid my usual summer bubble hibernation, I’ve come in to the mac and starting banging down the thoughts I’ve just jotted down, and I’ll just post it after write one, so apologies for its lack of effort.
I noticed in the office today, that whilst it might be ‘casual Friday’ and everybody ditches the suits and the pencil skirts and white blouses, for some it should be more aptly called ‘uncomfortable Friday’ Apart from the fact that some men don’t have casual clothes other than golf shite, some of the women look decidedly uncomfortable in clothes that should make them feel more at ease, so that was debate number one after I mentally clocked off at 3 o clock. Debate number two was entitled ‘Is second stealing, actually stealing?’ which was a discussion on stealing newspapers from colleagues desks after they had been stolen from another colleague in the first instance. What can I say, it was a Friday.
The third note I have jotted down in my book is this. – ‘Incapable or Unlearned’
Let me explain. Last night I met two fantastic ladies called Caroline and Amy. Caroline is a social entrepreneur involved in disability rights and founded a company called Kanchi which strives to ensure an equal shot at employment for people with different abilities. We met at the launch of a DVD for people with intellectual disabilities which starred Amy. Amy spoke to a cinema filled with people and discussed the purpose of the animated video she was voicing over. She has also voiced the lead character in a cartoon called Punky currently showing on TV here in Ireland. It’s the first cartoon in the world where the lead character has Down Syndrome! Amy, who has Downs Syndrome herself, is rightfully proud of this achievement. We had champagne and finger food afterwards and Amy filled me in on the process of voice over and animation as it was something that really interested me. In the meantime Caroline, who’s personality was as attractive as her figure and her smile, happily bantered with me the merits of people with intellectual disabilities having Rebel Advocates, people who show them there are choices that involve body piercing, tattoos, hair dye and mohicans, religions and atheism, words and abstracts, snakes and cider. It’s one of my dreams. And whilst I don’t have the vocab or the background or knowledge that can espouse my theory with any semblance of academic proof, I firmly believe that by rebelling, we learn to choose. And when we learn how to choose, we learn how to actually live a life. A life that is ours and ours alone. And that’s what I wish for all that are considered different. And from talking to Caroline and Amy last night I’ve realized that If you can’t play the piano, or ride a motorbike, or paint a picture, is it because you’re incapable, or is it because you haven’t learned yet? And maybe that is how we should think of people who are different.

So before I sign off, I urge you to check out Caroline, here’s a link to a talk she gave at a TED conference in December. “Caroline Casey”:http://www.ted.com/talks/caroline_casey_...
And if you ever get to see Punky the cartoon, you’ll be hearing the wonderful voice of Amy, who can play numerous instruments and drink champagne whilst smelling a red rose as if that’s how it should always be done.
In the meantime I’m going to kill more snails and maybe add some more pages to a story called Pete, inspired by a comment from fellow bubblers Lisa Baulmer when she told me about the Ontario School for the Crippled, and by Jenny Nestor and her wonderful cartoon strips. It’s too big for posting in RB already! I do rabbit on a bot you know!
Have a great weekend folks, and if you do get a chance to check out Caroline at Ted.com. pop over and take a look at Ken Robinson too, here’s the link, I hope “ken Robinson, Schools kill creativity”:http://www.ted.com/talks/ken_robins...
Have a great weekend folks

  • Nestor

    Nestor

    Hello Cathal,
    Reading about your meeting with Amy and Caroline I was wondering at how the themes in our life seem to draw situations and people towards us – confirming our ‘dreams’.
    It is amazing the power you can feel when you step outside the box society customarily puts you in.
    Lovely read…and I do understand the snail battle. I used strips of copper around my seedlings last season and that worked pretty well.
    Thanks for your kind comment. I really look forward to seeing ‘Pete.’ Can you post it in pieces/pages?

