Mr Grey has been living in our barn for at least a couple of years and would disappear as soon as he saw any person. I started leaving little food portions out there for him and obviously he found them. Gradually he has gotten closer to the house and would allow me to feed him from a distance of a few feet. Over the last couple of months he has completely quietened down and as soon as a door is opened he just strolls into the house and makes himself at home. It did take me a few attempts before I could get a flea collar around his neck but once it was on he was happy.
He and Ella, the tortoiseshell, don’t really care too much for each other so generally they just ignore one another.