Red Bubble Groups = Hot Tranny Mess!
“It’s a hot tranny mess up in here!”
There has been much talk recently about Red Bubble Groups and how things need to change. Some common gripes include:
- There is little group involvement (so why even join in the first place, people?)
- People complain about bubble mails (I am not one of them because by joining a group, I pretty much expect it)
- Hosts complain about investments of time and resources
- RB admins claim that groups are just a dumping ground for images
- Many members simply use these groups for shameless self-promotion without even reading the rules and/or following them correctly (you know who you are!!!!)
- New groups that could possibly be beneficial have been put on hiatus because there are supposedly “too many groups”...gasp!
- Some groups, which are hosting off-site blogs and websites to promote their groups and give their groups additional functionality (which could actually help members with free promotion), have come under fire for violating member’s rights
- Group challenges are either lacking in entries, votes, or overall support (even when money is involved, which is beyond me, quite frankly)
- Many hosts feel taken advantage of and under-appreciated by the Red Bubble community, and subsequently abandon their posts or lose interest and the groups suffer for it
- Hosts are sometimes at a loss with going about how to feature work and artists in their groups, and what constitutes “fairness”
- Many members cannot understand why their work was not accepted and many hosts have either very unreasonable expectations or their expectations are way too low
- Adding your work to groups involves skimming through a long list of un-alphabetized and un-sort-able group names, which makes posting to groups a chore. I can understand why some people just click everything and submit and leave it to the hosts to decide. I have NEVER done this, but I can understand why some would.
- Groups get inundated with art/clothing/writing/journals and then visitors have to skim through 20 or more pages of work, which can make it daunting for viewers (I personally think this is just one more thing to complain about and not really that big of a deal)
- Many groups limit the amount of work a member can post (or can post at one time) and sometimes this seems unfair (I agree with this 100%); but hosts say that the purpose of this is to keep the galleries so fresh and so clean (which seems a bit nit-picky yet needed, to me).
This represents just a few rants that I have seen expressed throughout the RB community, and some of them I share my opinion with because I have experienced it firsthand. Being a member of quite a few groups and also a group host, I have been able to see perspectives from both sides. And, having been involved in many internet groups in the past, I can attest that Red Bubble still needs to work it out for better functionality. However, what Red Bubble has is a diamond in the rough that has so much potential.
Now, I know this is getting word-y and I have been criticized in the past for not exemplifying brevity. But, when I am passionate about a subject matter I cannot help but ramble on. All I can hope for is that people (especially RB Admins and Group Hosts) continue reading because I think I have some good ideas to toss into the mix.
Currently, Red Bubble is talking about a sort of division that would make groups for the people and would establish galleries for the art. This is just an idea that Red Bubble has been toying with and their is nothing official about it. And, while this idea has many supporters, I am not a huge fan of it. I think it will initially cause a lot of chaos and confusion and require volunteers to offer more time, which many of us are already at our wits end with.
I question why Red Bubble is trying to establish new features as a way to “help the group situation” rather than actually focusing on the group’s part and trying to revamp that. We do not need something new. What we need is for a better operating group system. Maybe, if we started there, then we would fix some of these problems in the first place.
Here are some ideas I have, that would probably help to end (or at least aid with) the current group conundrum:
Bubble Mails
Bubble mail woes could be a thing of the past if Red Bubble were to find a way for Group Hosts to send notifications to the group that, instead of being sent to member bubble mail accounts, would automatically be posted in a group tab called “Updates” (they could put it right before the “Activity” on the group’s menu). An option to post a message to the group could be placed under the “Moderation” section (group hosts know what I am talking about). Also, so that members would not have to visit every group, every day, for news and updates… Red Bubble could make a “feed” for it under our main “Activity Feeds” menu (much like they did with the “Challenges Feed”).
Shameless Self-Promotions
To avoid this nasty little habit, group hosts could enter key words (tags, if you will) that describe their group and what they expect. The number of tags could be limited to twenty fours (to avoid over tagging and confusion; plus, usually if you go over 24 tags, they become unusable in a search anyway). Then, when members are uploading a new work or editing a pre-existing work, only groups which the member belongs to and which share the tags the member has used for their work would appear in the “Add this work to your groups” section.
This section should also be made alphabetical, search-able, and sort-able AND there should be a pop-up link to the group’s guidelines so that, at the time of posting, members can skim through group guidelines to determine if a piece is suitable for said group. This way, the member has no reason to have spammed groups with their unrelated images.
