isolation

Deborah Parkin

isolation

Was debating as whether or not to put this up as it felt a bit cheeky but it is an important image within my school series. This one was conceived as an idea about bullying. Thankfully I wasn’t bullied physically but I know people who were and it is terrible – it is one of my worse fears for my children too. I wanted to portray the isolation, betrayal and loneliness a child feels when they are bullied.

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isolation by Deborah Parkin
isolation by Deborah Parkin
  • Trish O'Brien

    Trish O'Brien

    This is fantastic, instant fave for me! Your depth of field and pov is outstanding!!

  • Deborah Parkin replied

    Thanks Trish – so pleased you like it :)

  • aglaia b

    aglaia b

    i love the way the focus draws you in to what is so important here, the child
    beautiful series deborah. ;-) xox

  • Deborah Parkin replied

    Thanks sweetie :) always lovely to get a comment from you :) xx

  • jillijude1

    jillijude1

    sweety as one of those who were bullied … you have the concept spot on. hugs xxx this is a very powerful image

  • Deborah Parkin replied

    sorry to hear that jillijude – that’s awful – hope life is good now :) Thanks for your comment x

  • Hany  Kamel

    Hany Kamel

    very interesting perspective and well crafted

  • Deborah Parkin replied

    Thanks Hany – really appreciate your comment :)

  • velveteagle

    velveteagle

    You grasp emotion so well Deborah.. Your work puts such a great face to it too..
    Chuck..

  • Deborah Parkin replied

    Thanks Chuck – always great to hear from you :)

  • danielklaas

    danielklaas

    Wonderful DoF and the tones are outstanding.

  • Deborah Parkin replied

    Thanks daniel .. i think it must be the hasselblad – makes me use manual focus so makes me think a bit more :)

  • Matt Roberts

    Matt Roberts

    I was bullied, which is why my mother took me out of school when I was 14 and got me home tutored. I learnt a lot more at home than I ever had at shcool, but it wasn’t until later on that I realised that if I had of stayed in school (i.e. if I hadn’t have been bullied) then I probably would have made more friends in school, and possible still be in touch with some now. I most likely would have not gone through four years of college with essentially no friends. Basically, what I’m trying to say is that bullying effected my life more than I initially realised, and did nothing for what little confidence I have.
    I was rarely physically bullied (in fact I only remember two specific occasions), but verbal abuse can be just as bad as physical abuse in the effects it can have on children.
    For me this is a very interesting series as I have not seen any artwork touch on this subject before, and I can also relate to it to an extent. Keep up the good work Deborah :)

  • Deborah Parkin replied

    I think verbal bullying is as bad as physical. Physical is humiliating but the psychological aspect lives with you. I wasn’t bullied as a child as such but as an adult (quite recently) I had an experience on my doorstep that lasted for nearly 2 years … I would cry and my husband would ask why I cared so much about them – he was right of course but I can’t change my over-sensitive nature. What I did learn though is life never stays the same – these people have moved on and I have grown because of it. I care less about what people think of me and I value those so much more who care for me regardless. As for school friends – never kept in touch – this time I moved on. I know that you will continue to evolve and grow Matt :)

  • Jeff  Burns

    Jeff Burns

    Another fantastic image Deb….....That was the past you are not bullied now and we protect you :-)

  • Deborah Parkin replied

    Especially with that sword Jeff lol!! Thanks you xx

  • Maureen Maliha

    Maureen Maliha

    The dof is fantastic. So glad that you decided to post this. Love it all…

  • Deborah Parkin replied

    Thanks Maureen – glad you like it and feel a bit more justified in posting it now :)

  • Scott  d'Almeida

    Scott d'Almeida

    fabulous,

  • Deborah Parkin replied

    Thanks very much Scott :)

  • RabbitHeart

    RabbitHeart

    Fantastic work! I was bullied in my first few years of school, and I still remember how awful it felt. This work really speaks to me. Well done.

  • Deborah Parkin replied

    Thank you so much RabbitHeart .. sorry to hear that must have been awful – glad this image means something :)

  • bdazzled

    bdazzled

    Fabulous work that will mean a lot to many of us for many different reasons.
    Isolation for me was about being a child of an alchoholic father – it stole my childhood and made me a grown up far to early.

  • Deborah Parkin replied

    so sorry to hear that – this is a story I can relate to .. although my father didn’t bring us up he was still in our lives and it could be tough .. worse still you love them so unconditionally as a child. Thanks for your honest comment – I really appreciate it.

  • Clare Colins

    Clare Colins

    Another beautiful image. Well done!

