"I Remember You.."

Birgitta

"I Remember You.."

..and it seems like yesterday that you were here.
Laughter filled the house, and love spilled from your eyes,
and I was happy. I see this place, it’s not the same. The
aching in my heart threatens to pull me under, and sorrow spills
from my eyes..and I am torn. I remember you. And I will always
remember you..



Dedicated to anyone who has lost someone near Christmas time.
Tomorrow, I will be going to the cememtary, and placing
fresh flowers on my Father’s grave, as I do every Christmas.
As Lumineaux said, not everybody is “happy” this time of year.
But Life does go on! And our loved ones would want us to be
happy too. :) Hope you all have a wonderful day tomorrow!


(taken today, at the abandoned farmhouse..)

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"I Remember You.." by Birgitta
  • Mark Gardner

    Mark Gardner

    very moving image and words

  • aphoto4you

    aphoto4you

    so sorry…but this is great presentation…

  • randyhanna

    randyhanna

    What a wonderful photo and the moving words to go with it…Merry Christmas!! to you and your family…Randy

  • StacyLee

    StacyLee

    This is beautiful and heart-wrenching. I’m sorry for your loss!

  • Martie Venter

    Martie Venter

    Yes – isn’t it amazing how much we remember, and how it seems like only yesterday when those we have lost were still here?
    Beautiful words and photography, Birgitta!

  • Deborah Parkin

    Deborah Parkin

    incredibly powerful – both in image and words – this time of year certainly is one of reflection as much as celebration – i hope you still have a happy day tomorrow xxx

  • Kurt  Tutschek

    Kurt Tutschek

    yess – what more could I add. powerful image, impressive words, birgitta!

  • mlgkats

    mlgkats

    very touching, and great photo, very meaningful words for those families and friends

  • Tom Broderick IPA

    Tom Broderick IPA

    i love it what else can i say. tom

  • Mohsen Bayramnejad

    Mohsen Bayramn...

    So sorry for your Father,
    Very moving and so emotive work…

  • Marion  Cullen

    Marion Cullen

    A very moving tribute Birg, your words brought tears even though I am one of the fortunate ones. There are so many others that are not. You are right though, it is good to remember, but also to be thankful.
    Wishing you and yours a warm and wonderful Christmas babe. Hope the New Years brings all that you could hope for and then some!
    M x

  • Phil Thomson IPA

    Phil Thomson IPA

    A Marvelous Tribute, both visually and verbally, to those that we have loved and lost !!! A great reminder to pause and reflect on the memories of wonderful moments etched in time ! My thoughts are with you Birgitta and pray that you will draw strength from The Comforter, who never leaves nor forsakes us. My best wishes for a Blessed Christmas and a Prosperous(in all ways) 2008 !! Phil T.

  • susan davies

    susan davies

    a beautiful tribute lost my father dec 19th few years ago, stil hold my memories dear, friend lost her mum today

  • gemlenz

    gemlenz

    nicely presented…. it’s those memories that help us go on… hang in there…

  • Birgitta

    Birgitta

    Thanks everyone. :) Just want you all to know that I’m not sad, depressed,
    etc. etc. (It’s a rare thing for me to be “depressed”.) Reflective is a good word
    for it. But I am joyful. :) Thanks again for stopping by!

  • ozjami

    ozjami

    Beautiful reflection,poignant message to all…

  • Anne van Alkemade

    Anne van AlkemadeWordsmith

    so sad – I can only imagine how lonely that farmhouse must seem now.

  • Glenn-Patrick Ferguson

    Glenn-Patrick ...

    Powerful stuff B.Thank You.

  • stephen  jones

    stephen jones

    this is what i call brilleant; Sorry I do not kinow how to spell it is gooooooooooood very good

  • jerry  alcantara

    jerry alcantara

    what a great work! very timely,merry x mas

  • Cheri  McEachin

    Cheri McEachin

    He would be so proud of you and this image…wow

  • pryere

    pryere

    A really nice tribute Birgitta, well done

  • Wegwoman

    Wegwoman

    Nice BW and textures. Very moving. Thanks for the inspiration today.

  • Carlos Solorza

    Carlos Solorza

    You did a wonderful job on this. Beautiful color and comp

  • micmac

    micmac

    Thoughtful and moving work Birgitta ,fantastic image.

  • Craig Hender

    Craig Hender

    Stunning work, i love this composition. Well done, and Merry xmas.

  • elisab

    elisab

    I am glad you are reflective and not depressed. Your Dad wants you to go on, and you have.

  • Wendy  Slee

    Wendy Slee

    yes
    you brought tears to my eyes….. I understand completely….
    yet how true it is that our loved ones would wish for us to be happy with or without them….as I would for them….
    beautiful work!

