I have great news. This is a national effort, not just in California. Help overturn Prop 8, the ban on Gay marriage. This has also passed in Arizona & Florida! It will be held at your “CITY HALL” Please visit Join The Impact for more information and locations in your state and help us fight against DISCRIMINATION AND INEQUALITY!!!
Protest Location By State Here
Just to name a few: California – San Diego | Los Angeles | Bakersfield | Sacramento | San Francisco | San Jose | Moreno Valley
Colorado – Denver; Iowa – Des Moines | Iowa City; Florida – Jacksonville | Miami | Orlando; Massachusetts – Boston | Northampton; New York – Syracuse | Albany | New York City; Utah – Salt Lake City; New Jersey – Newark; Arizona – Phoenix
They have put together a NATIONAL PROTEST and start a mobilized movement for equality! When we all come together as one voice on November 15th, we will show the nation that we can do more than just talk, we can act! We won’t solve everything in one protest, but we will fuel the fire to a conversation that can not be silenced! If we stop talking about equality for all, then we will lose the battle. If we allow others to stop talking about it, then we will lose. Hate is not the lack of love, it’s the fear of that which we do not know. This protest along with many others gives us the chance to build on the conversation and educate the masses. It’s very simple: Infiltrate, Educate, and STOP HATE!
HATERS NOT WELCOMED!!!
JOIN ME :)
Come on Ellen, it has your name all over it lolGet you camera out and go to NEWARK!!!

Lara Luz
This whole thing really gets me. Just give us the equal rights we deserve!
abfabphoto:
Tell me about it…. Im getting tired of protesting …. LOL Come on folks!!
H M Bascom
I will spread the word.
abfabphoto:
Thanks girl!! …..spread like a disease or spread it like butta…. LOL
cougarfan
Thanks Sweetie!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Iwill:))))))))))))))))
abfabphoto:
Thanks feisty!!! :)
CATNIPMEOW
Good luck sweet thang :) My fingers are crossed for you and yours !!!!
abfabphoto:
THANKS!! I wonder how it will turn out….ooooooh
eelsblueEllen
Newark is about an hour from me. We are seeing Tina Turner in Newark on Thanksgiving! :)
abfabphoto:
Rollin Rolling Rollin down the river…… LOL Tina turner huh…. that should be fun….. I get many jokes for you though… LOL
loua
im with you all the way ladies and mans i will vote as long as i can love th eemossion for so many people . loya
abfabphoto:
Thanks!
Kenny Gulley Jr.
yes..theres no news
on the gay activists charging a church while it was in service in Mich and disrespecting everyone inside
and nope no news on the letters sent to mormon churches in LA and Salt Lake City filled with white powder and hateful messages
cover evenly mate
abfabphoto:
Kenny, you have the right to your opinion and that is fine… I’m not a newscaster “giving the news”, so I hardly do not need to show both sides….. However, I Have not said anything against the churches or Mormons, but have only spread word about protests and shared my photos of an event I went to for personal reasons….
You comment makes no sense to me… and trust me, the media never has issues showing the bad side of any race or in this case any gays that have caused harm or have been arrested…. So the more you can show the good side of things, the better that is the job for people like me… let the news media handle everything else. Im not a journalist….
The only reason we are in the news now for good things, is because now we are fighting to be treated as human beings.. otherwise, you show me if the news shows Gays being beaten and killed. Gay kids comittting suicide because of intolerance in school…..So MATE you need to reseacrh before you speak your opinion.. However you always have the right not to look at my photos and listings, or you can always come in and comment and/or appreciate my art and writings….. I am not here to get facts from the other side…. Im here to show my art and share my pain with others here like me who are going through this as well……..Right now I care about my rights and my rights only as a human being…..
Kenny Gulley Jr.
ok, not looking for a fight.
just saying, this is one topic…protest to overturn gay marriage
fine…but going out of your way to attack people for their affiliations is basically the same discrimination your trying to fight (im using you in general) in the cases i stated above. You (abf) can at least note it as a way NOT to protest since it would seem very hypocritical to discriminate against people when you feel your being discriminated. Thats what i meant..
but i can understand if you dont respect direct democracy
and the rights of the poeple to choose and govern themselves
as they did on Nov 4th
abfabphoto:
I do and I know totally where you are coming from…. In my protests, her ein Hoolywood/Silverlake, we had the largest protest of 10,000 people and no violence or arrests…. I do not condone a grou of idiotic people who make it harder for us to fight the fight…. but what I do believe is peaceful protesting and the fight for me to be able to marry and have kids and be treated fairly… I do this in peace and the rallies I’m part of is completely peaceful. No one gay or straight should fight back with violence and hate….. its just not right period….
The only thing that is not right to consider discrimnation an option on the ballet and in no way calls for direct democracy….. Many people were confused as to what yes and no meant and what do you think about the ads that stated that teachers would now have to teach gay marriage… Did you hear about that? My brother is a teacher and the entire teaching coalition and groups stated this is wrong….