  • Deborah Parkin replied

    Thanks very much Clare – pleased you like it.

  • psnoonan

    psnoonan

    Very, very cool

  • Deborah Parkin replied

    Thanks a lot :)

    Noonan was my maiden name by the way – you must have Irish family somewhere :)

  • SylviaHardy

    SylviaHardy

    Another well executed image Deborah. I also have to say you have the most photogenic children who know exactly how to use bodylanguage, well done to you all :-))

  • Deborah Parkin replied

    Thanks so much Sylvia – my children are wonderful. Sometimes they get fed up but it is amazing how willing there are. It is quite funny because when I was taking these pictures my husband kept shouting ‘look grumpy kids, mummy’s got the camera out’ lol!!! So we do have fun really :)

  • funkyfacestudio

    funkyfacestudio

    This is wonderful Deborah ! I am witness to this everyday at the school and it is a sad thing when you see children feeling isolated both on the playground and the lunch table. I try my best to help them. You have done a wonderful job portraying this feeling.

  • Deborah Parkin replied

    Thank you so much Lisa for your great comment – I don’t think I could work in a school to be honest – I think I would find it heartbreaking at times – thankfully people such as yourself are there to protect these kids. xx

  • waitin' for rain

    waitin' for rain

    great long perspective and point of view

  • Deborah Parkin replied

    Thanks so much Victor – always good to hear from you.

  • Donald Cameron

    Donald Cameron

    Great concept and execution, I think this is even stronger than your “playtime” shot. The focussing and vignette really draw the eye towards the child, and this sort of b&w style really does carry the feeling of isolation.

  • Deborah Parkin replied

    Thanks so much Donald for your really thoughtful comment – I really appreciate it.

  • liamcarroll

    liamcarroll

    very memorable and affecting, well done

  • Deborah Parkin replied

    Thank you so much liam for the comment and all the comments on my portfolio – I really appreciate you taking so much time :)

  • Anna Shaw

    Anna Shaw

    A moving and totally compelling image. A sure fave.
    xx

  • Deborah Parkin replied

    Thank you Anna – means a lot :)

  • stelo

    stelo

    Great capture!

  • Deborah Parkin replied

    Thanks so much stelo:)

  • GlennC

    GlennC

    Deborah, this is one of the best images I have seen on Redbubble. I struggle to take images of people, you have turned this black and white image into a story, or a piece of art that one wants to look at over and over. In doing so more or the complex emotions are revealed. Sadness, isolation, anger and resignation are all on display.
    Simply stunning.

  • Deborah Parkin replied

    Wow thanks Glenn ..high praise indeed :) I really appreciate your comment and am so pleased that you managed to get something from this image – thank you!

  • DaRkSiLeNcE

    DaRkSiLeNcE

    Very powerful & drawing image which highlights a major issue. I love what you have done here & you’ve also enabled people to speak out. I won’t deny that it’s not an easy path that this pathway of isolation leads you down. I felt it all throughout my childhood, more often than not being beaten up & teased. Not the most pleasant & it takes a long time to get over. Perhaps by speaking out more, highlighting the issue will help to prevent this haunting issue..
    An excellent capture and great depth of focus here Deborah…

  • Deborah Parkin replied

    Thank you so much DaRkSiLeNcE .. this is such an candid response and I am really grateful to you for it. I am so sorry that you had to endure this – it must have been awful. I hope you are now living a life that is much, much happier :) Thanks once again.

  • OldBirch

    OldBirch

    Excellent, on all levels.

  • Deborah Parkin replied

    Thank you OldBirch for your kind comment – really do appreciate it.

  • marshall calvert  IPA

    marshall calve...

    Deborah, this is so moving this brings back a load of memory’s for me like you I wasn’t bullied but i could have done a bit bulling 50 plus years ago, and all I thought it was a bit of fun but now we know it’s not, our bulling was just a bit pushing and pulling not the way that we see it today.
    your stunning image could and should be used by the press to highlight the problem as it doe’s this in spades. wonderful stuff

  • Deborah Parkin replied

    Thank you marshall for you honest comment and for all the support you give to my work – I am thrilled to bits that it makes people think all sad that it happens at all. Your comment means a lot to me :)

  • Emma Collins

    Emma Collins

    Dark and powerful but beautiful at the same time

  • Deborah Parkin replied

    Thanks so much Emma for you comment – really appreciate it :)

  • Shelly Hiebert

    Shelly Hiebert

    Wow….you have really captured the feeling of isolation here Deborah. Your work is always done with such class and quality and tells a story. Nicely done :)

  • Deborah Parkin replied

    Thanks Shelly for your lovely comment – really appreciate it and so pleased you like it.