Also, maybe there should be a notification section of the moderation tabs for group hosts to be able to see who has submitted more than five rejected pieces within a three month time period. They could then send a warning to the member and put them on a sort of probation, and the member could face possible removable. This type of system would SHOW members just how often they do this and would hold them accountable for their actions and would eliminate a lot of the debates as to why a host kicked someone out of the group.
Group Involvement
Continuing on with the idea of a notification system, Red Bubble could implement a point system that would record group activity for individual members (and hosts too)...kind of like sporting statistics. Members (and hosts) could be able to see how many forum posts they have made, how many challenges they have entered, how many they have won/lost, how many works they have had accepted/rejected, how many groups they belong to/host, how many groups they have left and/or being ejected from, how many pieces they have had featured, how many times they have had been a featured member, etc. Each time they do something positive, they could earn points accordingly. And, each time they do something negative, like have a piece rejected from a group or not be an active member for an entire week, they could get a ding and their point value would decrease.
With this type of system, members could then see their overall Red Bubble stats and know where they stand. This would make people more accountable, have more of an incentive to participate, and not be so offended when hosts make evasive decisions.
Red Bubble (and group hosts) could also offer incentives for constantly active members (like a “Most Active Members” feature page) and hosts!
The Main Group Page
Currently, when we click on “Groups”, we are taken to a very simplistic (and quite boring) group page, which lists our groups, featured groups, recent groups, and random groups. Well, this is nice and all, but I feel it is a waste of that page. That page should be a portal for us into the world of Red Bubble groups. As it is now, it seems like an afterthought. This should be our group hub. We should be able to find our group activity feeds, group stats, favorite groups, groups we host, groups that are most active and featured, and newest groups. We should have the option of sorting through this information and deciding what it is that is important for us to view (each of us, individually). This way, we have no excuse to not know the current happenings or to not be involved. It would automatically put us in the center of it all and we would then automatically be involved. Information would go right to the source.
We should also have the option of adding works to multiple groups (which we are members of and which match our tags criteria, of course) from this section as well as being able to delete them from groups. In the same respect, we should have the ability to quickly enter pieces of artwork and writing into group challenges. All of this should be made accessible right from this first page, without the hassle of surfing through the mountains of groups out there.
There should also be a section on this page, where Red Bubble admins and Group Hosts could post group-wide announcements that all members would receive because it may be beneficial for them to know (regardless if they belong to a particular group or not). There could be an option when hosts post group updates, for it to be posted in this section as well.
Group Challenges/Contests
Right now, it seems that Red Bubble is on the right track when it comes to the way groups host challenges and contests. But, I would personally expand on that idea. There should be a section of the main group page just for challenges and contests. And ALL group challenges should be posted here. Members could then see ALL group challenges (even those from groups which they may not currently belong to).
Also, it would be nice for Challenge winners to receive a little note on their art work description notifying people out there of their placement in the challenge. This is valuable marketing for us artists and might help us with sales (some people might like to buy an award winning piece). Currently, Zazzle does this and automatically posts various community wins on the actual art work page for all browsers to see. This would really encourage people to enter and participate in challenges and contests.
And, hey, what about vendor challenges? A lot of art websites team up with outside vendors to hosts challenges for artwork photography, writing etc. Red Bubble should do stuff like that and place information on those in this area as well!
Also, maybe Red Bubble could give each group so much in funds for challenge prizes. This way, if the challenge is approved to use the funds, the hosts could give out better prizes which might also improve upon challenge participation.
As well, members could receive points that would up their statistics rating for each entry and each placement in a competition.
Featured Work and Artists
Instead of leaving it solely up to hosts to decide who gets featured in each group. Why not reserve some spots, which would automatically generate featured members from criteria such as: most involved group members, challenge winners (1st, 2nd, 3rd, place), most favorited pieces, most viewed, etc. Then the hosts could have their picks as well. This way, the pool is always more fair and even leveled.
Also, featured works should also receive award markers on the actual work’s page (much like my above idea for challenges to receive them) because, then buyers could know that this piece not only won challenges, but it was also featured! Cha-ching!