  • Douzy

    Douzy

    Beautiful picture and moving words that brought tears to my eyes, as this is the 3rd Christmas without my father… Like you, I’m not sad or anything but sometimes (like when reading your words!) it just “gets” to me and I can’t help shedding a tear or two…

  • Birgitta

    Birgitta

    It’s my 3rd year as well, Douzy. HUGS
    It’s a mixed feeling, of joy..knowing he’s in a MUCH better place..
    and I know that truly, and simply..missing him. Hope your Christmas
    is special. ;) And Wendy…I am going to bed!! (In about another hour. heheh..)

  • Bones

    Bones

    Birgitta Im favoriting this one only because of the description, its brilliant. Well done

  • LostBoy1

    LostBoy1

    I know a lot of people are hurtin` this time of year…

  • Antanas

    Antanas

    Great work

  • SNik

    SNik

    would hate to vivisect this one into its compo etc. a truly talented outcome with the touching dedication. most of us have lost someone over holidays. Merry Xmas and a carefree 2008, Birgitta and thanks for your care. Nikolay

  • Stephen Forbes

    Stephen Forbes

    Fantastic work…

  • H M Bascom

    H M Bascom

    Wow. A powerful image. Your work here is beyond great, it’s outstanding.

  • Stacey Hatton

    Stacey Hatton

    Very powerful. Thanks for sharing something so potent

  • Heather  Rivet  IPA

    Heather Rivet...

    very powerful and moving

  • Jeff  Burns

    Jeff Burns

    Beautifully done

  • Paul Tupman

    Paul Tupman

    Wonderful image Birgitta and very moving words to accompany it.. Christmas definately is a time to think of loved ones and those no longer with us and this is a great tribute to those memories.. that’s what we have to hold onto..

  • Michael Farruggia

    Michael Farruggia

    I think this is a new fav of mine. very touching and makes me think of the ones i miss most

  • Michael Farruggia

    Michael Farruggia

    I think this is a new fav of mine. very touching and makes me think of the ones i miss most

  • Michael Farruggia

    Michael Farruggia

    I think this is a new fav of mine. very touching and makes me think of the ones i miss most

  • Scott Denny

    Scott Denny

    Thank you so much. I lost my sister around Thanksgiving of 1998. It was a hard time that carried into the Christmas season. Thankfully she had re-dedicated her life to Christ. I will see her again someday. In the meantime. Thanks for such a touching photo and words.

  • Helene Kippert

    Helene Kippert

    A moving tribute to your father Birgitta – wonderful work

  • Andy73

    Andy73

    Very powerful image Birgitta. A beautiful tribute.

  • Birgitta

    Birgitta

    Thanks so much everyone. :)

  • DawsonImages

    DawsonImages

    Beautiful words and image

  • Vickie  Fisher

    Vickie Fisher

    What a beautiful tribute, it is very powerful in words and image. Thank you for sharing. I know this is a hard time of the year if you have lost someone.

  • lex7

    lex7

    Birgitta.. this is fantastic.. the composition is perfect, the tone is perfect.. a really strong title.. I love this. Great job.

  • Lulabell

    Lulabell

    brilliant colour use, composition is great, texture is fab. everything about this image is perfect.

  • Lisa G. Putman

    Lisa G. Putman

    This tugs at my soul…It wasn’t Christmas that I lost my dad to a young man acting out on his own pain, making his problems everyone else’s…as he took 2 lives that meant nothing to him in front of a classroom full of young college students. It was Good Friday for me, Easter has never been the same. Christmas is especially difficult because dad loved Christmas more than anyone I know. I haven’t seen the same sparkle in my mom’s eye for 27 years. I know what you mean by feeling you are being pulled under. Many times it takes something to wake me up and remind me that I am still alive, I didn’t die with him…I am frozen in 1982 in the happy world of a 14 year old girl, waiting for daddy to come home.

    Thank you so much for sharing this. This is a beautiful image even though it can be very ugly at the same time. Just like the memory that inspired this image, remembering can bring happiness, but usually with equal amounts of pain and sorrow.

    Loss opens a walkway to what really matters in life. It presses us to see and feel in ways we hadn’t previously considered. And while loss doesn’t seem like a friend, it often brings refining touches to our character. It can sharpen compassion toward others, it can move us beyond fear, it can hekp us to determine a clear-cut path, and it can deepen our dependence on God.

    You’ve inspired me to work on creating an image, or images, that express my feelings about my dad…This is truly beautiful, Birgitta! My new favorite, I think. It so hard to choose…

  • Heloisa Castro

    Heloisa Castro

    excellent work

  • ANNETTE HAGGER

    ANNETTE HAGGER

    THOUGHT PROVOKING IMAGE

  • dreamlenz

    dreamlenz

    Amazing shot, mood, setting, color choice, lighting and especially the meaning behind it.

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