A bunch of blokes who marched for their mates - Dad's March 01

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A bunch of blokes who marched for their mates - Dad's March 01

This is my father [front right] Alexander Gray marching with his mates in Sassafrass – Dandenong Ranges, Victoria

It was just a bunch of blokes who decided to walk to remember their mates who no longer can. So with the local coppa driving behind them to stop the traffic running over them, the bellow was “Righto you Blokes form some kind of order and let’s do this with a bit of decorum . Right by your left and HARCH!!!”.

I stood with the collection of family and the startled shoppers and those who stopped traffic in their cars and got out to watch and applaud and show true respect for the brave who gave their all to preserve our way of life…. and I cried with pride.
This wasn’t a huge parade with bands and servicemen and banners and cheering crowds, this was the reality of the reason to march…. this was personal …. a bunch of blokes who marched for their fallen mates.

In addition I was brought to remember the pre-dawn meeting of the regiment I was married into as the men there would gather at 3:30am to say a prayer before they moved out to go to the Melbourne parade….[steeled with a mug each of black coffee liberally laced with rum!]
There was no formality about this 3:30am gathering just the servicemen automatically standing on parade with a man’s gap in between them to represent a hundred fallen diggers. There were no barked orders just a gathering and then the man elected by the troops would calmly say a simple made up prayer of thanks to the blokes who’d gone before and fallen in the line of their duty.
I felt privileged indeed to witness this collection of soldiers give their own thanks for the men who served trained like them and lost their lives. Many of these tough soldiers would be teary eyed at the end and that would be my undoing. at the end of the prayer the second year I was witnessing, one of the men began to sing “Amazing Grace” and then “Advance Australia Fair” and I was urged to sing with them. They were the nicest renditions I have ever heard and been honoured to be included in.

These days of remembrance are to also thank the men and women who currently train and serve to protect our way of life … and here in Australia this life we have is glowing bright and free!

☼ My great uncle’s WW1 memoirs I wonder if Dad thought of him also when he marched. ☼

Thank you for dropping by to meet my Dad and his Service men cronies!

Lest We Forget!

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A bunch of blokes who marched for their mates - Dad's March 01 by adgray
  • Carol & Kev Haberle

    Carol & Kev Ha...

    Beautifully captured, such a proud moment!! LEST WE FORGET!!

  • adgray replied

    Thank you I’m no photographer but yes that was a proud day.
    That is my daughter [bjboo ] in the purple coat on the side [front] being waved to by her beloved grandpa how proud she is of him … How proud I am of him. I marched for him last year as he no longer can and then he resigned and I miss that march. I have been to the big one in Melbourne as an officer’s wife but this was the read deal for me … so much more important for the heart felt simplicity of it. Lest We Forget

  • jesika

    jesika

    “And if thou wilt, remember
    And if thou wilt, forget.”

    “Song,” Christina Rossetti

    jesika

  • adgray replied

    Thank you so much Jesika I shall look up said song
    Thank you for dropping in to see my pics and read my words :o)
    Lest We Forget

  • Glenn Alderson

    Glenn Alderson

    A great communty image!

  • adgray replied

    Thank you for your comment and for dropping by to see my pics and read my words Keep Happy! :o)

  • dawndavies

    dawndavies

    lovely capture, and other should always be remembered

  • adgray replied

    Thanx Dawn not bad for an old wind on Kodak camera and my tongue held in the right position! lol
    Whenever I think of my Dad I think of this parade and I think of the servicemen and I guess I say a small prayer of thanks to them
    Thanks for peeking at my pics :o)

  • Pagly2

    Pagly2

    This is far more poignant than all the Big flag waving Govt organised marches…....WELL DONE Vabi and EXTRA WELL DONE for your Dad and his mates…........These Men are True Australians…........

  • adgray replied

    thank you Vabi this is the best way to remember and i always remember and say thanks whenever I think of my Dad … the times I was at the pre-dawn parades of the regiment I was married to was next to this in poignancy I’ve explained that in an addition to the story above … go read it :o)

  • H M Bascom

    H M Bascom

    Thank you for sharing this photo with us.