  • Rosemary Scott

    Rosemary Scott

    Isolation, betrayal and loneliness….. you’ve portrayed this so well. Once again I have an ache in my chest, & my breath shortens. I don’t think I know anyone who captures these emotions quite like you do.
    Keep it up, this is such an important series.

  • Deborah Parkin replied

    Thank you so much Rosemary – that is such a compliment and I am very flattered – I really appreciate your comment :)

  • Jing3011

    Jing3011

    Powerful

  • Deborah Parkin replied

    thanks Jing :)

  • Dave Hiskey

    Dave Hiskey

    very powerful image in an understated way..well conceived and beautifully shot
    like it very much.

  • Deborah Parkin replied

    Thanks Dave – means a lot :)

  • berndt2

    berndt2

    great shot – beautiful composition, the sense of isolation and loneliness is completely palpable in this image. The dark undertone is there, of course, but there’s also a sense of privacy and intimacy too

  • Deborah Parkin replied

    Thanks so much for your thoughtful comment – I like the thought of ‘privacy and intimacy’ because I think this is how you feel if you are a victim of others behaviour … :)

  • JimFilmer

    JimFilmer

    very well presented…

  • Deborah Parkin replied

    Thanks so much Jim :)

  • Tamara Brandy

    Tamara Brandy

    I love this !! Actually, all of your work :)

  • Deborah Parkin replied

    Thanks Tamara – such a nice thing to say :) Really appreciate it x

  • Deborah Hally

    Deborah Hally

    Wonderful, Deb – love the perspective and general mood of this :)

  • Deborah Parkin replied

    Thanks Deb … means a lot .. really pleased you like it:)

  • jacqleen

    jacqleen

    I LOVEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE this….it has a HUNTING feeling to it…but so soooooo AWEsome :) wowwwwwww!

  • Deborah Parkin replied

    Thanks so much Jacqleen for you lovely comment – so nice :)

  • Magenta

    Magenta

    This entire series is so captivating. Great direction. I love them all.

  • Deborah Parkin replied

    Thanks Magenta for your continued support and encouragement – I really appreciate it. :)

  • Tania Rose

    Tania Rose

    a powerful image

  • Deborah Parkin replied

    Thanks so much Tania :)

  • Kofoed

    Kofoed

    Fantastic work, Deborah. I think you have mastered your task to perfection. A very strong image, and great B/W work.

  • Deborah Parkin replied

    Thanks Kofoed for you kind comment – really appreciate it.

  • collectivebydeb

    collectivebydeb

    powerful perspective chosen to create a real sense of isolation – this series is SO inspirational Deborah – really emotive & so brilliantly photographed

  • Deborah Parkin replied

    Thanks so much Deb .. really appreciate your continued support and comments :)

  • marcusjohn

    marcusjohn

    Brilliant !! so glad you put this up..more wonderful work from you Deb ;)

  • Deborah Parkin replied

    ah thanks Marcus .. always lovely to hear from you – hope you are well :)

  • lckk

    lckk

    Excellent shot!

  • Deborah Parkin replied

    thank you Ickk .. :)

  • Kieran O'Connor

    Kieran O'Connor

    Wonderful emotive image, well done!

  • Deborah Parkin replied

    Thank you Kieran for your kind comment – really appreciate it.

  • rubyred

    rubyred

    As a parent I can picture my two young girls in this image, I hope they never have to experience bullying. Great image.

  • Deborah Parkin replied

    Thanks rubyred … I feel the same way.

  • Graham Dean

    Graham Dean

    This is an amazing series Deb, what a response, it took me so long just to scroll here, I’m way past my bed time : ) I think you use your focus as brilliantly as your light. And what’s not seen hightens the impact of your artistic commentry.

  • Deborah Parkin replied

    Thanks Graham – really pleased you like this one :)

  • Denzil

    Denzil

    This series says important things about childhood and isolation and loneliness to me, but also about strength and resolve. I can relate to the loneliness articulated in this image, although I wasn’t really bullied at school (probably more a bully than a bullied, if the truth be known …), but I was lonely, and alone, and isolated, for most of my childhood … long story.
    These images really resonate with me, they speak in a powerful voice to my memories. Thank you!

  • Deborah Parkin replied

    Thank you so much Denzil for your honest comment – I hope I don’t sound patronising when I say it was brave of you to write this and gives us food for thought as to why people may bully – sometimes they are victims themselves.