Group Restrictions & Archives
Many group hosts cap the number of pieces a member can add to a group. Some even narrow it down to one or two, which is honestly ridiculous! I understand the hosts concerns that the groups will overflow with work and people will have full pages of work shown in the galleries. I understand how this issue is a Pandora’s Box and I am not saying to get rid of group restrictions. But how about making them more feasible, streamlined, and automated? Red Bubble should only allow members to post no more than 2-3 pieces in a single 24 hour time period (excluding challenge entries, journals, and special circumstances such as Drawing Day, etc.). Members should then be cut off from submitting any more than that until the next day. This simple act could alleviate all concerns of spamming.
The logical next step would be establishing certain criteria for pieces to automatically be “archived” into the group’s history. Yes, ALL groups should have an archive. Why do we not have an archive? Can someone explain this to me? Even blogs have archives! This way, hosts and members do not have to worry about over-flooding of the group and having to delete and re-add images. The hosts could then archive the group by month and those archives could then be search-able by the masses. The hosts could set it to archive itself every month or every three months or they could do it manually. In addition, archived pieces could also appear in the feature section or in the group’s feeds for challenge winners, most viewed, most commented on, most featured, etc. that way they do not just get lost in archive hell.
If these things were implemented, then hosts would not have to be all military style and making up outrageous quotas and restrictions (that, quite frankly, sometimes turn away potential members). It would make it the same and fair for every group and no one would have to try to remember what the limit rules were for each and every group they belong to.
Also, hosts should be given the option for mass acceptance, rejection, and deletion of material. And, hosts should be able to create pre-written messages or templates to send to members when a piece is rejected or deleted. As a host, it would be beneficial for me to be able to choose, from a drop down menu, the appropriate response to send so that members are not constantly BM’ing you with questions.
And, much like hosts can invite members to join the group, why not enable them to invite people to submit a certain piece to the group. As a hosts, I have often been surfing through RB and noticed some art and writing (and journals) that would be welcomed additions to the groups I host, but having to BM the artist/writer (especially if they are not a current member) is daunting and time consuming. I wish I could just click an invitation to submit their piece to my group. Who knows, maybe they do not even know that our groups even exists! Hello new membership!
Creating New Groups
There has recently been debate over the creation of new groups being placed on hiatus. I, myself, sent Red Bubble admins an email proposing three new groups, to which I have received NO REPLY. I know they are busy people, so I am not holding anything against them…yet. Hehehehehe… But, one thing that would help them in creating new groups would be to create and online form that members could fill out (and edit, and check the status of) which would be in pending mode until approved. This way, the potential host could enter the potential group’s guidelines, mission statement, etc. That way, this information is already set to go if the group is approved.
Also, they should create a section of the main group page which would show all proposed groups and their descriptions, guidelines, and mission statements. This section should give members the option of adding themselves to the “waiting list” for that group (so that they are automatically added to the group upon the group’s inception – they would receive notice of this in their activity feed, of course). Then, RB Admins could see how many people are on the group’s waiting list and this could show just how much of a demand there is for that particular group.
If a group is denied creation, the potential host can then re-examine that and make “significant” changes and re-submit it for inclusion.
Group Blogs
This has also been a hot topic of debate recently. Some hosts have created websites and blogs outside of Red Bubble to give their groups more functionality and marketability. Some hosts want to include all members in this. Some members do not want to be included (as to why, I will NEVER understand because free marketing is free marketing people…but that is a different post all together). So, how do we solve this? Some have suggested that we include an option upon membership to opt out of said promotions/inclusions. I sort of like this idea, but think it needs more functionality. Members should be able to do this on a per piece basis. What if I am cool with my writing being featured on the group’s blog, but not my art? Or I do not want my pieces placed on blogs, except this one t-shirt? It’s all about functionality. When we upload our pieces to a group, it should give us the option for inclusion for that particular piece only. Then, hosts could use an implemented search tool to weed through the group for pieces that are open to inclusion.
There. Problem solved.
Another way to combat this would also be to set up group blogs, where hosts could blog about the same stuff they blog about on their off-site blogs, but it would be here on Red Bubble and, thusly, members would not be all up in arms.
Also, it would be beneficial for groups to be able to set up Group Zines that could be annual, bi-annual, quarterly, bi-quarterly, monthly, bi-monthly, weekly, or bi-weekly. This would be beneficial for writing groups and art groups alike. They could supply articles, features, etc. Many groups are already doing this off-site. Why not promote that here? It would definitely encourage people to up the quality of art and writing.
The Bottom Line
The bottom line is that right now Red Bubble’s group system is a Hot Tranny Mess (my apologies to the Trannies of the world, of whom I have nothing but love for) and what it needs to be is FIERCE!