  • adgray replied

    Thank you for dropping by and peeking at my pics :o)

  • Kathryn Potempski

    Kathryn Potempski

    nice story and good on them,well done to your Dad

  • adgray replied

    Thanks Kathryn for dropping by and peeking at my pics and reading my words. [I added a few more to the story above if you’d care to read more :o)]
    Keep Happy … that’s what they fought for! :o)

  • Pagly2

    Pagly2

    Simply but so very beautifully said and felt….............Dear Vabi…......you have a heart of pure Gold….AUSSIE Gold…..lol hugs…xox

  • dougie1

    dougie1

    that brings a tear to my eye, ad!

  • adgray replied

    It did to me also
    Thank you for dropping by
    Lest we forget!

  • Jan Stead JEMproductions

    Jan Stead JEMp...

    I cry every time I go to an ANZAC day march, watch it on TV, see my mum march…so I understand on some level the emotion of the day for you.
    such a small personal intimate gathering as this one is somehow even more poignant!
    And you are a photographer!

    I will send you a bubblemail with the lyrics to a song I wrote some years ago, entitled “April 25th, 1915”, if you like. I wrote it for the Year 1 kids I was teaching @ the time, but somehow it has a universal voice; it’s now been sung/played/used in well over a dozen schools in at least 2 States that I know of.

    LEST WE FORGET!

  • adgray replied

    Wow Jem You wrote a song that is now yused in schools? I am training to be a teacher and I am a singer I would love a copy to use and spread further!
    Thank you so much for dropping by, I have not been to many parades since My father left this RSL and I miss them but somehow the pomp and pageantry of the city one looses some of the meaning. The last city one I went to there were a bunch of teenagers trying to toast marshmallows in the eternal flame while listening to their ipods! Yes I said something! lol I quietly asked them if they’d toast marshmallows when their grandfather was cremated and played their latest songs then or would they get angry if anyone tried to insult them and their grandfather’s memory in such a way. I didn’t give them a chance to reply and just told them of the boys aged 17 who dropped what they were doing and went to fight to keep their country safe from persecution. I then asked them would they be prepared to do the same? I then suggested that perhaps just for a few minutes they could just be quiet and think of the boys who died so that they were free to listen to ipods and toast marshmallows … they agreed by pocketing their ear pieces and really seriously contemplating the reality of that time nearly a hundred years before and how much they now have to lose and what they would give up if they had to go fight. One even swallowed back and dashed away tears.
    This is why I was proud of my dad trying to do something to teach the children of today the price of their luxurious peace.

    L E S T . W E . F O R G E T !!

    [and no I am no photographer! This just happened to be a time that my Pray part worked :o)]

  • joak

    joak

    these type of blokes are disappearing such a shame good stuff

  • adgray replied

    Take heart they’re not gone completely!
    I happen to know of at least 50 young men who are showing signs of being the next wave of stalwart men of our future, two are proudly my sons. Keep an eye out for my elder red haired son Thomace Muldoon I’m sure he will be somebody special in the world scene, he already is in many Melbourne circles and everywhere he goes he is recognised by someone! and he is but 17 at the moment!
    I see an awful lot of my father in him…
    Thank you so much or dropping by and checking me out …. errr checking my words out!! :o)

  • SNAPPYDAVE

    SNAPPYDAVE

    wow … proud men … love it

  • adgray replied

    Thanks Dave for coming to look :O)
    It was pretty special to see them – my darling daughter bjboo is standing so proudly [in purple coat] watching her grandpa too!
    Lest We EVER Forget!!

  • Dan Shalloe

    Dan Shalloe

    A moving, powerful experience. Thanks for going to the trouble to tell us all about it. Reading you text was very well spent time.