  • Cathal .:

    Jenny these snails have beaten the copper, they’re the IRA of the irish snail :)
    When I have it finished I’ll certainly get you to read it by hook or by crook, although I’m not sure your inspiration of a cartoon strip and my ‘usage’ of it will please you :)

  • wildwomenlove

    wildwomenlove

    wow what a wonderfully funny and inspiring speech from Ken Robinson…
    and what a brave, honest, wise and inspiring speech from Caroline…
    I loved both of them…
    I too cant stand labels…they are always used to box and limit…I passionately detest them…
    it’s funny I had a conversation about this just the other day…and I wrote Heartlight about this same topic …people use labels to box us in and keep us small…to categorize and to dismiss…that way they feel safe…I’m a creative and have spent my lifetime living outside the box, it is very difficult for me to do only what I am told…it is in my nature to be always learning and always moving forward…true creativity is like that…thats why I love Ken Robinsons speech…
    I agree with the incapable versus unlearned title…we all have everything inside us, worlds within worlds…and its what we focus our attention on we become…if we focus on the I cant’s then that is what we become…like what Caroline said, it is the depth of our belief that gets us there, cos it’s what gives us our resilience, and with resilience the human spirit can climb moutains…
    another thought provoking and interesting write Cathal…thanks for sharing it…Sharon…x

  • Cathal .:

    Great wasn’t he, and he just stood there the whole time and your eyes never leave his face! Caroline was great, her enthusiasm is infectious!
    I’m off to read Heartlight, cheers Sharon

  • Lisa Baumeler

    Lisa Baumeler

    Hello my long lost friend! I was starting to wonder if that garden of yours had eaten you whole. I’m so happy to see you posting a Sunday miscellany once again. As much as I adore your stories (and I truly do!) I get a different kind of joy from reading about a “day in the life of Cathal” and your take on life. I guess it’s the voyeuristic side of me! :^)

    I watched Caroline’s TED video (love that website!!!) as was very impressed by her story and the emotion in her words. Yes, she was probably a bit nervous but what I heard even more was the compassion and conviction she has for her story and where it has taken her. I really like your concept of incapable VS unlearned and I do believe that it’s a great way to look at, not only people who are different, but all people. People who have closed minds haven’t learned to see the world from different angles. They need to either have a drastic event occur in their life that changes their path or they need to make a conscious decision to evolve. A serious stretch for some, I know.

    Can you explain your train of thought on one of your comments please? I’m intrigued by the general concept and would like to know that I’m getting your intended gist. In the passage “merits of people with intellectual disabilities having Rebel Advocates, people who show them there are choices that involve body piercing, tattoos, hair dye and mohicans, religions and atheism, words and abstracts, snakes and cider. It’s one of my dreams.” Is there actually a group called Rebel Advocates, as this is a term I’ve never heard. Does this mean that Eldest is getting a tattoo with a heart encircling the word “DAD”?

    A friend recently wrote to me “Each friend represents a world in us, a world possibly not born until they arrive, and it is only by this meeting that a new world is born”. I’m so happy that my universe includes a world named Cathal. So my final, not so profound thought is this….you are not incapable of tackling those snails. You just need to go to a garden shop and learn how to take those suckers down!

    Have a wonderful weekend!

    PS…..I am so looking forward to your story in progress…..post it in stages if you feel it’s too big. Anticipating the next chapter is half the fun. But please do post it! Now that you’ve said it out loud, you’ve declared your intent and I’ll hound you if necessary! :^)

  • Cathal .:

    Hiya Lisa, Its a great website isn’t it, imagine what we could learn just sitting in a car with an ipad! The Rebel Advocate is a dream of mine. I’d love and Hate if eldest came home with a tattoo. But I think that he should have the choice and unfortunately many people don’t know what their choices can be, and that’s where the Rebel Advocate would come in. Supporting people to make informed choices by informing them of the choices available. Lets face it as parents we’re not going to tell our kids certain things that are open to them because of our morals, taste, judgement, opinion, etc. But they’re OUR morals etc not theirs and whilst mainstream kids can grow up to form their OWN morals and opinions, many people with intellectual disability don’t, they take on the ones that are given to them by parents or support staff etc. Hence their need for Rebel Advocates, but thats just my opinion :)

    I will post Pete I promise, as for the snails…..I’m getting the kids on to the case! Cheers Lisa, talk to you soon

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