I know this is A LOT of information to take in and I will be proud of those of you who read through all of this. I hope, at least, that all Red Bubble Admins and Group Hosts have read though this as I feel I am offering valuable ideas. I am not one to rabble rouse and cause an uproar. And, I am not hating on Red Bubble or anyone. I want Red Bubble to succeed in everything it does. I love this website and want it to be the best it can be. This is why I offer my thoughts and ideas. I know that there will be many who disagree with some of my ideas. But, you cannot make everyone happy. But, at least I took the time to share my ideas and offer constructive help for a better Red Bubble experience for us all. All of these ideas combined would make our group experiences as members and hosts a whole lot better. I implore you Admins, to re-consider and re-evaluate your plans for RB because we do not need new features to go along side with our already confusing and chaotic ones. Shouldn’t we improve upon one thing first BEFORE we add something new to the mix? There is so much YOU (Red Bubble) can do rather than the whole Galleries idea to improve upon our experience with groups. So, why not take care of that first?
Thank you to all who took the time to read this word-y mess! Much love to you all! And, Red Bubble, if you happen to like my ideas…hook me up with one of them Red Bubbles by my name…hehehehe…wink-wink!
El Fin. [Phew!]
~ b.chris @>}-—-
NOTES:
See this forum topic, as well, for more information.
For those curious about the SNL/Project Runway quote which precedes this offering, check this out (courtesy of Hulu.com): http://www.hulu.com/watch/11932/saturday-night-live-new-bravo-show#s-p2-st-i0
© Copyright Brian Jaime and bchrsidesigns, 2008. All Rights Reserved.
bchrisdesigns
wow…this one is long too. i am looking for heroes again…
Inishiata
Wow, this is a very long, but well thought out discussion piece. I really wish that people would not post obviously unsuitable artwork, which does not meet guidelines to groups and I really appreciate those hosts who take the time to get rid of art that is obviously in the wrong group. I find that I spend more time browsing in groups that keep to the theme. Sometimes a piece may be borderline so ok no probs but sometimes it is just obvious that it doesn’t fit guidelines or subject theme.
bchrisdesigns replied
Inishiata, my first hero!!!! I know this is long and appreciate you reading it! I just had so much to say about the issue and just wanted to get it out in one place instead of searching through the forums and making all sorts of forum posts.
I know what you mean about groups that are kept to a certain theme and edited thusly. It makes it easier to find what you are looking for. It is amazing just how much some people do not care to follow rules and how that ruins it for the rest of us!
Thanks for the comment!
Cimmerrian
Lol , well done !!! and yes , I actaully read the whole thing !!! Great ideas there for sure , as a group host ( or whatever we’re calling ourselves these days ) and a member of several groups ( I dropped out of alot of groups for various reasons ) , you’ve definately hit the nail on the head with alot of great points ! I totally see the need for groups , especially from a customer standpoint , if you are looking for a particular type of design/artwork etc , its the cyber version of shopping in a particluar aisel of a store , you wouldn’t go to the toothpaste aisle if you are looking for shampoo …etc . Maybe a shop tab, which brings people ( similiar to your suggestion about the portal for groups ) to a page that makes it very easy for potential customers to truly narrow their searches ) ..lol , if I wasn’t at work right now , I’d ramble alot more on the subject , with that said I’ll jump off here for a bit , and end it with ” WELL SAID !!!!” ...lol but I’ll be back to add more later
~Steve
bchrisdesigns replied
Cimmerrian, you’re added to the official heroes list! Hehehe… Thanks for the enthusiasm and feedback regarding these issues. My main goal is just to get people to think about the possibilities. I can’t wait to hear what else you have to say! TTYL!
bchrisdesigns
Just in case anyone is either offended or unaware of my use of the terms “Hot Tranny Mess” and “Fierce”, I added a link to the SNL clip parodying one my favorite Bravo shows, which I was watching in the background (in repeat mode) as I typed this.
FIERCE!!!!!!!!!!!
Martin Kirkwood
I love the bit about rambling in the third paragraph. I didn’t get much behond that. Sorry.
bchrisdesigns replied
Hardy, har, har… lol! You missed some good stuff, then! ;o)
Jennifer Woodward
Some great ideas, here. I especially love the idea of havinga separate, main group page, a kind of information centre for all the groups.