  • adgray replied

    WOW! Dan thank you very much!
    That is about the best comment anyone could give my work!
    Thank you so very much :O)
    Keep Happy :O)

  • barnsis

    barnsis

    If I may I would like to applaud this group. As a person from the USA born during the First World War and a history major in college I wish to express to these Australians our gratitude. In almost every story about world war two, you hear accounts of Australians who took great risks to help in the war effort against Japan and Germany. The famous Australian Coast Watchers gave so much and made such a great difference in the war effort. The number of lives they saved by their work is untold and uncountable. They did the same in the Korean Police action, the Vietnam conflict, and now again in Iraqi. The citizens of the US have a debt to the men of Australia that will never be repaid but here are those of us that do remember and are thankful for their efforts and sacrifices.

  • adgray replied

    Oh Byron thank you! :O)
    Funny how at the time there was this complaint – “Bloody Yanks – over fed over paid and over here!” :O) but we are the ones to be grateful. When the Japanese became a threat and looked to be aiming for Australia, England would not release our troops from the European stage to come home and defend us!
    Australia is Florida short of being the same size as the USA and at the time of WW2 only had 7 million national citizens! [probably twice that because the census didn’t count our indigenous until 1 9 6 9 ] split it into the demographics – 3.5 women, [for ease]out of the 3.5 men – 1 million old men 1 million young boys = 1.5 million old enough to fight. then of that 1 million there were a percentage in jail, a percentage in hospital, a percentage necessary to stay home and a percentage incapable of physical action [suffering mental or physical disabilities – blind, deaf, flat-footed, etc] Suddenly a million is broken down into hundreds of thousands … would 500,000 men protect the Canadian boarder? the east coast? the west coast? the southern coast? and the Mexican boarder? all of them all at the same time? and all our fighting men and their commanders were in Europe!
    England said “If we lose Australia we can fight to recover it but if we lose England we lose the empire!”
    All I can say is thank god you over fed over paid guys came over here!

    But this march ANZAC is about the 1st world war when Australia only had 60,000 men of fighting age & don’t forget that is also 60,000 men of fatherhood age! We lost almost half an entire generation of men on the Somme! again cannon fodder for the English Generals! and in those days our men were lead by English Officers our Aussie officers ranked lower than an English Lieutenant AND the British kept no record of the names of our soldiers and where they were sent. It was AFTER the war that families pieced together the whereabouts of their loved ones from reports from the units billeting in the towns, from the returned men and from their own men returning. The battle of Gallipoli and the trenches of the fields of Flanders and the Somme etc are special to us because it is here that our men fought for our freedom – from the empire! that freedom became complete when our men were finally released from Europe to come over and fight the Pacific stage of the war [NB the British really didn’t come help us!] and we stopped loving the Empire Mother and started leaning towards our Yankee Big Brother!
    Please read my Great Uncle Alfred’s Writings for how he gives an account of his time in the great war to end all wars. I am so proud of him! XX♥XX
    Thank you for Reading my words :O)
    Chookas! X♥X
    Lest We Forget!

  • Francine Dufour Jones

    Francine Dufou...

    Thank you for such an incredible image and story. It was so moving I have emailed this on to my friends.
    Warm regards,
    Francine

  • adgray replied

    WOW! I am honoured! Thank you so much!
    To have you send this out to friends is truely flattering thank you!
    My father is now 80 but I doubt he will ever read this story, I doubt even my family will! But to have others read it and think it poignant is just soul blessing, thank you!
    We really mustn’t forget just how easily power can get out of hand and war become our ruler and from that the sacrifices we must all make and the personal clarifications & understandings & values of how we want our lives to be!
    Thank you so much for reading my words!
    Keep happy as that’s why those men fought and others fight even now!
    Chookas! X♥X
    Lest We Forget

  • JamieGreen

    JamieGreen

    “And the band played waltzing matilda
    and the old men still answer the call
    but as year passes year, their numbers grow fewer
    someday no one will march there at all”
    So we won’t forget, and there are many ordinary English people who keep those memories alive through word and song and for whom the sacrifices of our Australian brothers and allies will always be remembered. The bloody English Generals also managed to destroy a generation of Englishmen as well. Neither of my grandfathers who fought in the trenches had a good word for them.(Although one was Irish, so that’s only to be expected). We won’t forget!!