  • CJTill

    CJTill

    Stunning work Deb’s

  • Deborah Parkin replied

    Thanks so much Colin :)

  • hsien-ku

    hsien-ku

    such a heartbreaking image – isolation can be crueler than taunts. beautiful work deborah

  • Deborah Parkin replied

    As ever thank you so much for your lovely insight .. I always love to hear what you think :)

  • Jean M. Laffitau

    Jean M. Laffitau

    It really shows all you wanted to show: isolation, betrayal and loneliness. Perfect in every way!

  • Deborah Parkin replied

    Thanks so much Jean .. really appreciate your kindness.

  • Peter Zentjens

    Peter Zentjens

    Great angle, great shot,
    and very, very emotive. Food for thought….

  • Deborah Parkin replied

    Thanks Peter – so pleased you like it :)

  • Mike Weeks

    Mike Weeks

    Very powerful image. Is the victim, feeling alone and isolated or is it the bully having been excluded from playing with friends and given time to reflect on the anti social behaviour – I think it could work either way.

  • Deborah Parkin replied

    Thanks Mike … really appreciate your comment .. and I agree could be seen both ways (which is good :))

  • palegirl

    palegirl

    Blimey this brings back memories, your BW is spot on you can see this from a wee jpeg. I went to three schools and was bullied at each for having red hair and pale skin couldn’t wait to leave hoorah for work eh ?

  • Deborah Parkin replied

    I bet you are having the last laugh – pale skin and red hair, beautiful! :) Thanks so much for you comment, really appreciate it.

  • Heather  Rivet  IPA
  • Deborah Parkin replied

    Thanks so much Heather :)

  • Adrian Jeffs

    Adrian Jeffs

    Loving this series… the way you can make an image talk is mind blowing…. Its funny how when I was a child (still am in many ways) i was always so popular and had a lot of friends but as I get older I can totally relate to this image… If i could close my eyes and see how I feel … this image would appear…

  • Deborah Parkin replied

    Wow Adrian what a great comment – thanks so much :) I know exactly what you mean … I think you can feel lonely when you are with memories of what was and left with what is…

  • Sean Farragher

    Sean Farragher

    brilliant

  • Deborah Parkin replied

    Thanks so much Sean :)

  • Bob Wickham

    Bob Wickham

    a picture that tells a story as powerful as this goes beyond mere photography

  • Deborah Parkin replied

    Thanks so much Bob for not just this comment but all the others too .. sorry for the delay – I am afraid life has been in the way :) I really appreciate them :)

  • bloorain

    bloorain

    o wow I love your work. I’m watching you!

  • Deborah Parkin replied

    thanks bloorain – such a nice thing to say – really do appreciate it.

  • ScottGustke

    ScottGustke

    This is phenomenal Deborah… Love it!

  • Deborah Parkin replied

    Thanks so much Scott :)

  • shararat

    shararat

    brilliant capture…great DOF…Love B&W

  • Deborah Parkin replied

    Thanks so much shararat – really appreciate your kind comment :)

  • Ingz

    Ingz

    extremely moving and beautiful work in everyway Deborah…I think everyone has or knows a story about bullying xxxx

  • Deborah Parkin replied

    Thanks so much Ingz for your kind comment and I agree we all have some kind of experience of bullying actual or witnessed and it is awful.

  • Citizen

    Citizen

    outstanding beautiful evocative excellent

  • Deborah Parkin replied

    Thank you Citizen not just for this comment but all your kind comments – I really do appreciate them. :)

  • Cathleen Tarawhiti

    Cathleen Taraw...

    Very cool perspective.

  • Ken Mucke

    Ken Mucke

    This is a very powerful image Deb. It really hits home for me as I was bullied in High School and it is such a horrible experience. You have captured the true feeling of it to the core….Very very powerful and important piece

  • Lauri7

    Lauri7 28 days ago

    You portray the concept so well Deborah, well done!!

  • LauraBroussard

    LauraBroussard 21 days ago

    Amazing !!!!

  • pmistric

    pmistric 16 days ago

    Bravo to you. This is so amazing. Such an emotive shot.

  • silvercircles

    silvercircles 13 days ago

    Awesome DOF and composition in general . . . Yes, wouldn’t it be nice if bullying finally stopped—nicer still if it had never been.

  • Nikki Mulkern

    Nikki Mulkern 5 days ago

    I love your pov in this shot, the black and white is fantastic as well!! It’s a very powerful image, lots of emotion. Wonderful work!

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