Although there are plus points to a group’s individuality for rules, I think this only works when the total number of groups is quite low. Now there are so many, it’s hard to keep up with the various rules and regulations. The groups would be much more enjoyable and interactive if rules were consistant throughout. For myself, personally I find it a real pain when it comes to voting for competitions. It would be so much easier (and there’d be a lot more turnout), if the rules for voting were set throughout the groups. Also, maybe a set of questions in the groups’ rules section could be divised for all groups. Obviously, the answers would differ depending on the subject matter of the group, but the type of rules would be consistant throughout. That would still allow for individuality, but at the same time, would make things simpler for the members and hosts alike. I’m one of THE most disorganised people on the planet, and even I agree, the groups need more clarity, consistancy and organisation! I co-host a group myself, but was only taken on board to pick out the featured work, so my job is pretty easy, although I do get involved if there are any disputes (usually about rules)... that reminds me, it’s Wednesday/feature day for our group!!! Sorry…ahem… where was I? Ah yes…
I also love the idea of having features and competition wins listed against a members’ work. This would not only encourage sales, but also, encourage the artist to strive to produce better work. The more incentive, the more production. Fact. And that applies to prizes for comps, too. It would be awesome to have a fund available.
Hmm… what else… ah, yes, the archives idea. I think this is great, it would save hosts having to periodically “clean” out the groups and asking members to leave and re-join, and I’m not a fan of capping submissions, either. I think 3, or even 4 in any 24 hr period is fine in my eyes, but perhaps not if the images are very similar.
Oh, yes, the statistics (see, told you I was disorganised – jumping around all over the place, here!). Now I can see a great advantage to having stats about features, etc., however, sometimes, people can have dizzy moments and submit the wrong work, or overlook a rule. I can see if someone had their points removed after they’d made an honest mistake, it might cause a great deal more problems. But if looked into further, there might be a way around this.
Wow, if I’m not careful, I’ll be writing as much as you! Seriously though, well thought out. You’re onto some great ideas. I’ll check back soon to see how things progress. Better do those features before I get shouted at, he he! ;-)
jen :-)
nodakami
A nice synthesis for new co-hosts !
nodakami
Thumbs up for group keywords / tags and a searchable portal main group page.
My personal view about restrictions and archival :
The Abstract Art group is one of the biggest in terms of numbers of works. Though the limit is twenty to force people to rotate their work and so we don’t get flood and the least prolific artists do get their share of exposure. It doesn’t seem to bother members much, and doesn’t prevent showing more than 6000 pieces, which probably helped Google bring the link to the group in its 30th position for an “Abstract Art” search.
So I’m not sure an Archive section is really necessary even for massive groups. To show the best pieces of the group, the Featured Works seem quite appropriate.
Cimmerrian
lol , ok …so I’m back to this … I like the idea of a point system , not sure what “all” the criteria should be , but it would certainly encourage participation , and if tied in with groups ( ie member ranking/group ranking ) it would further increase member involvement , and possibly get hosts to search out talented , productive artists to join their groups ( if their style happens to fall in line with group guidelines of course ) . I don’t want to get off on a rant of negativity , I love the Bubble , and think its great ( besides someone’s flipping the bill , which allows them to do as they see fit ) However, I have noticed that the “featured” page seems to be indescriminate at times , and don’t get me wrong , I have seen more than my fair share of time up there , and have always been grateful for it ! But …. it seems that some people get up there because of who they are and less about what they’ve done , and this is in NO way taking away from the incredibly talented works that have been posted there… its more of a ” Hey, there are alot of amazing works that I have seen in the Recent Tab , but never seem to make the feature page ” just a shame thats all , and as much as I understand that this is an art sight , NOT a popularity contest …. but the way designs/products show up in searches , it would appear that the algorithm used suggests that ( views , favoriting , comments) play a part in the ranking , which seems a little lopsided for some who may for whatever reason may not have a lot of people in their watchlist , or just dont rec alot of comments and views , but their work is amazing ! I’m pretty sure I’ve gotten wayyyyy off topic here ( sorry ) I think the point I was trying to get to, that was on topic is , as a group host , I try and in my feature section …. put at least 1 or 2 newer members , not just because they’re new , but because they’re talented , and I feel any extra exposure they can get will help ! Lastly , before I get back to work … I think something that would be great to do with the groups ( and it may have been done before , I cant recall ) is maybe on the front page rotate a different group each day and post the images from the groups featured section ….. just a thought …. sorry about the rant … now back to work .. but I may come back to this again :)
Chris Willis
Thanks for all the details…and thanks to Nod for sending me the link to it as a new co-host…..boy, am I baffled…remembering I’m only a new kid on the block!!