  • adgray replied

    I love that song!
    Yes the aristocracy had a few answers to make to an awful lot of people!
    At least in WW2 they kept records of the soldiers, WW1 they were just sir names in battalion numbers. It was our ANZAC officers who had to identify the men who no one knew. That’s why our Tomb for the unknown soldier is so important for there were so many no one knew!
    My father and his mates are Korean & Vietnam War Vets and their fathers were WW1 or 2 vets. I marched for my father 2 years ago in my scout leader uniform for he could not make the distance any more. and the year before my son & daughter in their scout & cub uniforms performed flag duty. This shot was the year before that.

    Thank you so much for dropping by & meeting my father & myself!
    Chookas! ♥

  • Susanne Correa

    Susanne Correa

    What a great Images, you must be so proud !

  • adgray replied

    Thank you I am rather proud of this effort! Not being a photographer at all this was a time when I think my 3P system was actually heard – [Point Push Pray lol] But I am a writer foremost and i found that my great uncle was one also. I’ll put a link to his WW1 memoirs up on the side. [should have done that by now lol]
    Thank you for dropping in to meet me & my Dad!
    Chookas! ♥

  • maxy

    maxy

    Excellent work! The mood is there and the way you caught this at the angle you did is perfect!

  • adgray replied

    Thank you … you mean there is hope for me yet? Coooool! lol ☺
    I would have gotten closer to the guys marching but I wanted to get my daughter into the shot she was standing to attention so proudly to think her grandpa was leading the men!
    I wish they could have more time together but His wife deters it! She has very effectively destroyed the relationship my father has with his own children and his own grandchildren while forcing him to play father & grandfather to hers. – I say this as a warning to anyone who finds themselves in a similar situation or knows of any one who does.
    I miss him so much!! for myself and for my children!
    Thank you for dropping by & seeing my dad and his blokes!
    Chookas! ♥

  • Malcolm Chant

    Malcolm Chant

    This is one of the most informitive Photos that HAS BEEN MY GOOD FORTUNE TO READ, IN MY OPINION, it’s this, that give each Image it’s feel & History,

    Each year there are fewer of these gallant men, we must never forget,

    (Lest WE FORGET) this is excellent,
    (They shall not grow old as we that are left grow old, age shall not weary them nor the years condemn, at the going down of the sun & in the morning we will remember them)

  • adgray replied

    Thank you so much Malcolm
    Sadly already my father no longer marches but sits at home & watches the telecast on TV … it makes his wife happy … but I cry for him! But he rests knowing that he has done his best to help keep the memory of those who’ve gone before fresh in our minds! He was instrumental in orchestrating schools to adopt a bitallion or regiment and collate the history of the battles it was involved in and the men who belonged to it. Perhaps in this way once all the men have gone their legacy will live on!
    Thank you for coming to meet my daughter her grandad and his men!
    Lest we forget!

  • BlaizerB

    BlaizerB

    i like the composition, the story behind this image and the detail of the rough broken road edge, cheers

  • adgray replied

    Thank you for the comment …. I didn’t even think of the road edge being poignant but now you draw my eye to it yes you could say it would be symbolic of the roughness of their path!
    Thank you for that!
    Chookas! ♥

  • rodsfotos

    rodsfotos

    I always get emotional when I see old soldiers on a remembrance parade like this, we all owe them a debt that money can’t repay and the highest respect that they so richly deserve, you must be so proud of your special Dad, lovely to see,
    Regards, Rod.

  • adgray replied

    And of my darling little Boo [the one in the purple coat standing to attention watching her darling Grandpa march by]
    the following year she was a cub and assisted her brother [a scout] to raise and lower the flag during the ceremony
    She is a Venturer now and marches in the city parade as a banner bearer!
    I had seen many marches in my years and have been in some too but when I saw this one I burst into tears! It meant so much more than all the pomp and ceremony ones! They just “went for a walk for their mates”
    His last march as Sassafras RSL President he could not walk it so I proudly donned my scout uniform and marched for him!
    Thank you for coming to see my Dad’s march!
    Lest We Forget!

  • Nathaniel Arnold

    Nathaniel Arnold

    so much to think about, so many emotions and thoughts, all getting tangled up… walk my mates and walk proud
    lest we forget

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