What do you think about MISLEADING AND down right LYING to manipulate voters into voting for someone’s Human rights..
Let me tell you this and I will leave it at that… You remember when Blacks couldn’t marry whites or jews couldn’t marry blacks, etc?? How would you feel if something like that was up for Direct Democracy and your rights were in the hands of the popular vote?? So in 4 years, if african americans, hispanic or Armenians, etc lost the right to marry or and was on the ballet, how would you feel? Would you trust America to make the decision for you?
Regardless Kenny, it’s just not right… period….
H M Bascom
Well damn. Why does this always happen? No matter what the issue, someone always comes in with some ugly negative comment and has to criticize the person posting because they didn’t address some alleged bad act on the part of an alleged member of the group they are speaking about? Why the hell does that happen? As if that somehow lessens the importance of the message!
Hey everyone! Listen up! Over here friend — pay attention now.
There are bad people dong bad things in every single sector of society. How on earth does that have anything to do with the message of the right to equality? Does the bad act by a few members of a group somehow negate the message of the entire group? It doesn’t.
Kenny Gulley Jr.
I wasnt trying to do this whole run around thing but im not gunna just leave ur qustion up in the air.
(oh stop helen)
I figured a “what if” situation would arise.
First of all, that “what if” situation wouldnt happen, but “what if it did?”-
well for one thing it would go all the way back to the center of the issue…
and that is the definition of marriage.
The reason this is a “moral/religious regarded” issue is because of what marriage is.
Marriage is an institution created under religion between a man and woman.
It had nothing to do with the Govt at all until money/taxes became the issue.
Then Govt would recognize i so that these things could be settled (what they didnt do though was define it because iof its obviousness). Between a man and woman as it universally was from the constitutions foundation.)
But our brilliant forefathers knew something.
That is, for the constitution of the US (Cal, etc) to be efficient, they must be allowed to breath life into different generations.
I believe ga marriage would be allowed later down the line but not now…and it being forced upon the people of Ca by the govt has forced the people to make a drastic choice. ban gay marriage.
Instead of trying to force a originally religious institution (which shuns homosexuality) to be altered to accept something it wasnt designed for.
My call was to change civil unions to = that of marriage.
And that remains my call. Instead of fighting what the people of Cal , Florida and Arizona have voted in favor of….
they should accept it and nw go to alter what available.
Banning same sex marriage isnt discrimination because marriage wasnt designed for it (being a religion created union) rather its an un-qualification.
therefore if voters approved a ban on bi-racial marriage, the fight would go back to “what is marriage?” and it is what i have stated above…having nothing to do with race.
abfabphoto:
I think it is ridiculous that you think all that. You are very young and by no means have fought the fight and are the “millenial” generation that has more resources available to them and so much more intelligence than previous generations that you cant even begin to think what you parents or grand parents or even me, being twice your age has to fight for…. I will not argue with you about something you do not understand or have NEVER been through….. If marriage is about religion and is seen as marriage between a man and a woman, then why were Blacks and jews banned as well?? Weren’t they Man and Woman? Because it is the SAME AMERICA that VOTED then as they have NOW…. You wait and see until your generation and the rest of the millennial’s vote, these children will make the difference, not the americans we know now, most who probably voted in the past for blacks to sit on the back of the bus as well….. I do not want to argue with you and if you want to keep up a political debate, that is fine with me, I can definitely hang..but do not use my post to share your political views. Be an adult and post a new forum for discussion or bubble mail me…. This is hardly the place for you to voice your opinion when this was an invite for those supporting it, not those against it….. FAIR?? Or do you not understand that either?
This same America who voted against it is the same America who voted against gays adopting children…. hmmmm…..rather leave children in the system without a family and a loving home because of someone’s sexuality…. thats interesting… You definitely still have a lot to learn…
Jen
H M Bascom
I don’t have to stop Kenny. :-P And if interracial marriage is banned, well my husband I would be living in sin I suppose. Interracial marriage used to be illegal Kenny, dear boy. So was women voting, and it used to be legal to work children up to 12 hours a day in factories. Do you know why those things have changed, Kenny? Because people spoke up and said it isn’t right. That’s what’s going on here. It isn’t right to discriminate (and yes denying someone the fundamental freedom to enjoy a marriage relationship with all the privileges and responsibilities that go along with it is a fundamental human right). Some people in the world need to stop being so narrow minded.
abfabphoto:
Very great point Helen and its people like you who make the world a better place and your children will do better things in the future, this comforts me!! :)
Kenny Gulley Jr.
oh wow…
Kenny Gulley Jr.
i like how fighting for tradition, morals and faith
make me narrow minded, discriminatory, unfair, and too young to understand….
i told you just to call (the protest) evenly
thats all. You called me back for more so i guess your also guilty of breaking your rule
adios my fellow angelino…
H M Bascom
Oh Kenny, I wasn’t talking about you in particular. But your views are kind of narrow because if marriage is indeed a religious/moral issue and not a legal right as you say, then all that has to happen to make my interracial marriage to my husband illegal is for the religious right to get it on the ballot — and TA DA by popular vote, my marriage no longer exists.