Oh well, maybe I need to read it all again, LOL
Kathy Nairn
I am very new to the ‘hosting’ dept and agreed to inherit a group that was abandoned. The only problems that I’m currently having is the ability to help folks delete their images as I have put a restriction of 20 images. I had suggested in the new guidelines, that before they hit the 20, delete some so they never go over. Well, someone emailed me recently and said, “I deleted some and RB still won’t recognize this so that I can continue to post more.”
Well, I started looking to see where my option to delete images is and I can’t find one. I can’t see where I can approve additional images for the people who have deleted some to make room in their quota.
I also posted a “writing” which was a clarification to the updated guidelines and clicked on the option to post it to my group (the group I host). I can’t find it in the group and I have no freekin’ idea why it doesn’t show up as all my work is ‘available for everyone to see.’ So now, I have no idea whether anyone else can see it and if they can’t see it in the group it was meant for, then I have to resort to deleting that “writing” and sending a BM. Something I hoped to avoid.
I’m at a point of thinking that I will have to use the main group page to list updates. I’m also at a point after watching the type of uploads to the group, of putting it on an ‘approval required’ basis. I am devoting my free time to helping this group sell their product; have given them ideas for tags by visiting group members at random; I have also ‘featured’ some works that are in direct line with the goals that I’m hoping to guide everyone towards, and still…. I am seeing submissions with no tags, and no description or information on why anyone should consider their submission in line with the goal of the group.
Not bashing anyone or any thing or system. Just that I believe there will always be an emergence of members coming from places like MySpace, FaceBook, Flickr, etc that post at whim and without care, just because they can. I, personally, moved to RedBubble to get away from that in mass quantity.
Therefore, I happen to agree with tagging, more options for moderating, and award pinning on challenge works.
There are some things you stated that I don’t necessarily agree with but I can go either way. In other words, I’m flexible. ;)
Thanks for this post. It was enlightening to say the least and gave me an opportunity to voice my current concerns. If there is a way to do any of the things I mentioned above, that I’m not seeing or missing, please feel free to write me. I’d like to know how to do it.
Peace,
Kathy
Domesti_ c
I don’t have the patience to read all of that, I would just like to mention that if you do decide to make any comments about any hosts it is very likely they will be removed, I’m surprised this post is still here.
cheers
bchrisdesigns replied
Okay, first of all…you did not even read the entire post so why are you surprised it is not here?
Secondly, I was NOT commenting about “hosts” or about any particular group host. I host several groups myself, so this is not about “hosts”. This is using my knowledge of being both a host and a member of groups to show how they could be made better. It is a list of suggestions of how the entire process could be improved in my opinion. Many have found it to be very helpful. That is why it is still here. It is not an attack on anyone.
I appreciate the comments, though.
Cheers! =]
kalaryder
Goodness me, there a lot of words here. Briefly, as a host, it is reasonable to only ask for a couple of images per day, if it is a big group, then every member putting up just 2 images for moderation and the hosts would have to give up theie day job!
From the other side of the coin, when I fill my quota, I unjoin then the next day join again. My photos remian on RB on my collection. I have a list (as in the Mikado) and also have my photos in my gallery. No problems.
As for BM’s, I am in a lot of groups, get a lot of BMs but it keeps me up to date.
Once again No probs with the site.
Domesti_ c
I didn’t read all of the suggestions because even if I agree I don’t see how I could help in that aspect and it’s a lot to take in and i’m generally lazy like that.
You list a few problems in the begginning and i was just adding one that’s been on my mind for no particular reason :)), sorry, I think I was still upset about that, but if things wouldn’t have been deleted you could have seen it wasn’t an attack on someone but rather on taking responsibilty and bullying, I’m dropping this now, but it’s very frustrating. (just delete these, :)), for real, I’m kinda sorry now.)
cheers
bchrisdesigns replied
No, it’s no problem, I understood your frustration. I was just clarifying my post because I don’t want people to think it should be deleted.
I never did get to read your deleted posts, so I cannot draw any judgment for or against. :)
On the bright side, everyday is a new day! :)
Domesti_ c
actually you did read them cause you left comments on both :)), what you didn’t realise those were the attacks? :)) yes, always look on the bright side of life…man I love that song