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This is Brazilian women reality, scantily clad on the beach, in real, unenhanced photos:

My point, dear ladies (especially), is that they are not really more amazingly fit, toned, naturally well built, gorgeous, beautiful, or etc. than you are. They have that reputation, yes; but, the reality is that they are women of varying heights, weights, shapes, levels of fitness; some are prone to cellulite; most are prone to having periods, needing to shave their legs, demanding time from men who may be tired and cranky, and otherwise being human.

So, buck up! It doesn’t matter that you are not exotic, that you have to work a full day at the office instead of cavorting in teeny bikinis, and otherwise fail to live up to some juvenile fantasy of how women should be. You are beautiful. And, these women, who are also beautiful, also fail to live up to those fantasies.

Besides, have you ever met a man whose every fantasy of a big boobed, tan, completely submissive sex goddess type of woman was fulfilled? Yes? And, was he, then, giving, caring, monogamous to her, a good father to her children? Did he mind that her belly swelled during pregnancy or did he treat her as a fertile sex goddess? Or, did they have to live alone all their lives, no children, to keep up their fantasy? Did he still love her the same when her hair went gray and the wrinkles came?

You don’t need the kind of man who lives in a fantasy world. You are the only you in existence- you have your own way of doing things, your own looks, thoughts, feelings, and you are all woman! That is enough fantasy for a real man! Especially when it comes in black silk stockings, or whatever else it is that he likes that you, being a happy woman who knows she is loved, are likely to don, or do, for him!

This is Brazilian woman reality, after it’s been plastic-surgeoned to within in inch of it’s life, and quite possibly airbrushed:

Here is another fine brazilian woman:

There were two comments under her picture. One was “hello cool” and the other one was a plea for her to call someone.

Here is another real Brazilian woman

Here is some interesting, if slightly frustrating writing, from a site for dating Brazilian women:

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Frustrating? Why?

Because it is mostly true. Only, when you read it, you should pretty much cross out the word ‘Brazilian’ from your mind, and just leave it at women. If you’d do this, and take this advice for women in your own country, you would be a much happier person, woman or man – even if you are a man in a gay pride video, come to think of it.

Men, especially: Being nice to women in your own country, instead of learning to do it only for women in other countries, as a last ditch effort to relieve your loneliness, makes for nicer women, a more pleasant planet, and a more stable economy. Think about it! Why only go off and be nice to foreign women, and berate the women in your own country for their attitudes which are developed because of the way they’ve been treated in their own country?

Negative sites, negative jokes, negative t-shirt humor, etc. breeds negative women. And, ladies, that is advice for both men and women!

Don’t look at your friends, girlfriends, wives, mothers, daughters, etc. and tell them what is wrong with them. Don’t day dream about other people in other countries being more desirable. Don’t look at airbrushed models and movie actresses and hold yourself, your loved ones, or your society up to those impossible standards.

Deal with reality! Reality is that, the world over, most people are beautiful, and very few of them are perfect looking. Pretty much every person you see is someone that is going to make another person’s knees tremble with desire! If it isn’t your knees, then you need to ask yourself how much of it is your own negative attitude rather than their hideous features.

Because, in general, when it comes to a man with quick change perceptions, a woman is beautiful to a man until he sees something that would be more acceptable to his friends, or until she is married to him, or etc. Then, often, she is no longer desirable, and the joke is that it’s because she lets herself go, gets fat, gets old. Yeah, just like men do? Is that what you mean?

If you loved her, if she loved you, a little aging and growing of love handles wouldn’t matter. Especially once you realized that people in other countries also age, some of them are fat, some of them have zits or funny noses. Yet, people think many of those people are gorgeous anyway. Why?

They are relaxed and/or in a different environment and/or ready to see things and people as beautiful. The women are treated better, told they are beautiful, so they behave as if they are beautiful.

Here is a fact: If a woman tells a man she is ugly, he starts believing her. If she acts as if she is beautiful, he starts believing her. Or, if he doesn’t, his loss – some other man will.

Here is another fact: if a man tells a woman she is beautiful, she will start to believe him. So will he.

And, the reality is that, in either case- by acting as if you already are beautiful or being told you are beautiful, you do, physically, become more beautiful.

So, if you want the women in your country to be more beautiful – whether it is you, or a woman you are interested in, or a daughter whose self-esteem you want to build up , or whoever she is – look her in the eye and tell her, in all sincerity “You are beautiful!”; and, then she will be.