Try reading about this United States Supreme Court Case, Virginia versus Loving It is going to take a case like this to break the barriers for same sex marriage.
Kenny Gulley Jr.
No helen. You misinterpreted me
Gili Orr
Bravo, abf and Helen! Luckily, in the Netherlands marriage is not a religious issue at all… you first marry in the City Hall. then, if you wish, you marry in a church or any other sort of religious ceremony you wish, to get the blessing of a miinster or a rabbi… and we are happily married, since the town official announced: “I now pronounce you wife and wife!” 5,5 years ago ;-)
Anne-Marie Bok...
Since gay marriage was allowed on April 1st, 2001 lots of gay women and lots of gay men got married. Did that changed society? NO, it didn’t. Nobody got ill, the schools didn’t change their teaching programs, the moral of society didn’t change and so on. The only thing that changed is that gay people got their human rights and feel better.
Gili Orr
Gili Orr
;-) Forgot to link it. One
From the “description” of the drawing:
On the bottom left corner it is written in Hebrew: והיו לבשר אחד or: “and they shall be one flesh.”, taken from Genesis 2:24.
While the original verse relates to the marriage between man and woman, all kinds of marriages involve getting united and in one or more senses becoming ONE. You may feel one through the act of making love, but the union can go further and deeper than that, on the one hand, or limit itself to financial matters (family as a business partnership, or for one of the partners’ financial security’s sake). In any case, from two apart individuals, a marriage makes a family unit, recognized by the community and the state, which involves certain social and economical benefits.
In Holland and some other European countries gays and lesbians can marry, since the beginning of the 21st century. In most States of the seemingly more conservative United States of America it is still impossible.
sweetscent62
Hmm… I hope that on this occasion Australia doesn’t follow in the footsteps of America. Becuase if they do..my daughter will not have the same rights to live with her lover.As a male and female living in a defacto relationship! It’s purely based on a sexual preference..and not on any moral or spiritual law. It’s archaic..and wrong. And if Australia gets a vote on two loving people of the same sex being able to be married in a loving relationship in the eyes of the law…I’ll be voting!! And I’ll be vocal…that’s for damn sure!! I only wish I had the chance to do something from here to help you! Laws are there to protect the majority…but this law has not been created to protect anyone!! Just what are they scared of exactly?? Anyway, I’ll get off my soapbox…………….for now.. : )
I wish you all the best girls! Bless you.. Wen xoxox
abfabphoto:
awwwwww, wendy, thats very nice of to say!! I’m very happy to hear people in favor of equal rights and tolerance for everyone! It means a lot and if I never need any of you guys, YOU"LL KNOW IT!! LOL
xoxo
Jen
sweetscent62
It’s a deal Jen!! : ) (I’m still waiting for my daughter to ask me to march in the Gay Pride parade in Sydney it looks like so much fun : )!! lol )
Do you guys have a national Gay pride parade there?? Wen xox
abfabphoto
WE SURE DO!! I used to work at Aids Healthcare Foundation and always marched in Long Beach, West Hollywood and San Francisco…. Marches are over rated lol and early in the morning. The best part is AFTER!!! Dancing and Drinking and havin a gay ’ol time …..LOL YOu can march with us here… LOL
sweetscent62
Hahahahaha… sounds like fun Jen!! ; ) Ours is later in the afternoon…and goes into the night….so everyone is already into the spirit of it… do you guys have it on TV? We have it here.. and all the homophobics can watch and be horrified in the privacy of their own homes!! But can’t do a damn thing to interfere with it… because it’s televised after the event is over!! It’s a hoot!! : ) my girls watch it with me.. and I drool at all the costumes..(because I used to be a dancer and know how much goes into making them : ))
I’ve promised that while we’re in Melbourne in late January I’d take Sarah to a Gay and Lesbian bar..as she’s just turned 18 (the legal drinking age here) Not alot of mums do that here!! LOL Not to encourage her to drink….just because there is no where here where we live for Gay men and Lesbian women to socialize. Crazy.. but we are so behind the times here! There was even a State of AUSTRALIA that homosexuality was illegal up until 1997 !! Soooo way behind the times.
Wen xoxox
limerick
It has been really interesting following this discussion all the way from Australia. It’s bloody simple if you ask me… common sense even. Just not to men. And the churches are mostly men, lets admit it. I do not see the problem with two PEOPLE falling in love and wanting to committ to each other and have that love recognised by the rest of the world. Good LUCK!! It sounds like you may need it. :)
abfabphoto:
Thanks, I think I really do need the luck, it seems. It’s all a shame, but since California went against it, 5 other states (one just today) passed it and it’s legal. Crazy, maybe it opened the door for some other states. Anyways, my honey and I had our 5 year anniversary today, I wish it could be our “wedding” anniversary, maybe next year.
xoxo
Jen