Meow
This is dedicated to a special feline – Meow – and how he touched our lives for a very small time. 
Meow belongs to the following groups:
All Things Poetic, Artistic, Philosophical, Everyday Life, Something To Say and The Word TreeWe found him, Meow, around the back of our garage crying in terror. We were both horrified to see how wasted he was and that he found it difficult to walk. All I could offer him was a bowl of milk. Next morning he was faithfully sitting on the step waiting for us. It was then that we realised this cat was here to stay.
Phil has never been a great cat lover but to my amazement the cat went straight to him and when he picked him up, he cuddled tightly into his body, burying his head and purring loudly. While they cuddled, I rushed to the local shop to find cat food to feed him.
Where did he come from? How did he find us? Or why did he pick us?
The thought came to me that maybe someone had died and the cat had been forgotten or did someone move away and leave him behind, or did he stow away in a van and then find himself in strange territory? Next I scheduled a trip to the vet and he confirmed that he was a desexed, unchipped male tabby about 12 years of age. I needed to provide a name for the clinic’s records so without hesitation I named him “Meow” mainly because he answered to this. There didn’t appear to be anything obviously wrong with him other than he needed a good feed and had at sometime suffered major leg injuries that had left him with arthritis. So home to our cosy house with me determined that he would not be spending much time inside – WRONG?
This wonderful litle creature soon captured our hearts and trained us to his needs. After his morning feed he strongly demanded to be cuddled before finding a safe spot inside in the sun. He made it known when he needed to leave the house for toileting by standing at the door and meowing. He tried out each bed and lounge in the house and got us into his routine of when he needed company. During winter he found his way onto our bed and would snuggle up close to our face before finally settling in between us for the night.
So it went on for a couple of months and he thrived. I studied his different meows and learnt what each one meant. At first Meow didn’t eat much but as time progressed he experimented with food and I catered to his special tastes.
One Tuesday he went on his usual outside trip but didn’t return and by night we were a little concerned but horrified the next morning when he still didn’t turn up. By Thursday we were both distraught! The house was not the same without our little Meow. I wandered aimlessly through the garden looking for him and calling his name, my husband was at a loss and it was obvious that this cat hater had been won over. I placed a photo and add in the local shop window and on Friday went door to door handing out leaflets. Late that afternoon I was wandering lost through the garden when I heard a loud ‘MEOW’!!!! I ran wildly towards the sound calling out ‘meow’ in reply, he replied with another meow and so it went on. To anyone watching or listening they would have thought me mad. He was standing at the door, looking quite distressed and thin. I swooped him up and cuddled him closely and he instantly started to purr loudly before I prepared him a hearty meal. Where had he been all this time? No one owned up to finding him however I feel he may have unknowingly been locked in someone’s laundry or garage – we will never know. The wonderful thing is that he headed straight for home which really indicated that he was now our cat.
The months went by and Christmas arrived. Meow handled the grandchildren invasion quite well, finding a safe haven in our walk in wardrobe. When they left he soon assumed his run of the house although it was obvious he was a little confused. Then we started having little accidents around the house and I started to put him outside more. He didn’t seem to mind. The weather was hot and he soon found a special spot under a bush in the backyard. He would arrive at the door to be fed and then rush back to his special spot. Daily he demanded a cuddle and we took it in turns going into the yard to find him and spend time with him.
One day Meow didn’t come for his meal and on calling him he could only muster a weak meow as if saying “come and pick me up, I haven’t the energy to climb the garden stairs”. I scheduled another vet check during his booked boarding stay to coincide with our six day holiday. On the day we were due to book him in he was listless and just snuggled into my husband on the trip to the vet. On arrival it was obvious that he was not well and the vet promised to run some tests while we were away. Unfortunately the tests results showed he had severe blood abnormalities that could not be reversed and the vet advised that it would be best if we could put him down. This was a hard decision. We had only known this little fellow for 8 months but already he was part of our lives. It was a most difficult decision but we convinced ourselves to offer him the ultimate gift of eternal peace.
The house is so quiet without Meow and its now that we realise how much he added to our lives. He taught us to love and nurture a creature in need – I hope he understood what he gave us in return.
© copyright Beverley Woodman 2008
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OH BEV! <(
You have had a wonderful experience! Thank you for writing it out and sharing it with us!
When … if ? ... no when my cat has kittens again you are welcome to your pick :O)
Bravo dear friend! :O)
Chookas! XX♥XX
Bev Woodman replied
Thanks heaps for replying – I knew you would understand. We have only ever had two pets in our 42 years of marriage. A border collie “Oscar” who lived for 17 years and “meow”. I’m afraid I take their passing too hard so I choose not to have any unless by accident. Thanks though for the offer – I would weaken – I’m so glad we are so far apart in this case! Thanks my friend, I appreciate the sentiment.
Raquel Bourne
Wow Bev, what a wonderful but sad story. Pets are everything, I myself am a dog person, but understand the love a pet. I had a little dog from the age of six who sadly had to be put down after my eldest daughter’s 1st birthday, she was 18 years old. Now my girls have a little fella (a little sheltie) we’ve had with us since they started school and is now going on 9 years old, but still as playful as ever (sitting under my feet as I type, his favourite spot) and I can’t imagine him not in our lives. My heart goes out to you.
Bev Woodman replied
Thanks Raquel. I grew up with cats – we always had plenty around the house – all part persian and my favourite was “Sputnik” or “Sputy” as she was affectionately called. She was born the night of the first sputnik space launch and we had her for many years. After we were married and had children, the boys convinced me to get a dog, a border collie (tri-colour) and he was part of the family (didn’t know he was a dog) and lived until he was 17 (I had to put him down and held him until he took his last breath) – I don’t think I’ve ever got over losing him. Meow came along by accident as we vowed we would not have another animal. We are prone to up and go away at the drop of a hat and an animal would be difficult to fit in with this as I would hate to have to keep leaving it behind for a day, a week or more. I must admit when we had Meow we didn’t go anywhere overnight in the whole time we had him. He latched onto our hearts and again our hearts were broken when he left us – maybe I’m too sentimental. Anyway for now we have no plans but I’m like a clucky hen and it probably wouldn’t take much to adopt something but I’m sure we would go for another dog if it ever happened – but its not planned!! Thanks so much for the chat.
PPV247
Good on ya Bev. I’m ready for bed and trying to dry eyes before anyone notices. As you know the house here is full of “pets”. In fact it is full of all the loved members of our family. The passing of any one of them tears the soul. Have known you for awhile but didn’t know about Meow until now, but have always seen the love in you. Honoured to call you my friend.
Bev Woodman replied
Thanks Pete – I knew if anyone in the world understood my story, you would with all your “family”. He was a funny little fellow who impacted greatly on us while he was with us. We didn’t intend to have another pet but he gave us a lot of joy and we at least gave him quality of life for a litle while – he was skin and bone when we found him.
Sue Wotton
Oh gawd, Bev, I’m so sorry. I know how it is with cats, I have two rescued ones, and the last is not well. I’m sitting here crying over your words…
Bev Woodman replied
Thanks Sue – he was a wonderful little critter. We had a border collie (Oscar) for almost 17 years and he was our life and love – it broke our heart when he died and I vowed never to have another animal but Meow adopted us without even asking. He won us over and trained us well – such a small critter who stole our hearts. Give your littlies and cuddle for me.